MY BIG MISTAKE IN LIFE

One of my biggest mistakes in life was clicking on this thread...dearie me

still recruiting, Diddies?

His email list must be worth a few bob, dharma.

not really saddo - choc full of idiots and compulsive gamblers imo!!! How's it going mate?

got a mate been nicknamed**y ever since he was a kid. he,s now about 40 but still gets called that.

saddo, just for you, a plaice... maybe... ;)

WHICH BEAST WE ON IN THE BUMPER DIDDLES?

Is this your money Alan?

so wat u bakin diddles

Anyone with some intention could manipulate a midweek bumper using 2 grand - then lay it back on the off

I have £200 @ 2.32, my first back of the day. Been a good ay laying silly favs

smelly read it now please

come on smelly

i cant win can i -- they slated me yesterday said i dint tip the gypsy then when i proved i ha they slated me for backing a horse at weatherby that i didnt - hells bells

my mates surname is friday.

hes been called payday all his life.

diddels will be in touch.

ngt all.

:^)

no thanks mate ive been coughing someone elses up since i had my lung transplant :^0

The one thing about having a dodgy surname or nickname - people remember you- Its OK as long as they remember you for good reasons. Not so clever if your a complete pringle (Get my drift BOLTHEAD n SMELTIC)

The need for attention

Human beings are social creatures and need social interaction, feedback, and validation of their worth. The emotionally mature person doesn't need to go hunting for these; they gain it naturally from their daily life, especially from their work and from stable relationships. Daniel Goleman calls emotional maturity emotional intelligence, or EQ; he believes, and I agree, that EQ is a much better indicator of a person's character and value than intelligence quotient, or IQ.

The emotionally immature person, however, has low levels of self-esteem and self-confidence and consequently feels insecure; to counter these feelings of insecurity they will spend a large proportion of their lives creating situations in which they become the centre of attention. It may be that the need for attention is inversely proportional to emotional maturity, therefore anyone indulging in attention-seeking behaviours is telling you how emotionally immature they are.

Attention-seeking behaviour is surprisingly common. Being the centre of attention alleviates feelings of insecurity and inadequacy but the relief is temporary as the underlying problem remains unaddressed: low self-confidence and low self-esteem, and consequent low levels of self-worth and self-love.

Insecure and emotionally immature people often exhibit bullying behaviours, especially manipulation and deception. These are necessary in order to obtain attention which would not otherwise be forthcoming. Bullies and harassers have the emotional age of a young child and will exhibit temper tantrums, deceit, lying and manipulation to avoid exposure of their true nature and to evade accountability and sanction. This page lists some of the most common tactics bullies and manipulators employ to gain attention for themselves. An attention-seeker may exhibit several of the methods listed below.

Attention seeking methods

Attention-seeking is particularly noticeable with females so I've used the pronoun "she". Males also exhibit attention-seeking behaviour.

Attention seekers commonly exploit the suffering of others to gain attention for themselves. Or they may exploit their own suffering, or alleged suffering. In extreme forms, such as in Munchausen Syndrome By Proxy, the attention-seeker will deliberately cause suffering to others as a means of gaining attention.

Yet you always prove his point by replying!