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Aunty Post
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If you're lucky enough to still have your parents, do any of you call them by their first names?

My own son (in his mid 30's) does occasionally, but it doesn't sound right.
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Report MadVlad • July 17, 2015 4:47 PM BST
always mum and dad for me.
Report lfc1971 • July 17, 2015 4:51 PM BST
Its not right, think it takes a bit of a cheek, I like the way americans would call everyone sir, or at least used to and the way the Japanese give a slight bow...something beautiful about it.
Report spellingandgrammarchecker • July 17, 2015 5:06 PM BST
I would never have dreamed of calling my parents by their names, but my dad's cousin and his wife were called Jack and Betty by their boys.

Mrs SAGC the 2nd was referred to by her name by her children, rather than 'mum'.

Never understood it myself.

Even most men in their 50s in pubs in London called their dad 'dad' or 'pop'.
Report Scamp the man • July 17, 2015 5:55 PM BST
My 2 lads always called me by my first name ...then when i split with their mum ...they were  4 and 6 ...they started calling me dad ...
Report s.kenbo • July 17, 2015 6:08 PM BST
I used to work with a father and son, and the son always called him Bob. It's quite strange imo.

I asked why he didn't call him dad, and he said he always did until they started working together. It was the dad's idea, he said I don't want you calling me dad at work.
Report spellingandgrammarchecker • July 17, 2015 7:16 PM BST
Rule No.1

Unless it's a family business, NEVER work with family.
Report s.kenbo • July 17, 2015 7:33 PM BST
Or close friends. ^^^^
Report rob_dylan • July 17, 2015 7:40 PM BST
Of course you don't call them by their first name except for a laugh.  Heard my bro in law call my dad "dad" once or twice.  Bit weird I thought.
Report Aunty Post • July 17, 2015 8:07 PM BST
Yeah, overall that's what I was expecting.....

James only called me by name a couple of times and,as you say rob, it was just for a laugh.
Report SlippyBlue • July 17, 2015 8:51 PM BST
Mum and Dad, both have passed away and are at peace now and not a day goes by that they are not in my thoughts. Mum's ashes is in the front room, Dad is in West Norwood cemetery.
Report guinness2dear • July 17, 2015 8:54 PM BST
If i'd have called the Da by his first name they would still be picking up my bits..

The Ma is more gentle, she would have left me a leg to hobble on..
Report SlippyBlue • July 17, 2015 8:55 PM BST
I'm bloody crying now thinking about them.
Report Ibrahima Sonko • July 17, 2015 8:59 PM BST
Sad

I always call my mum, mother as one time she told me it felt her feel older, after 38 years my stepdad is is now my old man, cant call him dad but he knows.
Report guinness2dear • July 17, 2015 9:00 PM BST
Me too Cry
Report SlippyBlue • July 17, 2015 9:15 PM BST
You would have liked my Dad g2d, a Biffo from Tullamore, he was a good hurler in his day and he used to always come and watch me play rugby. I hope he is proud of me for the person that I have become. I hope so anyway.
Report guinness2dear • July 17, 2015 9:23 PM BST
Aye, mine wanted me to play hurling, rugby and lacrosse (phuck that - said i)
Report SlippyBlue • July 17, 2015 9:28 PM BST
Lacrosse> Gadzooks man that was never a sort I was into Shocked
Report guinness2dear • July 17, 2015 9:37 PM BST
I liked it, but i'm sure he wanted me to lose my film star good looks..

I píssed him right off when i took up golf..
Report pumphol. • July 17, 2015 9:39 PM BST
Worked with my dad for over 20 years before he got ill, not sure when I started calling his Chaz but my Mum's always been Mum.
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