Mar 28, 2024 -- 9:43AM, HappyHibby wrote:
i've had to end the lives of two of my pets...hardest thing i've had to do...but it would have been 10 times harder watching them slowly evaporate in front of my very eyes...watching them in pain every second of every day...not being able to eat...not being able to control when they go to the toilet...that would have been utterly humiliating for them and soul destroying for me.
Same here HH, Happened to me last week, i cried like a baby for nearly a week,
But couldn't see her suffer, and i'd be the same with humans, watching my poor mum die with cancer at 57 years old,
suffer for the 6 weeks she knew she had left, Then watching my mother-in-law 18 months ago from
dementia , i thought how wicked keeping them alive. Its a sad state of affairs
Mar 28, 2024 -- 5:59PM, HappyHibby wrote:
sorry to hear that dambuster...you will get over it eventually...i couldn't speak to anyone for 4 days when i had to let my two go...even now i have my moments tbh...just the way it is i suppose...i know i did the right thing by them tho...pity we can't do the same for humans...just yet.
Got her ashes back today and had another cry, 
but as the kids said, she's back home now dad.

Even my dog would say, 'Get a grip old boy'.
Mar 28, 2024 -- 7:20PM, HappyHibby wrote:
yes i've got both my dog's ashes on the sideboard tbh dambuster...some folk think it's daft but i find it comforting...nowt wrong with a wee cry about it...as i say i sometimes still get a bit teary when i see something on the telly tbh...as long as you've got good memories that's all that counts.
Thanks HH
Mar 28, 2024 -- 6:56PM, impossible123 wrote:
I think if the decision to euthanise is solely made by the sick person and not somebody else thro' coercion then I'm all for it. I'd like the same for myself too if I was seriously or terminally ill, and in constant pain or badly disabled and my quality of life is severely depleted eg in a vegetative state.I hope a new law could be formulated and enacted to accommodate the sick or disabled person.
I totally agree with that.
I really cannot see what the problem is.