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I told you it would take longer to read than war and peace .this is not one per cent of the **** that he's done to me .and I let him
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ONCE A MUG ALWAYS A MUG
ONCE A DIKK ALWAYS A DIKK WHEN YOUR A DO WAH DIDDY |
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The 20000 i gave him was part of my gambling stash and yes i would have lost it .but i turned to my nest egg when I couldn't cope with what he had done.
When I challenged him the last time he said you would have only gambled it away .that's not the point it was my hard earned money |
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I must admit betrayal is the most painful of all emotions and very difficult to get rid of..
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So fee .so fee .so fee
You just lost the admiration of your fat girlfriend when you ripped her valentine card up I lost my faith in mankind especially my brother .I want the world to know what a low life he is but can't because it will affect my family and his daughter |
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You wont be the only one he abuses...you can't fool all of the people all of the time..he will be found out.
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Very sad for what has happened to you do wah. Being ripped off is never nice and would imagine it's far far worse when immediate family. Forgiveness may be the key, but I think you would be a better man than me if what you have stated is 1% of what he has done and managed such forgiveness. As suggested, it may be worth looking into retrieving the situation through a no win no fee solicitor. God knows, he sounds like he deserves it. All the best.
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get ya ginger nuts out Do wah' and have a dunk... make ya feel better!
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Do wah is a digestive man.
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Drug him and take photos of him with sofee and his sheep ,he will soon pay up Do Wah!
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There's people who's lost a lot more than me like their children .I should move on but my anger won't let me .I've made up my mind to stay away from him completely .
I don't even want to see him if I'm dying or he is dying and don't want to go to his funeral if he dies before me But I would upset his daughter .I don't want him any where near my funeral when I die.but then my ex wife said that's right let our children and his child suffer If I was fit I would go down there and knock s h. I. T out of him but I can't knock over a paper bag these days I know the only answer is to forgive them to free me of this anger.but I'm just letting it poison me and I suffer while he couldn't give a toss |
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I know I've done everything that's fair my mam said everything in her house was mine as they had everything they needed from their big house.but I said to myself no .we will share it equally.they took all the gold and gave my children her costume jewelry
They only wanted things that were valuable they didn't want anything that was sentimental.it just shows they don't respect me by trying to say that the cutlery set what they gave me was the one which my mam left I know that the box was the same one but they had changed all the cutlery .I know the patterns on them .they think I'm thick and wouldn't notice |
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His missus sounds rather unpleasant..maybe she encourages his bad behaviour.
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When she came to live in my mams house when I lived .there she used to make bacon butties for the three of them every sat .not once did she shout upstairs would you like a bacon buttie .she is a liar (a word I hate saying but must.
The pair of them are all show .they said my cousin was all show .she might be but at least she spends her own money not other people's money She stands and takes communion as though she's a good practersing Catholic . I want to tell her that there's more to being a Catholic than drinking the wine .but don't have the courage .my. Mam would have wanted me to give my cousin one of the figures that her mother bought for my mam .but they both chimed in together she's not having them she's all show .they thought they were worth something .she's a jealous cow |
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When my daughter was a little girl my dad used to play with her with his war medals that she used to like to play with every time she came .He always said if any thing happens to him he wants her to have them .
That was thirty years ago when I enquired my mam said my brother had took them .I said you keep two and I'll have two for her ..He spoke up loudly you might as well take them all their worth nothing on their own .I will give them you later .I never got them to this day he feel an in adequate dad for not getting them for her .everything his daughter asked for I gave it to her without thinking twice ,including a gold necklace pendant that I bought for my mam when I had money .as well as the jewelry box that I was going to give my granddaughter. His partner asked could she have my mams tea service which is lovely because it looks expensive.i wanted it for sentential reasons as me and my mam payed weekly to the ladies next door catalogue when we had nothing .but I gave it her as she is my brother's partner I've never hated anyone but I hate her |
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Soffee yes when I got him on the markets .all the whole sellers trusted me and my reputation they gave him credit and he ripped them all off and never paid them he .also ripped the man off who put my mams fence up .and his accountant
He was accused of taking money when he was on the committee of a men's club but talked his way out of it. He goes to the police straight away when someone tries to escape paying their fare in his taxi . He walks about dressed to kill with all new clothes and latest gadgets while I dress like a pauper When they lived in my mams house they went out for lots of meals and never asked me once He also went to watch Bolton Wanderers at home and never asked me I found his Bolton news paper and put two and two together . |
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I stayed in my bedroom and gave them the run of the house .and once I knew they were lying to me again and I was in a right state .I was crying and asked them to drop me off at an AA meeting as I always felt good after a meeting.they dropped me off and the more they saw I had no resistance to fight back they took more
They treated me like they treated these old people who get beat up in old folks home BUT THEY PLAYED WITH MY MIND WITH THEIR LIES AND UNDER HANDEDNESS .I HAD TO GET OUT I JUST SIGNED ANYTHING AND DID WHAT THEY WANTED |
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This is not turning out to be a usual do way DIDDY thread .but this is what lies under my fasarde
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Someone near you could be walking about just like me .looking like hes not much out of the ordinary .but has a lot going on in his head
IF I WAS YOU I WOULD STAY CLEAR OF PEOPLE INCASE YOU BUMP INTO ME |
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You sound like youve had a raw deal Dowah ,but try not to dwell on things ,keep your chin up ,we all get down sometimes ,there is always
somebody even worse off. |
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If you see a man Shuvenly dressed talking to himself and weighing people up as if he thinks hes better than them
Stay well clear |
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Yes snowy moon there's always a light by the snowy moon .I've got the record
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Snowy moon I'm not always like this as I don't recall you
When this problem finally goes away another one will appear I dig myself a hole and when I finally get out .I dig myself a deeper one |
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Do Wah ,have followed your threads over the years ,and you seem like a decent guy who is honest about his weaknesses,failings ,and you often make me laugh ,you are appreciated by many ,dont like to see anyone torment themselves thats all .
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I'm to blame as i don't learn from my lessons
I've let it happen I used to think it was always them to blame At least I now realise that I have A hand in it by letting them do what theve done .it was always someone elses fault but I should also be looking at my part in it to stop it happening again |
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Thank you snowy moon and everyone else I won't bore you any more on this subject .unless my head starts telling me to tell the world .and then off.i Go again
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Ps I'm harmless
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People are terrible and relatives are the worst because you can’t get away from them
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Where else in this world could you find a 70year old recovering alcoholic compulsive gambler talking about how hes been abused and used by his brother .other than the chit chat gambling forum
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I don’t think we can trust anyone , apart from our own mothers
That includes brothers and brothers in law even sisters |
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I feel alot better now ive opened up .this is lke an AA meeting with no pot going round for a volentary collection at the end of the meeting
Hope to see you all again keep coming back .and could someone help with the washing up please |
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I enjoy reading your posts do wah , they’re true to life
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Wash up as you go Do wah...nothing worse than a pile of dirty dishes.
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He has all the plates piled up :)
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Do wah when we read his little tales makes people think to themselves , I am going to try and be nicer
like he is |
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Soffee yes I know my counsellor told me to stick a message on my wall facing the sink telling me to wash as I go .but as usual I didn't do what I'm told
Today I've cleaned up and washed up as my grandson is coming to my flat to stay later . When I need to do something I do it .but otherwise they will like up .I've no motivation for anything especially cleaning .today ok who knows next when the pots will be washed and I've only hoovered where you can see . It's no use me being all show when I don't want to do anything And I've changed the bedding |
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You deserve better than this DO WAH........
You cant change the past but you can take positive steps for a better future,small steps can be rewarding.. Buy some quality bed clothes to pish in sry i mean sleep inGet a decent haircut, spend 15 quid on it. Take a niece or someone to the cinema or restaurant LIVE MAN YOU WILL BE A LONG TIME DEAD YOU DESERVE BETTER |
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Pecker thank you I know what I should do .but I don't do it .
I'm good at telling people what they should do .but I'm more of a do what I say not what I or won't do You see what I'm up against a head with arrogant **** in it Thank you everybody again but I think it's time to leave this depressing thread and me I will try a bit harder but I know I will only do what my head decides it wants to do .I don't do the things that I know I should do .I just look for the easy option and do that |
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S h. I t is the starred out word
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