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Mik

right I wont pretend its a mate or owt like that its me that done it
I damaged my exs carand she reported it to police, so I gets a conditional caution. the condition is I pay for the repairs which she presented a detailed quote to the police. now I have since found out she not only has not had the repairs done but has also bought a brand new motor !!!  now obviously I like to know if I have grounds for not paying it as its a condition and not a fine ... ??

Ask for receipt of repair. And don't smash up your ex-girlfiends' cars any more.

Just pay up and act your age next time.

The new car is none of your business and your paying for the repairs of damaged vehicle.
pay up and be lucky you didnt get charged for criminal damage.

Pay up and try not to behave in peasant like fashion.

Indeed. You're entitled to a receipt of repair, and should pay accordingly, but you're legally obliged not be a pr!ck who damages other people's property because you're upset.

Well said chit chat, too many cants trying to wriggle out of situations refusing to take responsibility for their actions.


btw what did she do to upset you? Feeding the Ducks again ?

Gadzooks barrelman, if I were you I'd wind your neck in and move on. Just be thankful your ex missus hasn't apparently got people around to sort your appalling, cowardly behaviour out. If that was my Sister you would have all five of the Blue Brothers on your case making your life hell.

fair dos slippy and the others
ive put my hands up to wot I did and not tried to deny it
no excuse   but im sure theres many who in  my position would do something similar
finding out she was shagging someone else behing my back when I was on the brink of selling my house to be with her and told her to choose an engagement ring etc etc oh yeah the fact that she already owed me £800 as well that I cant get back cos when I did try she rings the police to have me done for harassment !!!!  yeah harrassment trying to get back what she owed me..police wernt interested in that little fact tho....slippyblue and others  id love to know if you would just walk away if you ended up in a similar situation  ??  yeah course you would  !!

what a seriously depressing thread this is, seriously

someone asking for help you all start handing out lectures as if you're the moral police, you dont have a clue about the circumstances, his wife cudda been cheating or refuse access to his kids, thrown away his old records etc,

not a law expert mate, but if the repairs have been done like you say, then there is nothing to pay for - either way CBA - the citizens advice bureau should put you in the picture

see what did I say

sorry thats not funny, I would of done the same thing mate and then some

give the man a chance, she might have provoked him beyond all reason - until we hear the full details we shouldn't be so swift to condemn imo

bloody hell, I didn't realise I was such a slow typist 

cheers ayersrock , someone who thinks about someone elses situation without prejudice  :-)

seriously barrelman, I would probably do exactly the same in that position, not to mention straightening out the other fella 
the slag
look on the bright side, you're well rid, luckily (I'm assuming) you didn't have any kids with her

just write off the 800 quid and move on.  a lucky and cheap lesson, could have been so much worse, you could have married her.

Mind you, the girls (MD and errrr Annie) will probably reckon the girl got lucky, what with you going psycho beating up the car and all.

Would I walk away...yes I would. I'm not a troglodyte, smashing up her car because the relationship was deceitful is very primitive behaviour to put it mildly.

I was close to doing the bloke but tbh honest he probs didn't know anything about me and what situation she was in to be fair as knowing her she wouldn't have told him so id be taking it out on the wrong person , and the reason I attacked the car as some would think it being a cowards way of doing things is cos I just could not bring myself to lay a finger on a woman  !!!!

slippyblue , hyperthetical answer.....in reality when it happens to you well............

Cue .......................................

SNAKES WITH T1TS !!!!!

slippy you sound like a doormat, by the sounds of it she'd almost done him up like a kipper, was going to marry him, divorce him, get half the money from the house sale

you had a lucky escape, and it'll teach her a lesson for next time

too right ayersrock , as a mate said , if its got tits or tyres itll cost ya money !!   ;-)

No joking barrelman, I think you should seek counsel somewhere, you're not thinking straight. So this bloke knew nothing of your intentions and your relationship with this woman and yet you were thinking of doing an innocent person in? Good grief man

barrelman, it's understandable why you're a little upset.  Of course.  Good that you didn't "do the bloke" though. Maybe you need to take some time out tomorrow, feed the ducks?

rugby players, on the other hand, could never be accused of primitive behaviour 

Jun 21, 2013 -- 9:12PM, barrelman wrote:

too right ayersrock , as a mate said , if its got tits or tyres itll cost ya money !!

Would have sold the old car before buying a new one, will claim selling it with the damage wrote  at least £800 off the sale, either way your have to pay.

bloody quote feature

, for clarity it;'s good you never beat up the guy he probably knew nothing and you should never hit a women so to me the damaging the car seems perfectly accepotable

agreed AR, seems a very reasonable compromise imo

slippyblue im jealous of you having never been in such a situation !!

slippy you sound like a doormat

So a relationship goes pear shaped, it happens, move on. Read the thread again AR from start to finish. Smashing up peoples cars and thinking about abh on what has now been revealed as an innocent party is not really my thing. Each to their own of course but count me out, thanks all the same.

that might be socially acceptable in Australia, Ayers Rock, we live in the First World.

You're all mad, I'm the only sane one on here. I'm off to the pub for a cold one..or two.

I am coming with you...ice cold wife beater for me please

Yes, quite so.  When one is simply not socially permitted to hit another one in the face, or to do damage to their reputation socially, it has been - and always will be - a long accepted rule that you should damage his physical property.

Ffs - who is using this forum these days?!

Slippy if you re-read the thread you'll see it was her car - not his, so no innocent party has been hurt

I think if slippy caught someone in bed with his misses he'd probably make him a cup of tea

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slippyblue im jealous of you having never been in such a situation !!   :-0

Sometimes I read a thread and I'm reminded why I win money on here. I'm playing against some complete and utter balloons. Troglodyte doesn't even come close. Some of you lot are still dunking your bread in the primordial soup.

Of course Slippy Blue, a swordsman of some renown, has been in a similar situation. We all have. It goes with the territory.

When you end up on the wrong side, man up, and walk away with some dignity.

Still... look forward not back. Rear legs to come. That'll be good.

...as charged

Ozy - are any of these from the "truthers" mob? Or is that a completely different set of the cerebrally challenged?

cheers for the replies lads, entertaining Friday night thread if nowt else  ;-)

A different set, Pandy, I believe.  The 'truthers' are the

Let me get this straight, because I do think im talking to a load of privately schooled middle class fellas living in little suburban white villages miles from reality

You find someone you were just about to move in with, someone you sold your house to be with, someone you probably just about to marry and have kids with - has been sleeping around, and then you expect him to walk away as if nothing has happened and say ah well,

There is no dignity in being in soft, personally I'd had set up a video camera in the bedroom, go out to work all day, he'll come round, then later on put the video online

Ozy - shot by a truther in mid-flow

A different set, Pandy, I believe.  The 'truthers' are the intellectual Neanderthals, this bunch prefer brute force and a violent reaction.

It's called being a grown up AR.
At the moment I'm worried you might be ripe for picking by a miscreant teacher who could whisk you away to foreign climes for illicit purposes.

Though to be fair, the Neanderthals did have reason to suspect their neighbours were up to no good.

You find someone you were just about to move in with, someone you sold your house to be with, someone you probably just about to marry and have kids with - has been sleeping around, and then you expect him to walk away as if nothing has happened and say ah well,

Yup.  Hurts a lot admitedly.  It's called civilised behaviour.

Oh well, that was fun. Time for a poker tournament.
Night all. Give the wives and gfs a slap from me won't you. They won't mind.

well that's my saturday sorted I'm visitng Pandy wife, make sure you're not back til 7, I have stamina

I trust I can leave my car parked outside

I have a feeling AR's reading and comprehension skills are on the lower end of the scale.

Lets be honest, he won't appeal in the slightest to Pandys wife.

  AR

so the answer to my thread title is ' no '... 

You know where she lives:

1 Order the biggest skip that will fit on the drive. Cash on delivery

2 Order 5 ton of the finest manure.cash on delivery

3 Order 6 large pizzas.cash on delivery

4 Taxi to airport 3am

5 Double Glazing enquiry's on a weekly basis

6 Estate Agent house valuations  again on a weekly basis


Some may deem this petty but hey..........................

nice one 11kv
il settle for not having to pay for repairs she hasn't had done and my £800 back  ;-)

barrelman
21 Jun 13 20:57   
finding out she was shagging someone else behing my back

It takes two to tango.

If you want to do damage, do it to the face of the bloke who was shagging her, he was taking the piss out of you by doing it.

Then spread the rumour you left her because she had gonorrhea.

How many blokes have had their motors smashed up by a woman scorned ? alot more than people on here would believe ..

Some woman are horrible evil twisted individuals far worse then men ,I honestly know of a case where a woman got

away with murder ,the bloke she had killed (her Husband) was no angel. but I can assure you neither was the woman ....

All this Chivalry bollox being spoke on this thread is at least dated at worse rediculous ...

A good bit of solvent over the car etc ,will have the neighbours asking why has someone done that ,they probably

know anyway

I await a torrent of abuse

I have a feeling AR's reading and comprehension skills are on the lower end of the scale.

Lets be honest, he won't appeal in the slightest to Pandys wife.




Well, academically, there is nothing on my CV to shout about, like most though, have got through life being streetwise and being blessed with some things books can't teach, common sense, being condescending may make you feel better, but it doesn't make you look better, I don't pretend to be something I'm not, but what an opinion on an affair has to do with literacy I don't know, for the record it's all about pride, not being an Neanderthal, so like I say I wasn't advocating violence but if you let everyone walk over you, you deserve to be walked over.

Now if you don't mind, you're keeping me from my Beano comic.

Sounds like your'e getting fleeced for smashing up an old banger, and getting billed for car repairs too.

an ex of mine trashed my house and car evil bitch ploce not interested,also took a beating from an outraged partner didnt see him coming police also not interested forget it and move on