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10 May 16
22:46
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and only twice since last July since the birth of our beautiful daughter. I'm not the most romantic person but shes gone right off me and wont let me near her. Hope this is not what its going to be like for the rest of our marriage 
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Just be thankful for porn sites
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This is why men cheat, tell her that.
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She needs a good slap, imo.
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Tell her she can have a cesaerian next time.
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FFS man up and have it out with her. If you get no joy, the worlds yer oyster.
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Group1 for a reason
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Fact is I cant think of anything much worse than forcing her to do things she dont want to do. Have tried compliments, tried leaving her alone to see if she comes onto me and am just kinda resigned to the fact she just aint interested. She cant help it if shes not feeling horny but i thought it would have passed by now. Had a b/j Chrismas day but thats the last time any intimacy and had to badger her for that making me feel like crap.
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call yerself sharastanni
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not the muussy bit obv
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unlesss u got a decent tash
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DancingBraveTheBest
It's just dawned on me she may be seeing someone else. Is this a possibility, if so, make sure you get evidence of this infidelity so the divorce isn't costly for you. |
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FFS, just wash it.
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stay away from stones
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99.999999 per cent sure she aint cheating. We got a gorgeous little boy as well but this never happened after she gave birth to him.
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Its black and white to me....well the badgering bit is.
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ok.DOCTOR BRASSNECK HERE.This is what you do.
when she walks across the kitchen floor you say to her "freeze darling,dont move ,stop dead in your tracks,dont move a muscle" SHE will stop and freeze. then say"its just that whatever way you moving just now,reminded me of the time we met for the first time" She will melt in your arms within 10 mins,never fails.  |
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not looking for a cillit bang product brassy
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Cheers for the replies. Will give anything a go. I'm just confused as she is constantly telling me she loves me but when I tell her to show me how much she says that having sex is not showing someone how much you love them.
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sounds like a right lezzer imo.
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the psychology of the exercise is to release chemicals in her brain.
her first reaction to your statement will be fright,she will think there is a spider on her back,after the fright subsided and you tell her your reason her thoughts to you will become female loving thoughts and a chemical release occurs. a warm loving glow inside.this is psychology at its finest art. I assure you it works and her reactions to you will be the reaction you so miss at the moment. |
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I wouldnt have got married if id know it would be like this. Used to be fun. If i get divorced i'll never marry again. Nite all.
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Ill try it Brassneck.....cheers.
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Steve from Hawaii O tried that
Still surfing Honaloo loo |
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vasectomy
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she prob watched xhamsterx
put me off sex |
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Does she have nightmares of Greville Starkey riding her?
Could explain why you have been jocked off. |
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thing of the arc
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Show your wife a replay of the Arc, if that doesn't get her juices flowing then there is something wrong with her.
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I will not ruin your thread so I will finish with this little extra bit of psychology.
Alcoholism is a serious sickness that tells the sufferer he does not suffer from it. an alcoholic will never give up drink if you tell him to give it up. but if you tell an alcoholic he is a much nicer guy when he is not drinking .that statement will register with him and you will get better results. NOW THATS PSYCHOLIGY. this post has nothing to do with this thread buy may help someone. |
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Oui il elle mais oui n'est ca pas
all @ Paris Mutal |
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CI CD
Killer Couples on now |
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I'd say on one hand you need to be patient. Women can often go off sex for a variety of reasons following child birth and it can be different from one child to the next. Being understanding and supportive can be helpful. Equally, you have needs which aren't being fulfilled so it's not unreasonable to sit down and discuss it with her. She's right sex doesn't show someone you love them but intimacy up to and including making love does.
At some point you probably need to sit down and talk about this in an adult way and if you can't address whatever the issue is counselling may be the way forward for you both. |
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Jesus Christ pass me the phucking sick bucket eeternalprick, W H A T A P H U C K I N G S O P P Y N A U S E A T I N G post that was, what came over you? normally you never deviate away from the fantasy hardman image you've so desperately tried to carve out on here over the years
 All those years hard work, undone in just 4 slushy, mushy, lines  |
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http://www.mumsnet.com/info/search?query=Don%27t+want+to+have+sex
Heated - In the past, whenever I have tried to just sit on the couch and cuddle with him, or simply hug him, he goes too far. I have expressed to him many, many times that it bothers me that we can't just hug or cuddle without his hands traveling around. If we hug for instance, the next thing ya know his hands are down my pants and he's feeling my bottom. I don't mind that if we are getting ready to start something. But when I'm standing at the kitchen sink and he comes up behind me and starts feeling my breasts and humping my bottom, and then one hand starts down the front of my pants, it gets a little annoying. He claims this is how he shows affection. That's fine, I'm not telling him to change but I don't personally like it. Good old Mums Net ,one or three pages there that may help the OP ,Tbh i think theres more chance of the op finding the answer there ,guys are not very good at talking about this stuff imo . if you want cheering up ,Mumsnet never fails Woman seem so much better at talking about this stuff ,some of the advice seems from the heart . When it's 'lack of chemistry' with a 'good, kind person', it can depend on your definition of 'good kind person'. If your expectations are so low that you think he's wonderful because he doesn't hit or rape or verbally abuse you, but on the other hand does absolutely **** all around the house and expects to be waited on, then it's probably basic resentment that's stoppered your libido. Do you know what you like sexually and is he capable of giving it? In some cases, where a woman has been led to believe that 'love' makes for great sex, she may have been putting up with a bloke who is basically incompetent at it for years: technique is more important than a lot of people think. Ok not everyone wants to do it upside down in the wardrobe or master every position in the kama sutra, but if you have fallen into a sexual routine which is about getting him to pop his cork as quickly as possible and it's two minutes of nipple tweaking and one quick fumble round your hairy mary before he jumps on top, no wonder you're losing interest. Good old mumsnet |
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You helping out with the baby much,they don't like that if you're not putting your fair share in,when my daughter wss born I used to sit up from 2am-5am rocking her as wouldn't go to sleep.Try and getting a baysittter and have a night out as well,my partner and me always made sure we had a Friday or Saturday night off every fortnight,made a lot of difference especially after the first 9 months..
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Women....a tragedy us men need them
Perhaps she just wants it to be her and her baby daughter Try to persuade her to see a marriage councillor with you |
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As a complete failure with women myself I am the last one to advice you
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Google your problem on the Internet....you may find someone who has had similar problem
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I think you have a problem
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