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Dobbo
19 Jan 14 22:42
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for the terminally ill should be legalised.?

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By:
ebulGery
When: 19 Jan 14 23:28
definitely
By:
kenny mann
When: 19 Jan 14 23:31
can of worms.
By:
ebulGery
When: 19 Jan 14 23:34
the trouble is nobody trusts the relatives
we think if somebody goes into Hospital for an in growing toenail
the moment the nurse turns her back, the relatives would have a pillow over their face

bit I feel it must come
especially as we likely to have too many old people(including meBlush)
By:
breadnbutter
When: 19 Jan 14 23:38
fck me you must have some family ...Laugh
By:
MisterBadger
When: 19 Jan 14 23:45
I'm all for it in principle, but the sad reality is that it wouldn't be safe  Sad
By:
ebulGery
When: 19 Jan 14 23:46
Laugh breadnbutter
By:
Capt__F
When: 19 Jan 14 23:53
relatives holding the guns the prob
By:
MisterBadger
When: 20 Jan 14 00:01
exactly capt
By:
ebulGery
When: 20 Jan 14 00:17
difficult though

but yes, if someone with some money or an expensive property is in a nursing home

then the relatives would see their inheritance diminishing the longer this person lives

if assisted dying was an option, I suspect they may well pressure the person into taking this option

morals seem to fall in the face of hard cash

on the other hand, we have people in pain and often degraded, cannot control their own bowels, etc

who genuinely want to die, if their is no hope of them getting better

to keep them alive is in fact quite cruel

a tricky problem?
By:
PatraTheCat
When: 20 Jan 14 00:19
Do you lot really think that there's such a high chance that your families will conspire to murder you that it outweighs the comfort of having a easy, painless opt-out of life, if and when you choose to use it?
By:
ebulGery
When: 20 Jan 14 00:20
yesSad
By:
ebulGery
When: 20 Jan 14 00:21
tbh I don't Patra, but it would occur in some cases, that is the problem
By:
PatraTheCat
When: 20 Jan 14 00:26
But surely it would require the consent of the person to die in all but the most exceptional cases (sudden comas etc.). I mean, surely the dying person would have to sign consent or have signed the decision-making powers over to the family. So it would really require quite an advanced plot by the family.

I feel a lot better about my personal situation now. I mean, I don't have the best relationship with my family but I'm almost positive they wouldn't actually conspire to murder me.
By:
ebulGery
When: 20 Jan 14 00:37
a scenario patra

a rich relative is terminally ill, they are not expected to live a month, they go into an expensive nursing home

but 6 months later they are still alive

this is where relatives start to deceive themselves, we need that person's money, we have a property we like,

we have to think of the children, we have to think of our own lives..the money is better coming to us, than going

to a nursing home

They visit the sick relative, and they start, bemoaning their money problems in front of the relative, the relative feels guilty

and thinks I had better end this, they need the money..

it is that simple

yes a minority of relatives would do this, but you see the problem

although I think eventually we will have to allow assisted dying
By:
ebulGery
When: 20 Jan 14 00:39
I cant say whether your family want to murder you PatraLaugh
By:
PatraTheCat
When: 20 Jan 14 00:49
I'd say "Look, you lot. Anyone who tries to murder me is straight out of the will, no second chances. And sneak me in some more whisky."
By:
MisterBadger
When: 20 Jan 14 00:55
tbh I don't Patra, but it would occur in some cases, that is the problem

exactly - it's the same as the death penalty question, it's better that 100 guilty people get off than one innocent person is hanged
By:
yeahyeahwhatever
When: 20 Jan 14 01:17
I think the absolute worst scenario to be in must be to be paralysed from the neck down and to want to die, but to be unable to take your own life... for everyone else, if you want to die - just stop moaning about it and just get on with it!

In the first scenario doctors should be allowed to assist - absolutely they should, after all, you can be damn sure that doctors don't die like the rest of normal folk.  As soon as their suffering becomes too much too bear it's a mightily convenient heart attack and the forms go through no questions asked.

As to how you do it, hmmmm that's the question isn't it, something quick ideally, I think i'd like to do a parachute jump but without opening the parachute.  Has to be pretty much 100% certainty of death and it's about as close to flying as humans can get - messy of course and someone has to come and scrap you up... but then if you could do it in a remote area you could just be left there to naturally decompose and feed the landscape!  Much cheaper than a funeral too - now that's a total ripoff.
By:
MisterBadger
When: 20 Jan 14 01:29
^ thanks for your intelligent contribution to what was a potentially intelligent debate
By:
ebulGery
When: 20 Jan 14 01:41
I would agree
that is one scenario, none of us would like to be in, and assisted dying should on offer

Of course with computers, one could have one placed in front of ones face, and probably operate it
even if just by eye movement...that would give us something to do
we could bet all day long, read books and study...but not everybody would want to do this
I think we would find life incredibly boring...even with a permanent supply of Guinness on tap
in the end we would want to end it
By:
ebulGery
When: 20 Jan 14 01:44
the desire to physically do something would overwhelming

difficult to argue against assisted dying in this case
By:
yeahyeahwhatever
When: 20 Jan 14 02:47
MisterBadger 
re:^ thanks for your intelligent contribution to what was a potentially intelligent debate


Shocked bloomin' cheek, that was an intelligent contribution! If you want to kill yourself just stop waffling on about it and just do it, it's only those who are physically unable to do it who have a problem - everyone else is just attention seeking.


now, be a good little badger and just come into this nice cage and take a deep breath... Devil
By:
Steamship
When: 20 Jan 14 10:31
imo There should be a fr that we are filling in every 2 years along with a thorough health check this should start from the age of 18.

Questions as
Should you become completely paralysed would you wish to end your life
Should you be diagnosed with dementia etc

Then it is up to the person before they get ill and nothing to do with the family if a form has not been filled in then nothing can be done.
By:
MisterBadger
When: 20 Jan 14 12:48
bloomin' cheek, that was an intelligent contribution!

fair enough yyw, it was the other stuff about scraping people up and funeral rip offs I was on about - alcohol-assisted post on my part Sad
By:
MisterBadger
When: 20 Jan 14 12:49
btw, the badger cull is finnish, in case you hadn't heard  Wink
By:
yeahyeahwhatever
When: 20 Jan 14 17:57
re: btw, the badger cull is finnish, in case you hadn't heard


they only told YOU that in the hope they could flush you out into the open... Silly
By:
u want some
When: 20 Jan 14 18:03
hey dobbo hednesford are going well
By:
GAZO
When: 20 Jan 14 18:06
as much has I think it should happen you can almost hear mr no win no fee licking his lips about this becoming legal
By:
SlippyBlue
When: 20 Jan 14 22:58
I have typed out two replies to this but deleted both times. I'll send this one though.

My poor Dad got a truly wicked illness in mesothelioma, he really didn't deserve what happened to him and if there was a button to press to spare his agony I would have taken the responsibility and done it.
By:
Dobbo
When: 20 Jan 14 23:09
Nobody deserves it Slippy. Why should we watch our loved ones die in  pain. Why should any of us suffer horribly when the end is a tortured certainty.Its some fcked up morality when we cant help the ones we love in their hour of need.
By:
Do wah Diddy
When: 21 Jan 14 00:07
THERE WILL ALSO BE ALOT OF OLD PEOPLE WHO DONT WONT TO DIE,BUT WHO WOULD DIE BECAUSE THEY THINK THEIR A BURDEN ON THEIR FAMILY
By:
call me a taxi
When: 21 Jan 14 00:16
It's a strange world where you can be 100% fit and sent off to die in a war, but if you manage to get yourself 99% killed, the government frown at finishing you off when you get home.
By:
Dobbo
When: 21 Jan 14 00:18
Rubbish. The bill that will go through parliament in May is to give people with a terminal illness the right to end their lives. If thats not a basic human right wtf is?
By:
ebulGery
When: 21 Jan 14 00:45
THERE WILL ALSO BE ALOT OF OLD PEOPLE WHO DONT WONT TO DIE,BUT WHO WOULD DIE BECAUSE THEY THINK THEIR A BURDEN ON THEIR FAMILY

nail on the head there methinks, do wah diddy
By:
ebulGery
When: 21 Jan 14 00:48
there is also an opposite problem

some families want their old people kept alive at all costs, and disprove of doctors wishing to ease them out of this world

I think the 'Liverpool Pathway' was ended, because of this
By:
ebulGery
When: 21 Jan 14 00:49
I believe in assisted dying...

we should accept it, and deal with problems with it, as they come up
By:
ebulGery
When: 21 Jan 14 00:53
there is another, some people are born with great handicaps in life, but they still want to live

they are frightened someone may decide for them your life is not worth living,so we will assist you dying

and again, they may feel they are a burden, they require a lot of support, so must agree
By:
Dobbo
When: 21 Jan 14 00:55
Lets start at the right end of the argument. You are dying of pancreatic cancer.You are in agony. Your death is certain.The agony will last a week, two weeks, three weeks, three months?You are vomiting your own feaces.
No doctor can cure you but he can help you by supplying the drug that you can use of your own volition to end your pain.
Its a no brainer. Support he assisted dying bill. Who knows? In 10 or 20 years time you may be truly thankful that you did.
By:
ebulGery
When: 21 Jan 14 00:57
I hope the bill is passed

but will require a lot of monitoring I feel

not all cases are as clear as you have just outlined Dobbo
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