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mememe
16 Sep 15 16:15
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my wife being referred to as my partner on official forms.

FFS she's my wife - and I'm her husband.

Referring to her as my "partner" sounds like she's my business colleague.

I always cross out the partner bit - I suppose I'm a bit of a rebel.
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Report Ron Pillock September 16, 2015 4:27 PM BST
The term partner is political correctness gone bonkers. Language is supposed to convey meaning as accurately and concisely as possible. The word partner just begs another question.
Report Roquebrune September 16, 2015 4:27 PM BST
Shocked
Report mad mad moon September 16, 2015 4:38 PM BST
If I say to a stranger at a party or something  "Ive been with my partner for over 20 years.......", I always feel I have
to follow up with "And she..." because I know he/she is already thinking "Is he gay"

Co-habiting, living with, common law wife etc are all a bit cumbersome, so its time we had a new word for unmarried, heterosexual,er partner.
Report i_agree_with_nick September 16, 2015 4:39 PM BST
Name: Mr IAW Nick
Sex: Yes please
Report Eeternaloptimist September 16, 2015 4:44 PM BST
Spouse mad moon?

Or Frolicking Fun Buddy if the flame still burns. Wink
Report TambourineMan. September 16, 2015 4:47 PM BST
On an application form for post cardiac care here in Ontario the options for Gender were..
1.M/F
2.Lesbian
3.Transgender Male
4.Transgender Female
5.Bisexual
6.****
7.Don't know
Report mad mad moon September 16, 2015 4:47 PM BST
Spouse is another name for husband/wife shirley?
I like Frolicking Fun Buddy but that sounds even gayer.Blush
Report mecca September 16, 2015 4:48 PM BST
Western values, including the most basic - The strong family unit - have been under gradual attack for decades
Report i_agree_with_nick September 16, 2015 4:49 PM BST
The word "girlfriend" is acceptable and seems to be used in news reports and the like.  But probably a term less suitable if you're over 35ish.
Report Ron Pillock September 16, 2015 4:55 PM BST
I don't agree.  I think its cute to hear an 80 year old talking about their boyfriend or girlfriend.
Report TommyBarnes September 16, 2015 4:55 PM BST
Radio 5 had a phone in about sexuality and introduced a woman who was bisexual. The woman said, let me stop you right there, I am not bisexual I am pansexual Crazy
Report screaming from beneaththewaves September 16, 2015 5:09 PM BST
Significant Other
Report mobo September 16, 2015 5:16 PM BST
Insignificant other    (at my age )
Report Injera September 16, 2015 6:01 PM BST
I have a neighbour who's close to 90.

He recently had a routine op and during the check up beforehand he was asked a series of questions.

One of them was 'what is your sexuality?'

I was appalled. WTF has that go to with anything. How can you ask an old man that sort of question?
Report lfc1971 September 16, 2015 6:22 PM BST
Disgusting, british people are without any sense of decorum.
Report akabula September 17, 2015 12:10 AM BST
mad mad moon   
If I say to a stranger at a party or something  "Ive been with my partner for over 20 years.......", I always feel I have
to follow up with "And she..." because I know he/she is already thinking "Is he gay"
Co-habiting, living with, common law wife etc are all a bit cumbersome, so its time we had a new word for unmarried, heterosexual,er partner.


There is a term up in the north - Bidey In.
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