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Bamboo
04 Feb 10 15:13
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and saying" ladies first". Is it considered politicaly incorrect to do this now a days ? Being equal and all that.

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By:
ladycakes69
When: 04 Feb 10 15:14
yes totally :)
By:
ladycakes69
When: 04 Feb 10 15:14
oh no meant still gentlemanly to do this :)
By:
The Magic Flea
When: 04 Feb 10 15:15
he said "ladies"
By:
CUPRA
When: 04 Feb 10 15:16
I'm an expert you know.
By:
Clockwork
When: 04 Feb 10 15:16
1.01 landed^ :)
By:
BurtSaddo.
When: 04 Feb 10 15:17
does it include lorry doors?
By:
ladycakes69
When: 04 Feb 10 15:17
lol burt for once
By:
CUPRA
When: 04 Feb 10 15:18
Diana's husband?
By:
oldbean
When: 04 Feb 10 15:18
i do it,
i'd slap it closed to that truck driver from barsnley, aka lady cakes, imvho
By:
ladycakes69
When: 04 Feb 10 15:18
im not from barnsley !!
By:
Bamboo
When: 04 Feb 10 15:18
I get a bit confused because i think there might be a few ladies/women who don`t like it.
By:
CUPRA
When: 04 Feb 10 15:18
Show mw show me some things to do Lots of fun here for me and you
By:
ladycakes69
When: 04 Feb 10 15:21
cupra i so hate that bloody show with mo mo bot , what's that teaching my daughter sod bloody all , but show me show me your groovyy moves :)
By:
oldbean
When: 04 Feb 10 15:25
ladycakes69 04 Feb 16:18


im not from barnsley !!

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u aint no lady either,
By:
Andy Murray
When: 04 Feb 10 15:36
i open doors for anyone, male or female.. guess im just a nice guy
By:
BurtSaddo.
When: 04 Feb 10 15:37
and your back doors
By:
Shrewd_dude
When: 04 Feb 10 15:43
I personally go for the more chivalrous and gender neutral "After you".
By:
leefee
When: 04 Feb 10 15:45
and if they walk through without saying 'thank you' give em a swift kick up the @rris
By:
Bamboo
When: 04 Feb 10 15:47
Shrewd_dude 04 Feb 16:43
I personally go for the more chivalrous and gender neutral "After you".



Perfect i think you have cracked it ,i will say that in future ty :-)
By:
Bamboo
When: 04 Feb 10 15:48
Still you are making the action of opening the door in the first place which might not be correct
By:
shergarburger
When: 04 Feb 10 15:55
I always open doors but anyone not saying thankyou makes me seeeth.
By:
HRH The Lager Khan
When: 04 Feb 10 15:58
The 'after you' thing seems to be appreciatedl with orgasms too.
By:
Shrewd_dude
When: 04 Feb 10 15:58
Me too. What really annoys me is when you hold a door open for a bird and she doesnt even say anything as if your expected to do that. Men usually at least give you the 'head nod'.
By:
Shrewd_dude
When: 04 Feb 10 15:59
P.S you know what the head nod is and its nothing to do with buggery.
By:
Capt__F
When: 04 Feb 10 16:05
Flash of The Scania headlights
By:
Clockwork
When: 04 Feb 10 16:55
I, too, am an "after you" chap. However, if they fail to thank me, I say it for them, very loudly, with a glare. To see their faces, you would have thought I had Susan**s head and John Terry's d1ck.
By:
get in there gamsty!
When: 04 Feb 10 17:22
yeh i cant resist saying "yeh thanks!" loudly if i dnt get a recognition for my efforts.
By:
carvoeiro
When: 04 Feb 10 18:14
I always open doors for ladies, but if I don't get an acknowledgement, which is very rude , I say in a loud voice "Don't mention it" I usually get a look suggesting I have flashed at them.
By:
annie.
When: 04 Feb 10 19:11
I love it and long may it continue.
By:
DaveEdwards
When: 04 Feb 10 19:16
I will never walk through a door before a lady period.

You don't have to say ladies first. They all know why you are letting them go first. Sometimes I'll get the odd, "no after you" from the woman I am waiting for to which my reply is that there is no way I'm going through the door before them.

Nevermind equality, I think all women like a man to let them through first.
By:
Rentaghost
When: 04 Feb 10 19:26
what's a bird's period got to do with it?
By:
Bamboo
When: 04 Feb 10 19:27
Dave Edwards you say "they all know why you are letting them go first"

I was just wondering what you mean by that? i still feel their are some wimmin out there who might not think its very pc to open the door and let them go first.I agree with you though i think they like having the door opened for them
By:
Rentaghost
When: 04 Feb 10 19:28
they like avin their back door kicked in for them...
By:
DaveEdwards
When: 04 Feb 10 19:33
You know come on, I'm a man they are a woman and I'm letting them through in the age old tradition. I do think though that whether it was tradition or not I'd still do it.

As for wimmin, I'm not interested in that nonsense. Men are men and women are women as far as I'm concerned. When I was young I went out with a girl who considered herself a feminist. He car broke down and she couldn't start it again. She asked me to do something about it. I hadn't even had a lesson to learn how to drive let alone studied car mechanics. I explained that I didnt know what to do. Her response was you are a man aren't you?

Maybe me always letting women through first is a selfish thing too. I guess I like being known as a gentleman amongst the women I know. Can come in handy sometimes!
By:
Bamboo
When: 04 Feb 10 19:36
Good on you DE :-)
By:
punterfleecer
When: 04 Feb 10 19:41
I agree with your reply dave edwards, I pull open doors for any women, even grannies too

but yes had the odd woman passing by without saying a thanks but I don't say anything, I don't lower myself

but as to opening doors to the ladies I'd sh@g, i give a 10% bigger smile :)
By:
DaveEdwards
When: 04 Feb 10 19:43
punterfleecer 04 Feb 20:41

but as to opening doors to the ladies I'd sh@g, i give a 10% bigger smile

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Now you are talking my language! Always get the smile in when you have the chance!
By:
Phil Lynott
When: 04 Feb 10 19:45
I like holding doors open for people ages away. Funny making them sprint just so they don't leave me waiting there.
By:
punterfleecer
When: 04 Feb 10 19:45
oh aye dave, but there's probably about 750 women at my work and plenty i'd give a bigger smile to, but I just don't know how to break the ice, well with the women I see once in a blue moon in an entirely differently department

ken whit ah mean?
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