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How about some national tales - i'm sure collectively we have some interesting memories ?

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diddles
When: 04 Apr 10 07:08
Question - What was the name of the horse That fell when 4-6 fav over hurdles @Cheltenham as a novice who went to win the Grand national ?
Handicap 7LB allowance for those under 50
By:
diddles
When: 04 Apr 10 07:13
What about the time That Liverpudlian Lad got arrested for making love to his girlfriend behind beechers brook-
In court he asked for 27 other fences to be taken into consideration!!!!
By:
mange
When: 04 Apr 10 07:21
who took afence
By:
diddles
When: 04 Apr 10 08:10
There is one outsider, who if he gets in will love the wet conditions. creosote @200-1 they say he good over fences !!!
By:
diddles
When: 04 Apr 10 09:57
does anyone know the answer to my question?
By:
Celtic Son
When: 04 Apr 10 10:05
Attention seeking behavior
A child that wants attention will get it by some means. This is usually done in a positive way. They do a drawing or perform a play but by offering an adult the best of what they have to offer they seek and hopefully get some attention. In general children who are well adjusted tend to need attention on a little and not very often basis. As long as attention is given when needed, which is usually the case, things run smoothly. However, some children seem to have an insatiable desire for attention. They get positive attention galore yet they want more. They misbehave and quickly realise that certain behaviors can't be ignored by adults and engage in them. The class teacher will tell you they spend vast quantities of their time with the child yet it is never enough. The child if observed in class will be engaging in a whole host of activities all of which appear geared toward getting attention. It would be nothing noteworthy for children like this to have the teacher intervene with them every 2-3 minutes.

Often parents and teachers are confused. They will tell the psychologist that the child gets lots of attention, much more than any other member of the class, something that is supported by observation. The important thing to remember with humans, in such cases, is that we are never dealing with concrete realities. What we are dealing with is perceptions. If is rather convenient to see the child's thinking in terms of there being a black box through which all thinking must pass. The black box contains one simple instruction that is, "I do not get enough attention" . If we take on board this simple assumption we can now see why the child will behave in an attention seeking way for, instance after being taken out for a wonderful day out and absolutely showered with attention they come home and do something totally silly that guarantees more attention, albeit negative. So what to do?

The following intervention is extraordinarily powerful. It works just about every time and the only reason it fails is because the adult stops. Children never tire of this intervention. The intervention takes about ten minutes each day and is focused on the child's perceptual system.

Special Time.
Tell the child that they will be getting a special time each day.


Then each day tell them that special time will start in 2 minutes.
Tell the child that special time will start now.
Engage in special time.
Tell the child that special time will end in 2 minutes.
Tell the child that special time will end now.

You have therefore told the child four times that they are getting special time.

During special time the child may choose to do anything that is reasonable. They may want to watch a video with you or make a cake (use a ready made mix) for instance. Do not teach. Simply watch the child, helping if they request it, never offer. The adult watches the child and every so often sums up what the child is doing with praise for the skills shown. For instance I love the way you cuddle me. I love the way you are mixing that cake mix. This shows that the adult is paying attention. The analogy usually used is bathing the child in a warm bath of positive attention.

Do this every day.
Do not under any circumstances take away the special time as a sanction.
Even if the child has had an awful day, special time must occur.
By:
stewarts rise
When: 04 Apr 10 10:22
West Tip possibly!
By:
diddles
When: 04 Apr 10 10:25
thank you celtic what book or internet site did you copy that twoddle from ? it sure aint from your brain cell.
By:
diddles
When: 04 Apr 10 10:25
no sorry stuart wrong im afraid have another stab old boy
By:
diddles
When: 04 Apr 10 10:26
why dosnt some really clever person like celtic have a go-- if he gets it ill send him an easter egg
By:
Try My Best
When: 04 Apr 10 10:32
was it one of vincent o' briens
By:
duffy
When: 04 Apr 10 10:33
"i love the way you cuddle me" ..."special time" :-(
By:
stewarts rise
When: 04 Apr 10 10:33
i think the timespan since the 1st GN is to great, can we narrow it down a bit or another clue.
By:
YoungDuncan
When: 04 Apr 10 10:35
Alan,I've just emailed you,let me know if it's of any interest,thanks.
By:
Paddy Mayne
When: 04 Apr 10 10:41
That one of jenny Pitman's.. the name temporarily escapes me.. but that's advancing years for you! :_|
By:
Paddy Mayne
When: 04 Apr 10 10:42
Royal Ahlete!! :D
By:
stewarts rise
When: 04 Apr 10 10:50
It's not Royal Athlete.
By:
diddles
When: 04 Apr 10 10:54
nope your getting warm
By:
diddles
When: 04 Apr 10 10:55
YD ill look now ok
By:
J0KER
When: 04 Apr 10 11:02
Celtic... imo you are doing yourself no favours here mate ;)
By:
diddles
When: 04 Apr 10 11:18
celtic is a bully of the highest order - but never mind little things please him - its easter after all - he wants some one on his cross. well im not the man as i hate the sight of blood- especially my own
By:
diddles
When: 04 Apr 10 11:20
come on boys - think about this --shall i give a clue then?
By:
diddles
When: 04 Apr 10 11:26
its a difficult one I only know the answer because when i first stood up with my father in the late 60s at cheltenham we laid a 400/600 a huge bet for my father to lay at that time. He said the horse could not jump he fell at the top of the hill in that hurdle race-
When it then went on to win the national i reminded him of his statement that day. ok whats his name?
By:
lapsy pa
When: 04 Apr 10 11:30
l,escargot?
By:
Slippy Blue
When: 04 Apr 10 11:34
Red Alligator?
By:
diddles
When: 04 Apr 10 11:35
no sorry
By:
diddles
When: 04 Apr 10 11:36
hey come on there arnt many more clues surely
By:
diddles
When: 04 Apr 10 11:36
ok easter egg for the winner
By:
diddles
When: 04 Apr 10 11:37
a novice hurdler in the late 60s come on chaps
By:
diddles
When: 04 Apr 10 11:38
ok do you all give up?
By:
Try My Best
When: 04 Apr 10 11:38
Well to do
By:
diddles
When: 04 Apr 10 11:38
5 more minutes then
By:
diddles
When: 04 Apr 10 11:38
nope sorry
By:
diddles
When: 04 Apr 10 11:39
well to do was the captains i think didnt g thorner ride it
By:
Try My Best
When: 04 Apr 10 11:39
gay trip
By:
diddles
When: 04 Apr 10 11:40
lolo no not gay trip your getting warmer
By:
Try My Best
When: 04 Apr 10 11:41
specify
By:
diddles
When: 04 Apr 10 11:41
try again bestie
By:
diddles
When: 04 Apr 10 11:41
yes specify well done bestie
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