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My nickname should not have been Diddles- but when i was four years old - I had no control over that destiny.
I'm sure its hampered my way through lifes ups and downs.
Has anyone else been lumbered with an name they hate?
I'm sure its hampered my way through lifes ups and downs.
Has anyone else been lumbered with an name they hate?
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One of my biggest mistakes in life was clicking on this thread...dearie me
diddles, (good afternoon) is you taking the piddles?
Who cares really, this would be a tedious thread on chit chat nevermind Horse Racing.
not really saddo - choc full of idiots and compulsive gamblers imo!!! How's it going mate?
got a mate been nicknamed**y ever since he was a kid. he,s now about 40 but still gets called that.
alistair i havnt had a bet but the swinbank newcommer is well bred for speed and the breeder is still the owner so i guess - if i was and im not id back that one
Its not mine -- iBut my mum had 200 @ 11-8 - i assure u its not my money-- i dont back horses to win on here very often the liquidity is non existant - if you put 5 grand up it would be 4-6 before u could blink
Anyone with some intention could manipulate a midweek bumper using 2 grand - then lay it back on the off
I have £200 @ 2.32, my first back of the day. Been a good ay laying silly favs
This is the thread I saw so didn't back it.Wouldn't bother me if I had backed it,it wouldn't be the first loser Alan had tipped.Still nicely ahead thanks :)
i cant win can i -- they slated me yesterday said i dint tip the gypsy then when i proved i ha they slated me for backing a horse at weatherby that i didnt - hells bells
Diddles your quite lucky...imagine the ribbing i get with my nickname..
my mates surname is friday.
hes been called payday all his life.
diddels will be in touch.
ngt all.
hes been called payday all his life.
diddels will be in touch.
ngt all.
flem 06 Apr 22:22
Diddles your quite lucky...imagine the ribbing i get with my nickname..
cant imagine mate
come on then cough it up :^)
Diddles your quite lucky...imagine the ribbing i get with my nickname..
cant imagine mate
come on then cough it up :^)
Been coughing it up for years. Still got plenty left if you want me to cough a little more up.
no thanks mate ive been coughing someone elses up since i had my lung transplant :^0
I like that Grimster -- your lucky -- fancy having a man friday at your disposal.'YES BOSS'
The one thing about having a dodgy surname or nickname - people remember you- Its OK as long as they remember you for good reasons. Not so clever if your a complete pringle (Get my drift BOLTHEAD n SMELTIC)
Flem thats a brilliant nick .If you were my mate id call you COUGH UP- OR SWOLLOW.
The need for attention
Human beings are social creatures and need social interaction, feedback, and validation of their worth. The emotionally mature person doesn't need to go hunting for these; they gain it naturally from their daily life, especially from their work and from stable relationships. Daniel Goleman calls emotional maturity emotional intelligence, or EQ; he believes, and I agree, that EQ is a much better indicator of a person's character and value than intelligence quotient, or IQ.
The emotionally immature person, however, has low levels of self-esteem and self-confidence and consequently feels insecure; to counter these feelings of insecurity they will spend a large proportion of their lives creating situations in which they become the centre of attention. It may be that the need for attention is inversely proportional to emotional maturity, therefore anyone indulging in attention-seeking behaviours is telling you how emotionally immature they are.
Attention-seeking behaviour is surprisingly common. Being the centre of attention alleviates feelings of insecurity and inadequacy but the relief is temporary as the underlying problem remains unaddressed: low self-confidence and low self-esteem, and consequent low levels of self-worth and self-love.
Insecure and emotionally immature people often exhibit bullying behaviours, especially manipulation and deception. These are necessary in order to obtain attention which would not otherwise be forthcoming. Bullies and harassers have the emotional age of a young child and will exhibit temper tantrums, deceit, lying and manipulation to avoid exposure of their true nature and to evade accountability and sanction. This page lists some of the most common tactics bullies and manipulators employ to gain attention for themselves. An attention-seeker may exhibit several of the methods listed below.
Attention seeking methods
Attention-seeking is particularly noticeable with females so I've used the pronoun "she". Males also exhibit attention-seeking behaviour.
Attention seekers commonly exploit the suffering of others to gain attention for themselves. Or they may exploit their own suffering, or alleged suffering. In extreme forms, such as in Munchausen Syndrome By Proxy, the attention-seeker will deliberately cause suffering to others as a means of gaining attention.
Human beings are social creatures and need social interaction, feedback, and validation of their worth. The emotionally mature person doesn't need to go hunting for these; they gain it naturally from their daily life, especially from their work and from stable relationships. Daniel Goleman calls emotional maturity emotional intelligence, or EQ; he believes, and I agree, that EQ is a much better indicator of a person's character and value than intelligence quotient, or IQ.
The emotionally immature person, however, has low levels of self-esteem and self-confidence and consequently feels insecure; to counter these feelings of insecurity they will spend a large proportion of their lives creating situations in which they become the centre of attention. It may be that the need for attention is inversely proportional to emotional maturity, therefore anyone indulging in attention-seeking behaviours is telling you how emotionally immature they are.
Attention-seeking behaviour is surprisingly common. Being the centre of attention alleviates feelings of insecurity and inadequacy but the relief is temporary as the underlying problem remains unaddressed: low self-confidence and low self-esteem, and consequent low levels of self-worth and self-love.
Insecure and emotionally immature people often exhibit bullying behaviours, especially manipulation and deception. These are necessary in order to obtain attention which would not otherwise be forthcoming. Bullies and harassers have the emotional age of a young child and will exhibit temper tantrums, deceit, lying and manipulation to avoid exposure of their true nature and to evade accountability and sanction. This page lists some of the most common tactics bullies and manipulators employ to gain attention for themselves. An attention-seeker may exhibit several of the methods listed below.
Attention seeking methods
Attention-seeking is particularly noticeable with females so I've used the pronoun "she". Males also exhibit attention-seeking behaviour.
Attention seekers commonly exploit the suffering of others to gain attention for themselves. Or they may exploit their own suffering, or alleged suffering. In extreme forms, such as in Munchausen Syndrome By Proxy, the attention-seeker will deliberately cause suffering to others as a means of gaining attention.
Im sure the smelly chap above me ^^^^^ is trying to appear intelligent - hes clearly not as bright as he thinks as he always sends the same message out
The message is a self image and shows his untomost intense self indulgence
The message is a self image and shows his untomost intense self indulgence
hes on every one of my topics he clearly want be destructive - do you think thats rational
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