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Advice for man caught having afair
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Have you thought of starting at the bottom again and opening something else, a burger van for instance?
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Dump her.
Move on. Next... |
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Evski, serious question, not taking the mick...do you get off on being a cuckolded man? if yes, you're in clover. If no, dump her, she's taken the **** too often and every night she's in San Fran you'll be wondering and some of those nights she'll likely be getting shagged .
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Cuckold was indeed the word that came to my mind while reading your posts. It's quite clear that you need her more than she wants you. If you are really desperate, then you should consider moving to SF with her. Maybe just suggest to see her reaction. But, all in all, it's game over. You better move on.
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my take is that if you're not married you can't be criticised for having a fling with anyone else....once you're married you'll find that within a few years you'll have the opportunity to conduct an affair and if you do suggest you don't let spouse get onto your computer and certainly not your phone....a duplicate phone is often required.
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If you want to shagg about, don't get married. If you're fed up, say 'I'm fed up, want to play around so best we split up'
Or don't and stay loyal. |
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My ex wife was similar to what your fiancee sounds like.
Trouble is we had a kid. My advice: run a million miles, never have anything to do with her again, and be very grateful that you can get away before it's too late. If you marry this woman I guarantee she'll take whatever you manage to build up once you've got over your current financial situation. If you have kids with her you'll regret it forever. Run. And if your 1st version was true, then I'd give the same advice to her. |
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Wise words Howard.
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SF - stand for Science Fiction maybe?
Seriously :- one of BF chit-chats finest moments. |
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Everyone cheats, fortunately few get caught.
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hes right everyone cheats.
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If your partner does go back to san fran its 1.01 she will end up back in the sack with him. And thats a FACT. They work too close together for this not to happen. The chemistry between them is still there and will never go away while being so near to each other. Sex Hormones are a powerful thing. Her mind will race with the thoughts of them together making the urge to get together again tooooooooooooo strong. I'm sorry that you didn't want to here this. But thats how it will be.
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The sex with the other will be dangerous and exciting, and she will not be able to forget it!
It don`t mean his meat has extra girth compared to yours. It just means mentally and emotionally his shlong hits the spot. |
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Everyone cheats, but not everyone carries on after they've been caught out, then expects to be able to go back and spend the year working with the person they were cheating with.
She doesn't care about you in the slightest. You desperately need to end this relationship straight away you'll be very well rid. |
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All this everyone cheats stuff is nonsense. I've known many that do, many that don't. Very short odds that she'll cheat on you again though. You need to learn to let go of all the negative insecurities and learn to enjoy it, or, ditch her.
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The SF girl must be as thick as a plank you cannot spell
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Evski, you're a mug. When you wake up, clear up the dribble in your pants and go to a dating agency...set your standards very low and you might eventually get lucky. In the meantime, get some porn!
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dizzydavid1 20 Nov 12 18:36
All this everyone cheats stuff is nonsense. I've known many that do, many that don't. .......and the only reason they haven't is because they have yet to be given the chance. |
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^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ not true in many cases, in my experience. true in others.
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In difficult circumstances ask yourself - what would Joey from Friends do - suggest a 3-way.
When the cards have landed even worse than that some people ask themselves what Jesus would do in the same situation - he'd forgive them both But tradition has it that when times are really gruesome the true chit-chatter asks themselves 'What would Bob ( Mugabe ) do?' So tell the girl she will rot in the den of homesexuality in the country that is applying illegal sanctions, and go take a white farm. |
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 quality threadonly thing missing is a thread off someone claiming to be the pimp in SF, 5 years ago there would have been dozens by now! |
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I think what's missing is the Calvinator.
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fkqmz Ive not been in chit chat for a few years now and i noticed that. came in looking for a giggle, got a bit of one but not the quality of replies I was expecting
The burger van one is probably the highlight so far |
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This sounds like a Les Dennis situation.
[from Big Money] Les Dennis: Name something people take with them to the beach. Bob Johnson: Turkey. Les Dennis: The first thing you buy in a supermarket. Bob Johnson: [laughs] Uh, turkey. Les Dennis: A food often stuffed. Bob Johnson: [laughs again] Turkey! Moral of the story - Once you come to a decision never look back.. |