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Everton_2006
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Just a quick thought, how many of us on here can honestly say that not a day goes by without thinking about having a bet?

I'm not a big time gambler and go through stages every few months of on and off betting but during the stages when I'm actively involved in betting I've got to admit most of the day I'm wondering where my next bet will come from and what the risks are, the stats, the stakes etc...

What I have noticed however is that many of you use large stakes, sometimes reaching into 4 figure sums and it makes me wonder if that kind of bank has been built up has it taken months or years and has it been alot of frustration, elation and tears along the way in what must be a daily betting routine?
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Report ocukstinky June 10, 2013 9:26 PM BST
Another problem with mine is my obsession with numbers. From the age of 3 I was classed as having a genius IQ and I'm freakishly good with mental arithmetic, almost to the extent where i'm constantly doing some form of mathematics in my head. Keeps my brain thinking but I can't control it. Betting is another form of that, I guess. I could sit here for hours working things out. I have an eidetic memory so I can soak up a hell of a lot of information and remember it, especially on stuff I've bet on. I'll then try and use that information to my advantage the next time that person/team/whatever plays and work out what's a good bet and what isn't.

All in all JC I'm probably down over time. Had accounts since the day I turned 18, and a few years back on Laddies I'd worked out over the course of about 2 years I was £200 down. Not that much in the grand scheme of things, my Full Tilt account however doesn't make for pretty reading Laugh
Report The Bhoys June 10, 2013 9:31 PM BST
i actually was never as obsessed with gambling till i started betfair. that lay option screwed my head up Cry
Report JC1326 June 10, 2013 9:33 PM BST

Jun 10, 2013 -- 9:26PM, ocukstinky wrote:


Another problem with mine is my obsession with numbers. From the age of 3 I was classed as having a genius IQ and I'm freakishly good with mental arithmetic, almost to the extent where i'm constantly doing some form of mathematics in my head. Keeps my brain thinking but I can't control it. Betting is another form of that, I guess. I could sit here for hours working things out. I have an eidetic memory so I can soak up a hell of a lot of information and remember it, especially on stuff I've bet on. I'll then try and use that information to my advantage the next time that person/team/whatever plays and work out what's a good bet and what isn't.All in all JC I'm probably down over time. Had accounts since the day I turned 18, and a few years back on Laddies I'd worked out over the course of about 2 years I was £200 down. Not that much in the grand scheme of things, my Full Tilt account however doesn't make for pretty reading


Sadly my brother nearly ended his life over a gambling addiction and estimated he was probably 50k down overall, so that's a bit of perspective for anyone else's overall profit/loss, and a reminder about addiction too.

You need to be good at mental arithmetic with the scorelines in the ol' Estonian Cup Laugh

Report TheAltar June 10, 2013 9:40 PM BST
There probably isn't a day goes by where I don't think about gambling in some form. The last two or three years I have won 2 or 3K each year but it's an up and down cycle for me. I'm trying to eliminate the chasing bets when I know I have no edge and it is purely needing a bet. Stakes could be anything up to two or three hundred a time but that would be a big bet for me. That's only the last few years though. Before that I must have lost sheite loads on horses and fruit machies whilst growing up. Only football betting for me now unless just a fun bet on the Derby etc. That's my story....
Report ocukstinky June 10, 2013 9:40 PM BST
Lol yeah, most people can't count that far Crazy

Most of what I write in those threads I've remembered as well, haven't needed to look any of it up. Even 20 years from now I'll probably remember that Flora won 0-18 away at Reaal Tallinna..
Report Milan12Milan June 10, 2013 9:43 PM BST

Jun 10, 2013 -- 9:26PM, ocukstinky wrote:


Another problem with mine is my obsession with numbers. From the age of 3 I was classed as having a genius IQ and I'm freakishly good with mental arithmetic, almost to the extent where i'm constantly doing some form of mathematics in my head. Keeps my brain thinking but I can't control it. Betting is another form of that, I guess. I could sit here for hours working things out. I have an eidetic memory so I can soak up a hell of a lot of information and remember it, especially on stuff I've bet on. I'll then try and use that information to my advantage the next time that person/team/whatever plays and work out what's a good bet and what isn't.All in all JC I'm probably down over time. Had accounts since the day I turned 18, and a few years back on Laddies I'd worked out over the course of about 2 years I was £200 down. Not that much in the grand scheme of things, my Full Tilt account however doesn't make for pretty reading


Yeah... mate... I am on the same story mate..
Opened accounts since I turned 18 Sad
I never had a nice life... I don't drink, I don't go out much, I only literally work, so that at the end of the day, I can place the bets...
Throughout the past few years, I had lots of heartaches... impossible badbeats.. some lovely memories too... but yes, I tried to stop... but what will I do with my life without this?
That's life, I wonder would I have been if I never gambled...

To be frank, I have managed to get out of Poker... for the past year thanks to Betfair's interested trading system here... and I have significintly cut my losses..

But the thing is that until the season starts, I don't know how to spend my time...

I have a huge memory... thanks this betting... for example anything you ask me about football I know.. for example.. ask me what was the Roma line up of 2005.. anything..

Report The Bhoys June 10, 2013 9:46 PM BST
im down overall since joined betfair. can admit that but steadily geting back. football a killer for me and chasing aswell
Report Senyatta June 10, 2013 9:51 PM BST
look at halfloser22 he must make about a dozen threads every day on different sports and often tips two sides in a two horse race like the nba last night.at least none of us are that addicted at the end of the day.i dont bet big stakes much anymore.i realised i got the same buzz from a 5pound bet as i do a 200 one.
Report ocukstinky June 10, 2013 9:54 PM BST
I don't play poker any more, had a little dabble on Pokerstars a few months ago and got bored pretty quick. Deposited $10, built it to $95 after a day and withdrew it because I knew what'd happen if I didn't. That was the first time in a few years I'd played - had my heart set on playing at the WSOP just once in my life to experience it all, the day I needed a top 16 finished and came 24th when my KK ran into AK and he outdrew me hurt me big time. Didn't bother again after that. There have been times where I've totally lost control of what I'm doing, gone upstairs and given the wall a good thump and wondered "why the fork do you do this to yourself?", but I found smaller bets have less of an impact but the winning feeling is still there, perks you up a bit when it comes up.

I could NEVER place a bet as big as some people do on here, that takes a) a big bankroll and b) serious balls. Take the chap who had £111,000 on Woods to win the Open last year, that's some serious guts to do that. Biggest bet I've ever had was £120 at 4/6 which won comfortably but I was still cacking it the whole way through.

That guy's just an attention seeker, senyatta. Posted a treble including Barneveld in the darts then backs out of it because he's playing a British player at the UK Open. Great reasoning there. He hasn't got a clue what he's doing. I agree on the stakes part, the winning feeling is nice whether you've put £5 on at evens or £50 on at evens, yet a £50 loss will hurt a lot more than a £5 loss.
Report Half Loser 22 June 10, 2013 9:57 PM BST
Betting is pissing me off.
I just want to make £1m - £2m off a huge accumulator win, then make millions and a billion sometime.
I want to mug the bookies hard. And share the wealth.
It wastes my time, but as a diagnosed schizophrenic all I can do is bet and go to the gym and see friends and family. It bothers me wasting time because it's making my brain dumb. But what can I say? I appreciate life so it isn't all that bad.
But for people who want to win I recommend sticking to 2-3 bets certain winners each week and lumping on 20% of your bank, on odds of 1.36-1.6 for example.
Betting is a waste of time if you are not winning. A dire stinky ass waste of time.
Report Ernie__Bert June 10, 2013 10:03 PM BST
The Bhoys , all of your posts reflect a lot of punters on here including me. I rue the day I got involved with exchanges. There are thousands of punters on here who think they can and want to be their own little bookie. However its impossible for most. The longing to have a bet leads to poor decision making and bad staking and usually ends in tears. Its like a game of snakes and ladders. Ive lost a lot of money on here and only keep it small now as Ive run out of liquidity or potential liquidity.

One thing that really annoys me is on line casinos and all that goes with it. They lead the best people to the pits and are causing carnage everywhere. They should be banned. They have ruined the lives and finances of thousands of good people.

I wont ever stop having a punt as I enjoy it but punting large ammounts is not a good idea. Keep it small and dont bet to make a living as it cant be done for most. An intelligent chap I work with said that people who have no interest in sports and have good math skills can be more successful at this game.
Report OldGold June 10, 2013 10:12 PM BST
"But for people who want to win I recommend sticking to 2-3 bets certain winners each week and lumping on 20% of your bank, on odds of 1.36-1.6 for example."

fckin ell, words fail meCry
Report mikenz June 10, 2013 10:33 PM BST
If you have a problem with betting then one needs to change their thinking, i know , ive givein betting a bit of a thrashing last year or two, mainly due to being online , then its the mobile phone and so on and so on, have lost out but thats life but maybe instead of spending time on betting sites maybe if you are gunna be online maybe go watch music or play games or read through wikepidia , maybe learn something new, ive always enjoyed a bet or two ,initially only on our local betting agency but then starting learning about online sites then one thing leads to another, like playing the numbers or card games.

After time you seem to end up with same old result, and , you sorta wonder how long you can waste time and money on these sort of places, like i have to admit that im not really that interested in those eastern europe soccer comps but by being online can find oneself betting on a goal being scored while lying in bed at 4 30 in the morn, now thats overkill on online time i reckon, but keeping a balance on time spent here or online completely is import.

Its simply about striking the right balance, you get sick of the same old thing day in day out, ive become increasingly bored by lots of things online, and betting sites is no different, i will always like a few bets, its just about striking the right balance.

IF  i was a punter who say did this full time id probably bet a lot less , just being more select, a lot of the markets or options you bet on are often like flipping a coin, its 50 50,sometimes your in sometimes your out
Report mikenz June 10, 2013 10:39 PM BST

Jun 10, 2013 -- 10:03PM, Ernie__Bert wrote:


The Bhoys , all of your posts reflect a lot of punters on here including me. I rue the day I got involved with exchanges. There are thousands of punters on here who think they can and want to be their own little bookie. However its impossible for most. The longing to have a bet leads to poor decision making and bad staking and usually ends in tears. Its like a game of snakes and ladders. Ive lost a lot of money on here and only keep it small now as Ive run out of liquidity or potential liquidity.One thing that really annoys me is on line casinos and all that goes with it. They lead the best people to the pits and are causing carnage everywhere. They should be banned. They have ruined the lives and finances of thousands of good people.I wont ever stop having a punt as I enjoy it but punting large ammounts is not a good idea. Keep it small and dont bet to make a living as it cant be done for most. An intelligent chap I work with said that people who have no interest in sports and have good math skills can be more successful at this game.


online casinos , i get hundreds of e mail with deposit bonuses etc from casino sites every week, played a few in the past now i just delete them , if you are hooked on them you just play till account reads zero , and if ya silly enough you load up again till same result, being online is too convieniant but as i say before its about wising up .

Report mikenz June 10, 2013 10:41 PM BST
as i say about getting bored its no different to the saturation you get of sport on tv after a while missing games dont bother ya, another one never far away from starting, same old same old.
Report MC Roller June 10, 2013 10:57 PM BST
Gambling ads on tv make me want to commit nuclear war acts. Nice smiley faces, women with big jugs, bet with us, everyone wins because it's so easy, have a great night gambling. No mention of the word lose anywhere, but there is a gamble responsibly message somewhere, if you have your binoculars handy.

Beer ads are just as bad, smiley faces again, have a great time sinking buds all night. No mention of how it can obliterate your insides, or turn you into john rambo outside the premises, staggering about challenging allcomers in your pi55stained jeans, and checked shirt covered in puked up burger and chips.
Report JC1326 June 10, 2013 11:22 PM BST

Jun 10, 2013 -- 9:54PM, ocukstinky wrote:


I don't play poker any more, had a little dabble on Pokerstars a few months ago and got bored pretty quick. Deposited $10, built it to $95 after a day and withdrew it because I knew what'd happen if I didn't. That was the first time in a few years I'd played - had my heart set on playing at the WSOP just once in my life to experience it all, the day I needed a top 16 finished and came 24th when my KK ran into AK and he outdrew me hurt me big time. Didn't bother again after that. There have been times where I've totally lost control of what I'm doing, gone upstairs and given the wall a good thump and wondered "why the fork do you do this to yourself?", but I found smaller bets have less of an impact but the winning feeling is still there, perks you up a bit when it comes up.I could NEVER place a bet as big as some people do on here, that takes a) a big bankroll and b) serious balls. Take the chap who had £111,000 on Woods to win the Open last year, that's some serious guts to do that. Biggest bet I've ever had was £120 at 4/6 which won comfortably but I was still cacking it the whole way through.That guy's just an attention seeker, senyatta. Posted a treble including Barneveld in the darts then backs out of it because he's playing a British player at the UK Open. Great reasoning there. He hasn't got a clue what he's doing. I agree on the stakes part, the winning feeling is nice whether you've put £5 on at evens or £50 on at evens, yet a £50 loss will hurt a lot more than a £5 loss.


Betting large amounts is hard. I had my largest ever outlay at the start of February on a Saturday afternoon of football, it was something I had to do, building a starting bank in one afternoon, the beginning of taking my gambling up several notches. I was just shaking at the beginning, and spent the next two hours walking around telling myself I never want to feel like this again, it was horrible, to be honest. The way I look at it is everything has a price, and if you want to make money for almost zero work, situations like that are the cost. £5 bets are much nicer Laugh

Report JC1326 June 10, 2013 11:24 PM BST
Thankfully afternoons like that are a one off, as then you're betting with the money you've won, which is a hell of a lot easier to take losing than money you've spent weeks working in a normal job for.
Report steview84 June 10, 2013 11:53 PM BST
what a hugely refreshing thread with a lot of honesty.  99% of us are losers Cry
i must admit if i kept to cricket and darts i'd earn my monthly income on here.  however the lure of the horses and football takes me into a loss most of the time.

its impossible to make any money out of the horses unless you are in the know.  with all the cries of corruption in football, cricket and snooker, horse racing is and always has been the most crooked sport going.

if any of you guys see me on the horse racing forum again tell me im a mug and to p!ss off back to the cricket.  thanks.
Report mikenz June 11, 2013 12:44 AM BST
and the other 1 percent who say they win are probably liars lol
Report mikenz June 11, 2013 12:48 AM BST
the other thing i find amusing is how the racing always saying we need to attract more young ppl, so they can survive on the next bunch of losers , true, when i was young i caught the horse bug, i can say ,after all the years ,never made a cent, now if i bet its just a few dollars and a bit of fun, all those exotic bets you take to win big usually only win now and then anyway
Report Darlo Bantam June 11, 2013 12:52 AM BST

Jun 10, 2013 -- 11:53PM, steview84 wrote:


what a hugely refreshing thread with a lot of honesty.  99% of us are losers i must admit if i kept to cricket and darts i'd earn my monthly income on here.  however the lure of the horses and football takes me into a loss most of the time.its impossible to make any money out of the horses unless you are in the know.  with all the cries of corruption in football, cricket and snooker, horse racing is and always has been the most crooked sport going.if any of you guys see me on the horse racing forum again tell me im a mug and to p!ss off back to the cricket.  thanks.


Horses is my downfall.

Report themightymac June 11, 2013 1:23 AM BST
Gambling has taken over my life since I was 7.

Family occasions are usually held when a big event is on and I can`t enjoy it because all I think about is my bet.

Good friends and family visit us and all I say is ffs trust them to come when the racing is on.

Friends phone me when I`ve just done my nuts and I feel like telling them all to f*** off!

I enjoy betting but I can honestly say it has ruined my life and I wish I had never started in the first place.
Report themover June 11, 2013 2:35 AM BST
everything is a gamble but some things aren't considered to be so... set up a new business - gamble, be employed - gamble (eg company goes t1ts leaving you with bills to pay but no job), borrow £200k from a bank and buy a house - gamble, cross the road - gamble, get married - gamble (a particularly bad one as that's 50% of your bank on one bet Laugh), buy a lottery ticket - gamble. So in answer to the OP no gambling hasn't taken over my life, life is a gamble Happy
Report Geesyerdosh June 11, 2013 2:44 AM BST
I used to gamble I suppose what you would call big amounts regularly risking 1 to 3k a bet. I was pretty good could build up a bank from a £100 to 5k+ in next to no time. But I couldn't handle losing. One bet would lose and before I knew it I'd have blown grands on the next thing that moved. Couldn't wait for the next day for a proper researched bet no had to be there and then no matter what it was. And the losing was devastating. Treat your friends and family like shiit and didn't want to know or see anyone for days. I'm not a psychologist but its amazing how the wins didn't have the opposite effect. You may be the life and soul for a day but then you were back down to the stress of risking money. Its no way to live your life.

Now my main thing is trading pre-off. I use a 2-3k bank and if I'm facing a loss I take it and move on to the next one. I still bet but the most is £50 and that's only now and then. I can go days without betting I don't even think about it unless there's a big event coming up (Royal Ascot for example) and I can live my life in a relaxed manner.

And I'm more successful now than I ever was cos I'd always eventually lose it.
Report AyersRock June 11, 2013 7:59 AM BST
one of the better threads on here
Report ocukstinky June 11, 2013 8:26 AM BST
I used to hate losing too, i always have done though. Sadly don't have a great temperament so it's quite easy to let rip at the smallest thing. Used to be a hardcore gamer and was in a quite competitive team for a few years and even though we were playing teams well above our level and losing (even though we knew we would) hurt me a lot. I stopped playing a game a few months ago that i'd played for almost 11 years and i feel so much better for it. Playing that and having a shocker then trotting off to have a bet of some kind was a recipe for disaster. If i'm having a bad day i'll try and stay away from the inevitable implosion, but on the flip side i feel i need to do something to take my mind off a bad day at work, and we're back to square one!
Report BobSievier June 11, 2013 8:26 AM BST
Only from 15 mins before the first race till 10 minutes after the last
Report therhino June 11, 2013 8:42 AM BST

Jun 11, 2013 -- 8:26AM, ocukstinky wrote:


I used to hate losing too, i always have done though. Sadly don't have a great temperament so it's quite easy to let rip at the smallest thing. Used to be a hardcore gamer and was in a quite competitive team for a few years and even though we were playing teams well above our level and losing (even though we knew we would) hurt me a lot. I stopped playing a game a few months ago that i'd played for almost 11 years and i feel so much better for it. Playing that and having a shocker then trotting off to have a bet of some kind was a recipe for disaster. If i'm having a bad day i'll try and stay away from the inevitable implosion, but on the flip side i feel i need to do something to take my mind off a bad day at work, and we're back to square one!


Go for a run or hit the gym. Avoid the computer, you think you have to log on but really you don't. Exercise gets the endorphins flowing which makes you feel good, then make yourself some nice food and watch a movie. Re-train your brain, if I can quit smoking, you can avoid the computer.

Report smithy91 June 11, 2013 9:09 AM BST
Going to bed and waking up the next morning is normally fine for me. Remember there's always another day :)
Report Do wah Diddy June 11, 2013 9:22 AM BST
THE MIGHTY MAC  SNAP
Report Over2.5 June 11, 2013 10:46 AM BST
good thread
Report kenilworth June 11, 2013 11:28 AM BST
Plays a big part of my hobbies, but then it always has
as my father was a bookmaker and so was I. It's playing
with numbers and betting is all about that.
Report CJ70 June 11, 2013 11:31 AM BST
Some very interesting and honest responses. I've given the high street bookies a few quid by those Saturday football coupons and picking a horse for the National if someone else was doing it, but I've never actually placed a bet at one. I'd not have a clue. I must have had a few online accounts where I had a few £ bets but my first exposure to real betting came via Betfair. I surprisingly received one of those use it or lose it E-mails in June 2011 as I can't even remember signing up and I'm still here.

When I first started it took me a month to realise you could green so I would trade cycling prices and leave the profit but have no liability. Most days I was ending with a total of £0.00 Laugh I remember picking up Bozic at 500's on one stage of the TdF and him trading as low as 10's after winning an intermediate sprint. My profit on that? £0.00! Since then I've made a steady profit and have a decent sized bank of which to play with. I don't try for the big wins and am happily just accumulating.

I'm quite lucky in the fact that I spend a lot of the time at the computer so can easily make a few shillings on the side. There are days like yesterday where I didn't place a bet as anything I wanted to bet on was either delayed or not going as I'd planned. Then there are days where you can be run off your feet trying to enter into to many markets at once and end up making errors. I managed to very publicly drop a four figure sum last week by somehow placing it on the 5000/1? outsider at 1/10. Obviously that isn't great, but at the end of the day I've only set myself back a few months, so no real harm done and a valuable lesson learned.
Report supersmith June 11, 2013 11:58 AM BST
Well to be honest, ever since gambling my way through uni (made reasonable money to fund my lifestyle there) it has been a significant part of my life. Of course I had to slow it down once I started a real job with not enough time to research etc which was fine for 1 year or so.

I then came into a rather significant amount of money about this time last year and one night I awoke to later realise that I had made (& lost) on a stupidly large bet that turns my stomach to this very day. The worst thing about it I honestly can't remember doing it but it made me think long and hard about who I am as a person as I had never done anything like it ever before (I have since added deposit limits etc.) What followed was months of alcohol, drugs and anger at everyone and anyone, but I could not tell anyone what I had done, I couldnt even bet anymore as my mindset was CHASE CHASE CHASE CHASE, rather than thinking logically. I finally snapped in December last year and told my sister - a huge relief.

Since then things have been much better, I started gambling again in Jan and am very slowly clawing the money back. It still hurts but I am taking it as a life long lesson that I will never, ever forget! In summary - I love gambling, the thrill and the money, but it MUST be done in moderation, with only what you can afford to lose, and in a controlled manner.
Report joshua tree June 11, 2013 12:28 PM BST
I ve been placing bets since I was 18 ( way before Betfair came along ). At that time I was betting on both horses and football, though only for beer money. I cant honestly say that it has taken over my life, but nowadays and since the dawn of the internet, as Kenilworth points out below, its become more of a numbers game to me.

I dont back horses now - I just stick to the footy and have done for some years. I tend to look at profit and loss over a season, some seasons I ve been down and others well up. I consider it an intellectual challenge, and I ve learned over the years to take the emotion out of betting, I m realistic enough to realise that as soon as the money is down, I might not see it again.
Report smithy91 June 11, 2013 12:54 PM BST
Great posts supersmith and tree :)
Report mecca June 11, 2013 1:11 PM BST
Great thread...... Another thing to consider is the health issue. Gambling is a very stressful game. Horse racing sends  the heart rate through the roof. I had a small heart attack last year & i am 'only' 49. Along with smoking, i am convinced gambling (especially horse racing) was a major factor in this. I realize now that i calmly  watch a tennis or football match and hopefully trade at the right time to make a profit -not much stress- but a horse race? that is completely different. The heart is pounding like a Bangra Drummer. How many times have you looked all over the winner & get beat a head on the line? 
My first ever bet was in the early '70s on a horse called Red Rum. My dad put 25p Ew on for me & my sister had a horse called Crisp. She was shouting her head off as Crisp looked like winning........ well you know what happened, no wonder i was hooked on racing after that!
In my opinion, there is something about backing the winner of a horse race that eclipses every other form of gambling, unfortunately for me, i am no good at picking winners. I dread to think how much i have lost on racing over the years...... yet i do Ok on sports betting. Now where is the logic in this? Why don't i just knock the GGs on the head? There lies the problem for me personally.
Report patrick starr June 11, 2013 1:20 PM BST
if you care about the result or your heart rate increases whilst watching an event you are betting too heavy and will suffer the consequences.
Report Zazu June 11, 2013 1:35 PM BST
have you ever noticed how boring life is without stress/adrenaline?

gambling, drugs, exercise, career - most people have an addiction is some form or another.
Report raspberrybottom June 11, 2013 1:45 PM BST
First ever bet I had on a horse won at 9/2 second favourite.

This was after an old-timer in the bookie's had assured me the favourite

would win doing handstands.

I remember thinking how easy it was !

My second bet was the following day - an e/w bet on a horse that won at 11/2.

I had it made !

Since then I've been up and down like everyone but, if I'm

honest, I have to say that life would be very boring for me if I couldn't

have a bet when I want one.
Report Biscuit1979 June 11, 2013 1:50 PM BST
I actually find it hard to watch a sporting event unless i've had a bet on it

#addicted
Report BIGNotorious June 11, 2013 2:14 PM BST
Possibly one of the best threads ever on here... surprised but pleased by the honesty shown by everyone on here. When I saw the title I thought it was going to be filled with fellas telling us how much they`ve won..the usual bulls**** etc..
Refreshingly honest.

Starting college was the catalyst for my betting. trying to turn 20 quid into 40 for a few beers and a night out. Used do small hanicap bets involving the likes of celtic, rangers, madrid and barcelona minus a goal or two.No real science to it. Just about even money depending who they were playing, but kept me going. And it was fun.

The horses have been my downfall though...definitely down over the years.

Trying to get back into the samller more fun bets now...and they always seem to be the more sucessfull ones too.

Id rather win a little than lose a lot as they say
Report Darlo Bantam June 11, 2013 2:34 PM BST

Jun 11, 2013 -- 1:35PM, Zazu wrote:


have you ever noticed how boring life is without stress/adrenaline?gambling, drugs, exercise, career - most people have an addiction is some form or another.


I think some people are more likely to have addictive personalities than others. For me, this is just one of several addictions I've had - it's very rare to have more than one at the same time, but I think once I stop doing something, I need to pick up something else. At this moment in time, it's gambling. And I'm not sure why I get my rush - sometimes, I think it's avoiding a loss, especially a close call, rather than plain winning.

Report steview84 June 11, 2013 2:37 PM BST
When I saw the title I thought it was going to be filled with fellas telling us how much they`ve won

simply a matter of time BIG.
Report Milan12Milan June 11, 2013 3:34 PM BST
I am pleased to see that everyone has a heart here.. at least I do not feel alone..BlushHappy
Report smithy91 June 11, 2013 4:50 PM BST
That's actually a good point but concerning mecca. I'm only 21 but still my heart races when a goal is nearly scored against who I have money on even though losing money has very little affect on me. Doesn't bode well for the future lol
Report The Bhoys June 11, 2013 4:54 PM BST
i had 250 quid on nadal to win the french, quite a big bet for me that. i had to get absoloutly hammered to watch the djockovic semi Blush. am paying for it now thos as was still on drink yday and dying today Cry
Report AyersRock June 11, 2013 5:10 PM BST
smithy, why does losing money have very little effect ?
Report smithy91 June 11, 2013 5:24 PM BST
Ayersrock because I don't let it. I have tried to instill discipline from an early age. I haven't chased for two years and whatever happens betting wise it just the way it goes just need to makesure I don't overstake mainly in play! Having said that even with low stakes my heart races watching a game just like supporting a football team I suppose lol
Report grant8064 June 11, 2013 6:57 PM BST
Great thread this as said before by many.

I've been reading it on my phone on the way to work over the last few days.

Worryingly, een as a 'small punter' i've found much in common with many peoples comments on here. As someone with an addictive personality it's probably not a suprise but hey ho.

I started off with a trip to the casino when I was 18 with some older friends who are serious gamblers, one in particular has managed to rack up a profit of quarter a mill and then spunked the lot up the wall and gone 200K into the red so probably not the best people to know. Worst of all I made a relative killing that night. Earning £800 a month and making £400 in one night was the worst thing that could've happened to me...it all seemed SO easy. Too easy.

Since then i've kept my losses low, 1.3K on here and probably another few hundred at the dogs etc. Partly because as a average earner with bills and a mortgage I know my deposit limits.

The problem is that with my first ever live in girlfriend i'm starting to get the usual ' you spend every night on that bloody laptop' and 'pay me some attention, not just the footie'. I take things like that quite personally because I don't have much backbone to be honest so i'm limiting my time in the evenings...trouble is i'm on my phone in the morning checking matches, stats etc to make up for it.

I don't have any point to make but I like the thread and your posts, viewpoints from both sides of the coin...it should be stickied and new users forced to read it prior to their first deposit imo!
Report Percysugden June 11, 2013 7:02 PM BST
Yes.  Taken over and ruined. Must be masochism.
Report scouse1978lfc June 11, 2013 7:09 PM BST
I RACK DISCIPRINE!!
Report TheAltar June 11, 2013 7:24 PM BST
Biscuit, I'm the opposite, can't watch a game if I've got a decent bet on. Nerves can't handle it......
Report raspberrybottom June 11, 2013 8:09 PM BST
How many people's first bet on the nags was a winner?

Be interesting to know.Happy
Report sween99 June 11, 2013 8:15 PM BST
yep, mine was papillon in 2000 grand national, worst win ever looking at it Laugh
Report steview84 June 11, 2013 8:33 PM BST

Jun 11, 2013 -- 8:09PM, raspberrybottom wrote:


How many people's first bet on the nags was a winner?Be interesting to know.


grey cossack, 10 May 2003, my first year at University.  I remember everything so well, the locals perving on my girlfriend, (who was nice, i've ended up with one 5 points below her, USE A CONDOM!!) the bookie saying "how did you pick that one".  £51 from a £1, night out paid for.  They've had it back since Sad

Report joshua tree June 11, 2013 8:55 PM BST
How many people's first bet on the nags was a winner?

Be interesting to know



Back in the 80s, we had a little syndicate going where I worked in Longsight, Manchester. Our works was right opposite a Ladbrokes, so we used to do a bet called ( I think ) a "flag "??? This was 9 horses arranged as trebles....most of the time it got turned over , but one memorable afternoon we got the lot up !!!!!
Report joshua tree June 11, 2013 8:57 PM BST
Actually , it might have been called a " Union Jack " ?
Report robbierobot June 11, 2013 9:16 PM BST
my story,well seen as thow its a bad day 4 racing with sir henry passing away! bin gambling since the age of 16 1st bet lucky 15 four of pat edderys rides on the super 7,three for sir henry on itv cost 1.65 they all won and got back 45.00 i was hooked.little did i no 26 years later id hav blown 100k on the horsesShocked wish sir henry wasnt as bloody good a trainer i probly wudnt have kept on gambling Grinstarted playing poker 6years ago won 20k in 4 days 1 week.went 2 florida disney world with family so atleast had a good time with it but blew most of rest on horses.now dont get me wrong it hasnt always been bad on horses but as ive got older ive relised how shockingly corrupt it is and to me now its a disgrace!!!my advice to any1 in there early teens, enjoy urselves without gambling or bet 2 small stakesWinkWink
Report desperatemunter June 11, 2013 9:19 PM BST
my first day almost everything won - remember it well 'cos in amongst them was the unraced Dr Devious, who became a great.  14/1, Newbury it was - even picking big price winners of unfathomable maidens.  i was invincible that first daySad
Report smithy91 June 11, 2013 9:58 PM BST
Cheers robbierobot stay away for horses I will !
Report supersmith June 11, 2013 11:07 PM BST
The problem with betting on the horses is there is too much going on behind the scenes with trainers, jockeys, owners etc so (unless you know the well personally) you have no idea if they have spoken before about pulling up to get better odds next race, just one of many examples. I don't bet on them big but do have the occassional bet at the big races or if my good friend gives me one. But I must say the thrill of a horse race is second to none, especially if its a close one!
Report themightymac June 11, 2013 11:12 PM BST
Do Wah Diddy is my blood brother Wink
Report 3setpoints June 11, 2013 11:14 PM BST
I rue the day I got involved with exchanges. There are thousands of punters on here who think they can and want to be their own little bookie. However its impossible for most.

agree with that.

also interesting about the guys who enjoys number crunching getting caught in the gambling net aswell. and not always with good results Plain
Report Capt__F June 12, 2013 12:05 AM BST
nice 1 joshua getting 9 horses in a 4 horse bet really memorable
Report pbunter June 12, 2013 2:04 AM BST
a very interesting thread...i used to use this site but i havent used it in a few years due to the large amount i lost.i only use it now for the forums to be honest.i have to admit my betting is very erratic(on football) and i could put a sizeable bet on a team at 4/11 or 1/3 if i think they will win but the amount all depends on my humour...it's a dodgey thing to do and i have come close to busting but im in profit at the moment after recuperating my losses here.one things for sure though...i cannot watch a match i have put a bet on, it's just too nerve racking.thats when i go to the gym/cinema or basically anything else.i really need to change my strategy!well done to all on a great thread!
Report mecca June 12, 2013 2:15 AM BST
pbunter... i am just curious about you not watching the match that you have bet on. If your team goes 1-0 up & fail to win...... surely you have lost the chance to green up when things where in your favour?
Report 3setpoints June 12, 2013 2:23 AM BST
im guessing he's trying to win a certain amount

what do you mean it's based on your humour pbunter?
Report pbunter June 12, 2013 2:24 AM BST
i just back a home team on PP...that's it i don't trade.
Report pbunter June 12, 2013 2:28 AM BST
by my humour i mean if i had a bad day/night at work.i dont tend to gamble large stakes when im in good form
Report pbunter June 12, 2013 2:28 AM BST
by my humour i mean if i had a bad day/night at work.i dont tend to gamble large stakes when im in good form
Report 3setpoints June 12, 2013 3:24 AM BST
I then came into a rather significant amount of money about this time last year and one night I awoke to later realise that I had made (& lost) on a stupidly large bet that turns my stomach to this very day.

can you tell us a little about this bet please? was it 4, 5 figures?
did you blow the whole lot of the money you came into?

great thread guys!
Report mikenz June 13, 2013 12:48 PM BST
Id have to say that gambling had ,[i say had]taken over my life, started about 3 or 4 years ago when i started playing online, before that it was just a few bets on the nags and a few bets on the footy at our local betting agency, then going online , firstly on 365 by way of the live betting but more so the casino , games bingo etc, sure had plenty of wins but always ending up the same result in the end, slowly over time have phased out  the games, passing phase, blackjack , very addictive.

With live betting use to spend all night online, then it went from that to the mobile phone and so on, i think weather you win or not win if you doing it all the time it starts to stuff ya head up the worst sites were the ones that have all the one account for all sections, would defeat the point of betting on sport, anywins would be erased by a session on blackjack or slots, even got to the point where you simply didnt care about the result of a game, only interested in if you win ya bets or not.

Still enjoy a bet but for now its just a bit of fun and thats what its meant to be, kinda getting back to the stage where you tend to watch or follow sport without the obsession of betting,always lived well enough without the continuos punting grind before , no reason why one cant live that way again, simple fact is best to change ones thinking, i think alot get hooked because its A...boredom and B .....the online phenomunum......for some the internet is an escape from reality and for others it is there reality, sad but true.
Report supersmith June 13, 2013 4:04 PM BST

Jun 12, 2013 -- 3:24AM, 3setpoints wrote:


I then came into a rather significant amount of money about this time last year and one night I awoke to later realise that I had made (& lost) on a stupidly large bet that turns my stomach to this very day.can you tell us a little about this bet please? was it 4, 5 figures?did you blow the whole lot of the money you came into?great thread guys!


Was after a night out, woke up went to work, logged into bank account just to do a transfer and saw the damage, was £20k on O2.5 on Real v Valencia placed the bet when it was 1-1 HT (finished 1-1). Nah still got quite abit left was just sickening though as its totally out of my character, which is why I went into meltdown after. On a lighter note when I got home there was a ladder up against my back window that I used to get night in before as I had lost my key, don't remember doing that either! CrazyLaugh

Report smithy91 June 13, 2013 4:37 PM BST
Bloodihell supersmith you crazy man I'm pissed every weekend but never once thought about doing that!
Report supersmith June 13, 2013 4:59 PM BST
As said in previous statement I remember none of the above! But have since taken steps to avoid such a fcukup again
Report starfish and coffee June 13, 2013 5:52 PM BST
Yeah always best to take a spare set of keys they ladders can be very hazardous Wink
Report Milan12Milan June 13, 2013 9:03 PM BST
yep.. has taken over my life indeed.. ex tonight.. I was doing so well.. I lost it by doing over 1.5 and 2.5 in the IBV match...

Was so much looking forwrad to the confederations cup... Now Most probably I cannot have a bet there.. Sad
Better wait for the new season to start
Report 3setpoints June 13, 2013 9:35 PM BST
you blew 20 G fella??
Report jon b June 13, 2013 9:50 PM BST
been gambling for over 30 yrs , anything from cards  ,pool and horses ,never been into fruit machines or any on line games other than poker ,,and yes ive lost money ,hate to know how much but luckily for me ive never bet beyond my means ,never bet my last few quid etc ,always everything came first ie bills cars holidays etc etc before any bets ,,,strictly small stakes in comparison and always enjoyed the buzz , work and family first and the buzz as and when ,gl guys
Report mikenz June 14, 2013 12:10 AM BST
i would say it hasnt broken me but it hasnt made me rich either but i have to admit most of the time its been fun,just sometimes frustrating though.
Report mikenz June 14, 2013 12:14 AM BST
probably fair to say even if the money id lost was still in the bank i probably would not have spent it anyway, im just not really a materialistic person but the more you have in ya savings the better one is i spose,thats life.
Report mikenz June 14, 2013 12:16 AM BST
one of the sites i was on i go so frustrated with the games on the sports account i closed my account, they barred me for life , wasnt wanting to do that but strange irony is they dont have the games now, i told them to get rid of them long before, dam nuisance.
Report 3setpoints June 14, 2013 12:22 AM BST
thought you lost loads mikenz? you got a proper full time job?
Report mikenz June 14, 2013 12:25 AM BST
im actually farming with my family, gambling was sorta side interest for me, allows one to switch off from lifes issues now and then
Report mikenz June 14, 2013 12:26 AM BST
i get a great feeling these days when i play the free games, just when im about to land the big win it beats me, i just love because i actually lost nothing, makes ya feel better.
Report mikenz June 14, 2013 12:27 AM BST
i meant to say i just laugh lol
Report mikenz June 14, 2013 12:32 AM BST
anyway im off soon to join the real world again , be back later i spose. kinda enjoy the threads sometimes, makes ya realise lots of others same as me aye
Report 3setpoints June 14, 2013 12:39 AM BST
aye what "free" games?
Report mikenz June 14, 2013 12:44 AM BST
instead of playing the games on sites for real money i just play the free games , fun money.

those games with the flashy lights etc can be addictive, but free games , fun for a wee while.
Report mikenz June 14, 2013 12:45 AM BST
i get heaps of e mails from casino sites with lots of offers etc etc, i just delete them now

bye all
Report 3setpoints June 14, 2013 12:48 AM BST
free games = dull games Plain
Report mikenz June 14, 2013 8:23 AM BST
only play them 4 a fem minits, playing for real you seem to get dragged in for ags and if you do very well you might be lucky enough to breakeven
Report smithy91 June 14, 2013 9:09 AM BST
Milan if you keep losing in the over under market why don't you look at other markets. For me personally I cannot make money trading over under in play end up with big losses all the time so don't bother only trade pre off there where I do have an edge!
Report Milan12Milan June 14, 2013 9:15 AM BST

Jun 14, 2013 -- 9:09AM, smithy91 wrote:


Milan if you keep losing in the over under market why don't you look at other markets. For me personally I cannot make money trading over under in play end up with big losses all the time so don't bother only trade pre off there where I do have an edge!


what do you mean by pre-off?

Report smithy91 June 14, 2013 2:39 PM BST
Milan in big premier league matches like man united vs man city it's not uncommon for over 2.5 to be 1.75 the night before the game but 1.9 at kickoff. I use big stakes and trade these movements. In play trading over unders I get gobbled by the big investor
Report mecca June 14, 2013 3:37 PM BST
You're a lucky man...... can't remember the last time i had a gobbleHappy
Report smithy91 June 14, 2013 3:52 PM BST
Lol u know what I meant mecca :p
Report sweetchildofmine June 14, 2013 6:02 PM BST
Laugh
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