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WOMEN - how to get and keep them
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Annie is right - men are easy to work out, but so are women.
If you wanna pull a woman, try to be witty. Women don't want Bernard Manning type jokes. Next in is listen to what women say or at least pretend to. Women like a man to be confident also. The 'bad boys' may get the initial attention from women but that soon fades. So nice guys do win out in the end. Now keeping the woman is the next part of the thread. Don't see why anybody should stay with anybody when the gloss has worn off. What you were 5 years ago is different to the person you are now. Seems obvious that what you once loved - now you don't. So why hang on in there when there are new relationships to be had? |
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''Never try to impress a woman, because if you do she'll expect you to keep up the standard for the rest of your life.''
W. C. Fields. Make no mistake, women go for looks or money. Never mind what they say to the contrary. If you've got the looks or a bit of cash, you'll have to be pretty dumb not to have your choice of women. Of course that might exclude the real female beauties who have their own money, then they can take their pick of the men. If you're included in the above, your partner will forgive almost anything. It's all bullshine. |
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Don't make your woman the centre of your life.
Women generally dislike men who put their whole life around them and have no other purpose. Also find a woman that has complimentary energy to you. If you are an alpha masculine male do not pick an alpha female. Pick one who has a lot of feminine submissive energy. If you are naturally a submissive man pick a more dominant woman - although that is unlikely to last. |
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Annie is right that if you keep a man happpy in the bedroom then the relationship has more chance of flourishing. The problem is women do not have the same sexual urges and needs of men and therein lies the problem.
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Another point is Women tend to let themselves go a bit after they have snared there Man.
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And men always keep in shape and don't get a beer belly once they are comfortable in a relationship.
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No me.
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don't ever take advice on how to get women from women - they don't even know themselves what they want. most of attraction is subconscious and not a choice. naturally how you smell has as much to do with attraction as money or having a good sense of humour
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Mrs Baboon is very lovely....and very lucky to have me
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Annie is nice, and also screaming is a gent for answering my question.
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I do ok thank you. But from both sides ho ho
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Come on annie don't let this die off
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I have no trouble attracting cats...I just have to leave some cat food down
Never worked with women though...that is a tragedy  |
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Was at a restaurant yesterday and observed three women, which reminded me of the 'genuinely nice' thing.
I had placed my order and was waiting for it to be ready(new girl at the resto was clueless so had a lot of customers waiting). Two young women walk in and ask if their order is ready. Told to wait. Another woman(a jolly talkative type) walks in and inquires about her order in a louder than normal tone(which was just her way of talking). She's told to wait so she goes back out to have a smoke. The two young women talk among themselves about how funny that woman talks. Then they go back to their original topic of discussion, which was about a work colleague they had been criticizing for the last few mins. The jolly woman walks in again after a few min, inquires about her order by telling her name and spelling it out too. Then turns to the two young women explaining to them how she has a unique name and needs to spell it out for people. What followed was the nicest conversation i've ever heard between 3 ladies. As if they knew each other since childhood. The woman receives her order and leaves, at which point the other two go back to talking about how crazy that woman was. Then they conveniently went back to criticizing their work colleague again. Maybe they are programmed to act that way but that is some complicated programming. |
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I believe it detraveller, I worked in an office with a lot of women once
It baffled me a bit, still does really? |
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It was impossible to believe they were talking to and about the same woman???????????
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Men are a lot more violent and women are a lot more caring (for the sick, elderley and children). It's genetic and has always been the way throughout history. I imagine that's where annie is coming from. Of course they, are also a lot more bitchy and disingenuous. In short, women are nicer to people in person, mean are nicer behind their backs.
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Men are a lot more violent and women are a lot more caring
Because for centuries women took the easier job of staying at home while convincing men that they were supposed to fight animals, work in the fields, bring home food etc. So when men went out they developed their nasty side. Then women played the double game and told them if they wanted to get and keep women, they'd have to hide their nasty side. |
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Hi annie,
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More like men chose to work in the fields and fight animals because genetically (mentally and physically) that's what they were better suited to do. Different world now ofc
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Hi, foxy, so nice to see a friendly 'face' on this thread
 You have always been nice to me, thank you. |
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Agreed CLYDEBANK29.
But I disagree about women being a lot more bitchy and disingenuous. But then I don't associate with women like that, but it seems that a lot of men on this site do. |
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You're most welcome. always found pour posts interesting, fair and well described. |
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your*
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Thanks again, foxy, you have cheered me up.
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A Scottish manual worker killed his partner before raping and killing her teenage daughter at a flat in Newry, County Down, an inquest has heard.
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A 23-year-old man has admitted murdering and sexually assaulting an 89-year-old widow in her own bed.
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I could go on but you get the point.
Some chit chatters have questioned my point about women being nicer than men. Only 5% of the prison population are women I have read. |
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Well you have certainly got us men there annie..difficult to say anything good about these pair of beauties.
Men have a natural VIOLENCE built in, it was necessary once of the human species would not be here, but seems more of a nuisance now. Perhaps we have to learn to judge people regardless of sex, there are women who have committed murder. I don't think anyone who posts on here make or female has killed anyone, I trust. Mind you some of us have thought of it, if say a jockey drops his/her hands a stride too early, and other such instances. |
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Women deal violence but it is primarily psychological, manufactured drama, silences etc etc
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Scissor Sisters (convicted killers) - Wikipedia - Dublin
Linda and Charlotte Mulhall are sisters from Dublin, Ireland, known for having killed and dismembered their mother's boyfriend, Farah Swaleh Noor, it's not a broad brush |
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I don't understand annie's examples to prove women are nicer. I don't have a problem believing that they are indeed nicer, but the two examples are irrelevant. Men are definitely violent. That's because they can afford to be. Women wouldn't dare snatch a wallet from a man, unless they are Ronda Rusi or whatever the name of that ufc gal is.
I am a very skinny guy and have always avoided fights. That's because I cannot play the tough guy game. I can push someone, but I won't be able to take his push, so I either avoid the fight or deal a good first blow. It has nothing to do with me being nice, just physical limitations. |
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One former brit drug forces head is on record saying they would let women go because one, they had kids in the house and two, they didn't want to deal with the headache of having to prove to social services that this woman was a criminal.
But using crime to prove that one gender is nicer than the other doesn't make any sense to me. Women don't commit crimes because in many cases they simply can't. No one would hire a woman to rob a bank or kill someone. |
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Exactly, its like saying the average 80 year old is a lovely fellow because he shuffles along minding his own business... he can't physically afford to do much else so is hardly likely to show his "nasty " side. Women for the most part cant overpower men yet verbally are far more bitchy and shouty in my experience showing its nothing to do with being nice or not nice but working within your physical limitations
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'No one would hire a woman to rob a bank or kill someone'.Ever heard of Bonnie Elizabeth Parker dt,
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Don't think she worked for anyone.
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Annie's thread description makes for a hilarious reading now. She was right in not posting on this topic for years. That glass of wine lured her in.
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Are most cases of violence involving men against other men. Therefore its not so much to do with physical capabilities, but more to do with men being more violent
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