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Can men truly love women, or is it just lust?
Can men truly love women, or is it just lust?
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that was to dave
 only the one persona annie,honest guv |
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Actually the around 40 would stack up.
I remember when I was 28 making a pass at a woman who was 42 at a party. She knocked me back, but earlier at the party a photo had been taken with me stood next to her and she was showing all her friends this younger man who had made a pass at her! (Confirmed to me by her daughter) |
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I would have said 40ish too until recently. There's a distinct "set in her ways" persona that she gives off which leads me to believe she might be older. I'll shoot for closer to 50. [;)]
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'Persona' - is this the language of a benefit scrounging, bedsit living, thai bride ordering poster? Answers, please.
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yep
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like your style Annie, lots of questions & no answers!
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Don't believe you
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Well the question was about men, not about me
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fair enough Annie, and I respect your privacy anyway!
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Can't believe you lot really. I've been married for 12 years and have 3 little girls.
I married my best mate, sex is sh1t after the first is born but the relationship moves on. And in fact you both become more independent and loving. I bet lots: my missus wouldn't even know how to write a bet out (risk scares her). I go out most nights for a few pints: my missus may have half a bottle of wine at home. I work to fund us tho I never really see it, always enough for a couple of grand but she takes the rest: my missus cares for our children and looks after the home. I have never been unfaithful to her, nor will I, cos she's my love and my life. I married her because she was my best mate - oh and I fancied her rotten of course. |
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pixie, and your point is what exactly?
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Yikes! only on Chit Chat could a bloke "marry his best mate"!!
Seriously though if someone wants to stay faithfull and loves their wive unconditionally and all that that's great. I think most guys love their missus but naturally onc e arelationship is a few years old you need to go elsewhere for sex. Couldnt imagine being in a crap sex relationship whats the point? always keep a mistress or use a brass if you must,takes the pressure of a loved one imo |
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annie - do you reckon we are all shallow then? I reckon that's a bit harsh and unrealistic if so. For real love to exist on a level where at no stage either partner has been 100% happy that no sex was fine within and out of the relationship is very unlikely. For a bloke to be aroused enough to have sex purely on a cerebral level from the early stages of a relationship is also unlikely imo.
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I think you're all a bunch of misogynistic tosspots. Sex does drop after child birth (or five years in my case). But hey ho, I still get it when I want. Just not with the same force of passion as in the past. I don't wanna go wHoring instead, nor do I want her to do the gardener!
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is it coz he is black pixie ?
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Cheers for tarring us all with the same brush pixie! Albeit in a past tense I can agree and relate to a lot of your previous post
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Misogynistic tosspots! This is fine from someone who leaves his wife at home to look after the kids whilst going out to drink most nights.
Why not spend a bit more quality time with your family before you start judging others. |
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a bitofinterest, No, it's cos he's nearly 70. [;)]
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in that case you have every right to be concerned
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DaveEdwards, Why not spend a bit more quality time with your family before you start judging others.
Who's judging who? |
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All gardeners are complete deviants.
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You are. You said that we are all misogynistic tosspots, which for myself isn't really the case.
I merely responded in a way that highlighted that you are perhaps not best placed to offer opinions on others when you are someone who feels the need to be out drinking most nights of the week. |
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sexateurs and old rakes spring to mind..
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and all women are B1tches whether they know it or not (most do)
If you had the man of your dreams right now you'd fck him off sooner or later for some obscure reason so stop yer whining woman |
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 bito |
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No bush trimming gags? Ffs.
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Dave, don't be daft. How can Annie be a misogynist nor even you for that matter! When you write something or say something that broadly I expect the reader/hearer to take it how it was meant.
Hope this helps. |
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Old b1tches .. doesn't really bare calculating the logistics
Why not get a hooker in ? |
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an old hoe ?
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ok Pixie, be lucky.
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possibly a Shovel ..
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Women do not want to be wanted for their looks, they would like their partner to love them for themselves - but I fear this is totally unrealistic, judging by the replies on this thread.
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so why do they all look like Barbie & not speak much then ?
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you're only using this argument now you're past 50 ??
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Not true Annie. I have huge love for many girls in my life. I have two sisters who I adore and speak regularly to, I love my mum, my daughters, my wife.
I prefer male company but I love women. |
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I'd say many women want both. Yes of course they want to think that this guy would still be here if I put on a little weight, got ill ext. But if a women does make the effort in how she dresses, looks and keeps fit then if a man doesn't compliment her on it then he's in the dog house.
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they don't want you to Love them at all .. they want you to Want them ... totally different ball game !
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agreed HRH, worse than the dog house sometimes. I've been assaulted for not getting the compliment in on time!
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Once women pass the mid 40's most become horrific hags oth physicaly and mentally so you need to keep trading them in.
My long term bird is 32 (im 41) it's usualy best to keep about a 10yr age gap from the mid 30's onwards i think. When im about 60 a high quality mid to late 40's bird will suffice as rumpy is always mistress based anyway. After that who cares as your nearly dead anyway maybe an occasional brass? |