I went to A Police Station, yesterday . . .

So was I.  When I was 6 and also by a relative.  It happened a few times.  "Don't tell anyone" they said and so naturally, being a kid, I told my mum.  It was all hushed up (and did stop) but I realised as I got older that it was put under the carpet in order to protect the abuser and that annoys me.  My girlfriend knows, but that is all.  I won't be going to the police for two reasons.  Firstly, sheer embarrassment of having family members look at me and *imagine*.  Secondly, I can't prove it.  It's my word against his and I know which side my mum, the one person I told, would back.  I can't say it's affected me in the way it does other people.  The thing that gets me is the way it was covered up and the abuser now has a successful career in the city and everyone thinks the sun shines out of his arse.  I sometimes find myself thinking of ways I could damage his life.  Not through violence; that would simply result in my getting into trouble and he's not worth that.  But there are other, more subtle, ways that people can have "bad luck".  Maybe I will, maybe I won't.  Good luck with your case, though.

Thank you for that contribution , lybertyne .

As it happens my abuser also has a very good job , highly paid , etc . Well he did have 3 years ago ,
I was then told that he was in Hospital and near deaths door after having had serious heart trouble .
He recovered but I don't know if he then retired or not .

By the way , he could possibly be a member of the betfair forum because he loves gambling , despite him being p1ss poor at it .
The last time I saw him was at my mothers funeral 10 years ago and I heard him talking about placing over
a grand on a horse in The Gold Cup at Cheltenham . I heard him say he placed that bet at Betfair .
That bet lost . He's going to lose again if this thing goes to court .

lybertyne , You know what , I was so so sexually naive when I was aged 11 , I thought babies came out of a
woman's belly button  , I'm not joking .

good luck culvin, and to you lybertyne.

brave thing to do.

Good luck to you brave gentlemen.

I can't imagine the pain and anguish you've suffered.

I pray that the perpetrators receive justice.

Thank you ,... you .have . to .laugh...and Mr Eboue .

chin up, Culvin, i hope you find what you're looking for
Lybertyne: I admire your patience

I'm proper chinned up , Mate . I feel Great !

I've never felt better or more able , in all my life .

Paris , threw the f00kin kitchen sink of negativity at me and I did seriously buckle at times
but I took it all on the chin and when I happily returned to England , I returned The Victor .

My next little adventure abroad will be to Rome . Maybe next month , not sure
because I've got a lot on my plate at the moment .

By the way , Baphornet ' I think you're one of the best chit chatters here .

All The Very Best To You .

Ps , Any chance I could meet your
beautiful lady someday , ha ha .

^ It's very tempting - but I think I'll leave it!

Thank you for resisting tempation , The Management .

^ Temptation .

You're very welcome - I appreciate you setting it up for me anyway - it took all my self control but I don't like to win via a tap-in.

I hope the Romans are kind to you.

I only hope the The very many beautiful woman of Rome are kind to me , The Management .
But I'm not greedy , I'll happily just settle for one beauty .

I've actually got a few beauties on the go at the minute , but that's OK because all those lovelies understand that
it's all just fun and games . I don't tell lies to any of them
and I never will .

I'm not some sort of stud pathetically trying to impress by bed notching . I don't actually put my c. o . c . k ,
into any of my special female friends , I just like to kiss and cuddle them and do other little lovely things ,
know what I mean ?

Very brave of you both to share your stories on here, sometimes it really can help to talk anonymously on this forum and we certainly are, between us, a very eclectic and sympathetic bunch of people. I wish you both the very best whatever the outcome, best of luck.

Thanks and Cheers , Slippy !

I am very sorry to hear what happened to you Culvin and Lybertyne

You are very brave to have survived it, I wish you well


It shows how important it is to protect children from these appalling predators


I wish you both well in the future, and hope you can deal with the fallout better, you were both victims

This world can an eveil place at times.

Thank you very much for that post , UBLE/REGY .

UPDATE .

I was contacted the following day by The Police Officer who I spoke to
at The Police Station on Monday . She gave me a reference number .

I was then contacted by a police detective yesterday and informed by her that she
would like to speak to me in about a months time when she returns from her holiday .

I got the impression from her that something interesting may have been found
about Nutjob when they ran his name into the police computer .

I'll know for sure when I meet and speak to her next month .

Culvin
I was then contacted by a police detective yesterday and informed by her that she
would like to speak to me in about a months time when she returns from her holiday

Are you certain they're taking this seriously. Not exactly pulling up any trees is she? Sounds a little like she's saying "Sorry to hear you've been rogered senseless, I'll take a look at it when I'm back from Mykonos".

I very much sensed that she was taking it seriously , Johnny .

She told me she was about to holiday in Rhyl , by the way .

You ever been there , Johnny ?

I believe it's a complete dump now ,
but I loved going there as a kid .

culvin

Brave of you. Hope it hasn't stopped you living a full life.

I bin through it en route to Conwy.

A very sensitive , and some would say , emotional thread including personal accounts from two very brave posters . It may prove valuable to anyone else out there who may have experience similar traumas who maybe don't have the courage to speak out .

And then we have the obligatory nonsensical garbage from the forum funt who , as ever , attempts to trivialise an otherwise very serious thread

mouse muldoon • July 11, 2019 2:15 PM BST
I bin through it en route to Conwy.

To @Culvin and @Lybertyne : I sincerely hope you both , and others who have had similar experiences , are able one day to put all of this behind you . My heart goes out to you both

Well said, Reynard.

There's a time and a place for acting the goat, and this isn't it.