Apr 11, 2020 -- 1:47PM, Angoose wrote:
Perhaps you would benefit from taking your daily exercise about now, a very pleasant day outdoors.
You never tell someone who is having a mighty fit/meltdown to calm down. That only makes it worse. Didn't you learn anything from Taylor Swift's music video for "ME!"?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FuXNumBwDOM
You encourage them to let it all out.
Apr 11, 2020 -- 2:32PM, Angoose wrote:
I tried to disguise it by not using the words "calm down", but I recognise my mistake now.
See? Now that we've allowed it to calm down at its own pace, now that it has a sober view on things again, it is terribly ashamed of its own thread and behaviour, calling it "ugh".