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I must have read over a hundred thousand posts on here, but I think only big charlie and someone else has said they loved their wife. As men on here have often stated that they have no use for women over 45, does this mean that they really only lust after women, not love?
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*insert ken masters witty response here*
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Hi annie, hope you are well, I love mine unconditionally.
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I love Big Charlies wife as well.
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I am fine, boxing the fox, how are you? But how old is your wife and do you still lust after her? What I am saying is that if wives are still nubile then men do not know whether they truly love them until the women get old and lose their looks.
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of course men can truly love women. bit of a daft question annie.
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would not swop mine ,she is very well trained.
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Nothing to do with Lust or age annie. Love and lust two entirely different things. I've known many guys "fall in Lust" with someone and get married, needless to say the marriages didn't last long.
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Not really kenny. You are an example, you like young girls - can you really tell whether you love them or just lust after them? Would you really like them the same if they had the same personality but were your age, in their sixties?
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I love the missus, but I lust over others. Would never cheat on her, so I guess that is love as I fear losing or disrespecting her.
That is where porn comes in handy, or a picture memory during the summer months |
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i have met girls i would have given my left testicle ,
and most of them it did not last,but my wife and self new each other for a while and were friends and it just grew and 20 years later its getting better. |
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The Magic Flea
That is by far the nicest post I have ever seen from you. I wish men would say more often things like that on here. |
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i like all ages, it's just that 2 young chicks chatted me up. I could just as easily go for a fit 55 year old, such as the lovely Sharon Maughan or Cheri Lunghi
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it's nice for a married man to lust over other women
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cheer up annie
im sure there is a nice reliable old timer out there for you. |
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Thank you, dustybin, you are so kind
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i love the wife but it certainly aint lust anymore,i cant be ar$ed anymore about nookie in all honesty
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Are you still with her, terry? I thought you had seperated.
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But kenny, you are lusting after them - would you still feel the same way if they had the same personality but looked like jo brand?
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no im back for better or worse but id be happy to live in a bedsit for the rest of my days doing wotever i liked whenever i liked,i kinda like my own company
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Then do it terry. I have mostly lived with men all my life, but these last few years on my own have been the happiest. I do get lonely sometimes but that is only at christmas and I know I will feel lonely watching the world cup on my own. There is noone to hug when england scores! (if they do!)
Although, I think it is different for a woman on her own. We do not have the high sex drive that men do, and if we really missed it there are a lot of men who would oblige. Although I do not take up their kind offers The same cannot be said of a man on his own. |
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mini me can still be quite demanding!
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Do women really love men? Or just use them until they find something better to do? *ends bitter rant(
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Yes of course. The downside of a break up and it's knock on effects, especially with kids involved seems often to hit men harder. It has certainly made me reluctant to get seriously involved again, which in one persons case I am now regretting a lot
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Annie, in response to your initial post, I think it is possible to love a woman you aren't particularly attracted to, lust after a woman you fancy like mad and every possible combination in between.
It all depends on who you meet and the connection you make together, imho of course. To fully appreciate the lusting issue I think as a man you need to be in a position where you can attract women that have this effect on you. That said I guess everyone operates with a certain range of partners that they are able to attract. |
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I thought the difference between love and lust was that being a bit of a gent, you offered to occasionally lie on the wet patch afterwards.
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I think you'd be surprised the amount of men, especially younger men, who want a relationship rather than random sleeping around. Two of my mates, one 25 and one 21, would give anything for a relationship with someone that truly loved them.
Deep down that is probably what everyone wants isn't it? |
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Blokes in tired long term relationships (when one or both partners take each other for granted and stop making the effort so the passion dies) are jealous of their single mates who they reckon are out filling their boots all the time. A fair few of the single blokes are jealous of the blokes in a long term relationship because they long for security and true love!
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This man knows ^^
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Maybe, all too late though as my life is a shambles!
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I'm only 22 and i've managed to mess mine up quite nicely so far
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One of your problems here is that once a couple have kids, men still want their wife/girlfriend, and women want a father for their kids. Conversely men get a mother for their kids, and wives find they've still got their husband/boyfriend.
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i love my missus before and during sex but after ive finished i just feel like i want the bed to myself
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There is an 'agony aunt' page of the telegraph once a week and although it is usually full of woman's complaints, sometimes men write in.
Whilst the women's problems are varied, the problem men have is usually the same. They complain that, after their wife has had a baby and lost their figure or after just getting old and losing their figure and face, they now longer desire their partners and want to divorce and find someone else to lust over. So, along with the fact that men on here only talk about women in a sexual manner, I have to conclude that, in general, a man does have to desire his partner to be truly happy? |
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Maybe that is why some men have a "mid life crisis" and have an affair with a younger woman.
I guess there is always the boredom factor too, even if a woman retains her looks to a higher degree than usual if she doesn't put out as often as before or isn't as enthusiastic as she once was in the earlier part of the relationship then it will obviously have an effect on how a man views his woman. imo this is a tow way street, how a man feels about his woman will be linked to the effort the woman puts into the relationship, & vice versa of course. |
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^^two way street
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all women want is someone to make them feel attractive and wanted. so when their hubby cant be bothered lying anymore, the woman goes out to find someone who can be bothered to lie to her.
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Do you reckon even women can then be truly happy without any physical attraction at all (assuming they haven't hit the menopause)? Can love between a couple completely transcend sex when it is a basic natural need? This of course is presuming that neither is getting it elsewhere either!
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HRH, some women claim that looks are unimportant, but I'm not sure I believe that really. Maybe unimportant to women who don't have the confidence to go for a good looking man??
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