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My ex boyfriend and i are very close friends, and have a better relationship and friendship now than when we were a couple.
It isnt one of those situations where one has feelings stronger than the other...its a mutual friendship.
Why do people not believe that men and women can be friends?
And of course his girlfriend despises me.
It isnt one of those situations where one has feelings stronger than the other...its a mutual friendship.
Why do people not believe that men and women can be friends?
And of course his girlfriend despises me.
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One step at a time please, most people on here don't believe in women.
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Do you get wet thinking about him? Because if not he is probably knocking one out into a sock whilst thinking about you as soon as his girlfriend has gone to sleep.
The platonic thing doesn't work as one will always have feelings for the other. If that isn't the case here then you are probably both hideous and boring. |
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Don't get me wrong, there have been a couple of occassions where we have taken advantage of eachother, however we were able to wake up the next day and carry on as normal...
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Why do people believe that people are unable to believe that men and women can be friends?
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I'm living proof it can't be done. Married for 3 years now.
Wil only work if a) the girl is really ugly, i mean a 10 pinter or more, b) bloke is gay, c) Neither drink. |
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I can assure you im not 10 pinter....we both love a drink...hmmm, he must be gay then.
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So it isn't platonic then Brooke. You've just proved that you can't do it.
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its easy when you have been there and done that so to speak. My best mate is a girl no issues there.
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But sleeping together doesn't change anything, it has never made either of us want to go back, and it doesnt evoke any emotional attatchment, just scratches an itch.
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So can hot lesbians just be friends too?
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No, only ugly ones.
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Platonic = free from sensual desire
If he is throwing one up you even on an irregular basis there's probably a bit of sensual desire going on one way or another, so it isn't plutonic. |
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Platonic even.
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Hmmm i don't think either of us see it as sexual desire...
Its more like eating Christmas Pudding, you dont think about it all year until its in front of you, you enjoy the familiarity of it, but then you carry on another 364 days with your normal life and diet and dont eat it for another year. |
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He must have some level of sexual desire when you drop your pants otherwise he'd need to tie it to a splint to get it in.
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I lived with my ex wife for 5 happy years, was married to her for 2 yrs of hell.
We decided to be civil about the separation and divorce for the kids sake, and we have been mates for the last 20 yrs and have 2 wonderful well balanced sons :) |
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I can't believe it's not butter
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methinks somewon doesn't phooly understand the term "platonic"
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Had to laugh at this...
Don't get me wrong, there have been a couple of occassions where we have taken advantage of eachother, however we were able to wake up the next day and carry on as normal... Irony |
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nothing like 10,000 spoons, though
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Im a woman, therefore i have my own interpretation of most things.
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well if you occasionally sh@g each other, it is hardly platonic, and that is probably why his girlfriend hates you. For once you may be a real woman, because you are contradicting yourself
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:D
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Brooke 03 Dec 15:25
Don't get me wrong, there have been a couple of occassions where we have taken advantage of eachother, however we were able to wake up the next day and carry on as normal... platonic sounds like a casual relationship with nooky thrown in to be honest but if that's whot you want then good luck to you |
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So your happy to sleep with someone who has a girlfriend.... welcome to the forum you'll fit in nicely.
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Brooke 03 Dec 15:56
Im a woman, therefore i have my own interpretation of most things. whot's your nterpretation of nooky ! |
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Brooke 03 Dec 15:56
Im a woman, therefore i have my own interpretation of most things. Who gives a **e about your pedantic and boring life ! |
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Hmmm im not sure if ive explained myself well, i appreciate that my comments may have seemed contradictory, but it wasnt my intention.
The sex is actually irrelevant, the friendship is the thing that we both value. |
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Excellent point, quite brilliantly made
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then why post! good point though |
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:D
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Oops, the irony of missing a minute
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Brooke do you write for Mills and Boon ?
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ICANTSTANDTHISFORUM -
You need to lighten up. Or maybe just f**k off. |
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Good point
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Don't get me wrong, there have been a couple of occassions where we have taken advantage of eachother, however we were able to wake up the next day and carry on as normal
and thats why she hates you ,it aint hard is it . |
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Probably a blonde so it may be impossible for her to think of a reason why.
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Brooke 03 Dec 16:05
You need to lighten up. Or maybe just f**k off. Do woman sware |
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Brooke, are you hotter than his girlfriend, and if so where do you outpoint her?
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