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Get him really drunk and bang him, it's your only option.
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Have you seen Mrs Doubtfire?
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Sounds to me like howard isn't all there. The elevator doesn't go all the way to the top, he isn't playing with a full set of cards and he is serious trouble one way or another.
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Move on and get "next chick" innit!!
You are too inner and extra mi bredrin. Don't bait next chick up, but show next gyal to your ex and see wa gwarning. Seen and Peace. |
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shoot him in the face a shocking omission :0
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'She's only a girl'
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How can I split up my wife and her boyfriend?
"A bucket of cold water" also a surprising omission imo. |
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its over get over itand move on
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Sparkmaster.....you are not promoting rape as an option.....surely...
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Lager Khan, we split when she **ed on me, she tried several times to get back together but i was an idiot and let pride get in the way. the guy she's with now is a different one, she seems reasonably happy with him and doesn't seem specially interested in me anymore, whereas now i've realised what i've lost i'm desperate to get my family back if i can
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It's not easy, but it sounds like you need to reassess your future vision of playing happy families. I broke up with my ex (and mother of my 3 kids) for 6 months before we decided to give it another go, both probably primarily 'for the kids' if we were honest - which we weren't. After a few months, all the old problems resurfaced and we realised we'd made a mistake. Because it had happened once before, my son was hoping we would again get back together, and it hit him hard and took quite a few months to realise this wasn't going to happen.
Thankfully, the children are now happier as they live with a less stressed mother who can devote the time previously aimed at saving our relationship on to her children. They are also happier around me, although obviously I miss the day to day contact like mad. In short, just try and move on from her and build your relationship with your daughter, and try and keep things civil with her mother even if it means biting your lip once in a while. |
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sound advice from hh
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hrh even :)
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I don't see how splitting her up from her current BF would help, without sounding harsh, it sounds like she's rather** anybody in preference to you.
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Yeah, well don't expect it to happen too often cos' it comes around about as often as Haley's Comet!
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get his mobile number and sign him up to loads of porn stuff, im sure she will start to ask who keeps texting u and u know the rest.
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fact is howard, shes moved on, if she wanted u, she wouldnt be dating him...
sometimes its hard, but best to get on with your life.. |
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Haven't read all the thread but please tell me that chit chat standards have not slipped so much that it has got this far without anyone suggesting that you get to know him well and start a frenzid **sexual affair, banishing all of his desires for wifey in favour of bi-weekly bumming sessions on an allotment
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Howard, a few questions
Did you do the halifax ads? Do you think this man satisfies your wife in ways you never could? Could you beat him up? |
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He obviously holds more appeal. Case closed.
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Just rest happily in the knowledge that if she **ed on you, she's bound to ** on the this fella too. Unfortunately tramps like this have infiltrated many a would be happy family unit.
They start logging on to social networking sites and see ''Chazza69'' and ''King Deano''smiling in some childish pose from the latest stag do from Blackpool for the lads from Manchester North Secondary class of 1989. Then suddenly she's meeting up with half of them on the sly and getting her back door smashed in. Be glad your rid of this gutter rat and move on. |
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OK,
Ask yourself why she was **ing in the first place? Now moving on. If you still want her back, instead of plotting up some trick why not just make sure you are there when the new b/f isn't and tell her that you still love her and want her back. Get straight to it and be a man. Sneaking about trying to pull a silly trick? Have you any idea what an idiot you'll look if it all came out on top? As for the threat of violence, it isn't likely to work. You can't do it yourself and so you'll need help. This would need paying for and again is highly likely to backfire on you when it comes out a few months later. Tell her straight you want her back. If the answer is no, you'll be upset, dust yourself down and move on. |
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:^0 BS.
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BS speaks from prior experiences methinks :p
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''and getting her back door smashed in. Be glad your rid of this gutter rat ''
B.S., it's you're rid of this gutter rat, not your ;) |
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What days does she feed the ducks?
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wait until it starts on the maintenance script!!
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Genius post from B.S :D
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maintenance etc is all sorted, she's actually a lot happier since she's been with him so she's stopped fighting me over access so i should be incredibly pleased. Original question still stands though! The best suggestion is hire a girlfriend I might do that!
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she has got 3 holes you know, maybe you can both just share them.
sounds like her *****might resemble a 20 quid ham sandwich so i'd book the other 2 holes if i were u and let him bash away at her big ham roll. hth |
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It sounds to me like you need to go round there and ring the doorbell with your old man in one hand and a jar of vaseline in the other.
Whoever opens the door, you immediately bang into next week, hence complicating their new cosy family unit. Unles your daughter answers the door. If your daughter answers the door, make your excuses and leave. |
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Chances are you wont get a real one, very sad thread, don't you want to know some left over turkey recipes or where Jamesblake's fat arse lives or something.?
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Hire a girlfriend?
FFS why don't you just get a girlfriend you never know you might end up liking her more and she might not ** on you, plus you get all the benefits of a real gf. |
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howardisawinker 06 Jan 14:42
maintenance etc is all sorted, she's actually a lot happier since she's been with him so she's stopped fighting me over access so i should be incredibly pleased. Original question still stands though! The best suggestion is hire a girlfriend I might do that! This man needs to get some, and quick imo. |
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Hire a boyfriend, it will surprise her more.
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Sad how the forum reflexly presumes the wife to be a skank, w*ore etc without any real knowledge of the circs involved.
orioles 06 Jan 09:50 That is the forum's view of women in general, I'm afraid. A few posts later and it was revealed that ,as ever, chitchat was correct and said woman is a **. Never doubt chitchat, you can't fathom its propensity for knowing. ;) Just joshing howard. |
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logikal 06 Jan 14:46
Hire a girlfriend? FFS why don't you just get a girlfriend you never know you might end up liking her more and she might not ** on you, plus you get all the benefits of a real gf Because I need a young, fit one at short notice |
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Howard, she left you and you're down, your self esteem is at an all time low coz the woman you love is happy with another man, and every time you close your eyes you see her sucking his**. Every sentence you write screams it. While you're thinking like this you've got no chance in the world of getting her back. She won't respect any attempt or half baked scheme you have, to get her back, in fact your behaviour since the separation has probably made it clear to her that she can snap her fingers any time she wants and you'll come running.
If that is so, she will see straight through this escort hiring business. Your only hope is to make a complete break if possible, hardly acknowledge her as you pick up your daughter. Be polite and aloof and leave her alone. If she has any feelings left for you, it may rekindle but don't hold your breath, just learn how to live alone for a while. |
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Hoss, you're right, but I've got far more chance of it rekindling if she splits up with the bf, I still haven't really got a way to do that unfortunately
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You need to stop obsessing about this woman and try and meet others, it's a big mental thing but actual physical contact with another will almost certainly change your view.(I'm guessing there has been no one since)
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