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12 Sep 19
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into my Betfair acct ,when a lad stopped me in picadilly gardens and asked me where the nearest taxi rank was .I know where they are but I couldn't think .I said there's one over there .He said he wanted one to get back to Barnsley where he lived.he said would I show him where the taxi rank was
He had two opened bottles of Budweiser he finished one and placed the bottle on the floor near the tram lines. That pi**ed me off as there s lots of litter bins .he then started to drink from the other bottle .He said he was going back home to Barnsley that's why he wanted a taxi .I said get the train it's cheaper he said I'm on a thousand pounds. A week I can afford a taxi ,I said I was on over that In 1989 and look at me now .
I said what are you doing in Manchester .he said he sha**ed a girl in Manchester last night and she dropped him off here
I said if you keep drinking like this you will end up in a mental ward or dead .he said I can't stop.
I said moderation is the key word and he said there was no moderation in his life .I said just as the same in my life
I then thought to myself what am I doing trying to educate him who I don't know .when I can't educate them on the Betfair forums who I've tried to for years
I then thought to myself you wouldn't listen to anyone when you were enjoying yourself why should he or anyone else listen
I then got on the metro back home .and talked to my self about how much I hate my brother and his partner for ripping me off for thousands when my man died .
I just hope that lad from Barnsley sees the light before it's too late
Yes I do look at myself when I'm not looking at others
He had two opened bottles of Budweiser he finished one and placed the bottle on the floor near the tram lines. That pi**ed me off as there s lots of litter bins .he then started to drink from the other bottle .He said he was going back home to Barnsley that's why he wanted a taxi .I said get the train it's cheaper he said I'm on a thousand pounds. A week I can afford a taxi ,I said I was on over that In 1989 and look at me now .
I said what are you doing in Manchester .he said he sha**ed a girl in Manchester last night and she dropped him off here
I said if you keep drinking like this you will end up in a mental ward or dead .he said I can't stop.
I said moderation is the key word and he said there was no moderation in his life .I said just as the same in my life
I then thought to myself what am I doing trying to educate him who I don't know .when I can't educate them on the Betfair forums who I've tried to for years
I then thought to myself you wouldn't listen to anyone when you were enjoying yourself why should he or anyone else listen
I then got on the metro back home .and talked to my self about how much I hate my brother and his partner for ripping me off for thousands when my man died .
I just hope that lad from Barnsley sees the light before it's too late
Yes I do look at myself when I'm not looking at others
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not one single person has ever said yes your right do way diddy I will start altering my ways
Those who bother even to think
Just think hes a nutter
Those who bother even to think
Just think hes a nutter
Do Wah....you may be able to get some of that money back....use a No Win , No fee solicitor.
Do Wah that lad as on the rock n roll not a grand a week
I think it's very cruel of DwD to spoil that blokes pleasure by pointing out to him that he's going to end up on the rocks.
I bet those are his only pleasures in life getting drunk and putting it about a bit.
And you had to ruin his night out by telling him that.
I bet those are his only pleasures in life getting drunk and putting it about a bit.
And you had to ruin his night out by telling him that.
Dr...not to mention the poor taxi driver, who's skint, because of gambling when waiting for a fair, and his poor wife and kids.....
Hes probably caught a dose , sure he wasn't a homersexual budweiser ffs.
Do wah diddy
We think we are invincible when we are young, we never listen to older and wiser heads
It is the way of the world
From your previous posts you feel your alcoholism and gambling cost you your marriage and regret it.
(I hope you do not mind me posting that)
So want to steer others away from making the same mistake....you have a good motive.
I made bad mistakes when young(not the same) and now regret it as I live on my own with my cat
and am now too old to work.
Mind you I was nastier than you so probably deserved it, some people think I still am.
I hope you find a friend of either sex, and feel more comfortable about your life.
I think sometimes life works out the way it was supposed to and was never going to be any different
Still you have your own thoughts
I think ou are a nice man
and I find your posts entertaining on here.
We think we are invincible when we are young, we never listen to older and wiser heads
It is the way of the world
From your previous posts you feel your alcoholism and gambling cost you your marriage and regret it.
(I hope you do not mind me posting that)
So want to steer others away from making the same mistake....you have a good motive.
I made bad mistakes when young(not the same) and now regret it as I live on my own with my cat
and am now too old to work.
Mind you I was nastier than you so probably deserved it, some people think I still am.
I hope you find a friend of either sex, and feel more comfortable about your life.
I think sometimes life works out the way it was supposed to and was never going to be any different
Still you have your own thoughts
I think ou are a nice man
and I find your posts entertaining on here.
^ Good post !
Nothing is pre-determined....anyone can change their life.
Always try to be good !
Nothing is pre-determined....anyone can change their life.
Always try to be good !
ta for that Leopard...and a good post from you
Yes we should try to change our life for the better
Even though it is patently harder for some than others
But if we don't try we will never know...some people have overcome very difficult odds
That applies to both me and doo wah
Yes we should try to change our life for the better
Even though it is patently harder for some than others
But if we don't try we will never know...some people have overcome very difficult odds
That applies to both me and doo wah
Life is shitt then you die...............98% of the planet would agree.........
SMASH THE MIDDLE
SMASH THE MIDDLE
The leperd I was going to reply to you .but the story would be longer to read than war and peace .I gave up after an hour .
There took me to the cleaners .theve lied and lied and lied and worked underhand to get the house .her bankbooks gold and money in her purses and her tax rebate I've never been shown the bill for the funeral and stone .they just told me what I owed them and paid it .I've since found out that he over charged me 1500.i was never shown her bankbooks
He ask#ed me to give him 20 pounds to tip the men in the hearse and he would give them 20
I knew he wouldn't give it them so a fortnight after the funeral I said I'm going to the lady at the funeral office .he said what for .I said to thank her for looking after everything as I knew her personally .he then said I never paid them the funeral people messed me about . he never offered it me back
Everything they asked for i gave it them .I wanted the silver cutlery set that a friend of the family bought them in 1949 .my mam said everything in the house was for me as I was moving in a flat and they had their own things from their big house
Even though she said that I thought no 50-50
One of the few things I wanted was that set .he said he's would bring it to me at a later date
They took all the original cutlery out and gave me the old box with a load of knives fork spoons etc that were made in Pakistan .Thailand .Japan .and the rest of Asia .they must have bought them from Wilkinson's
This is nothing to the amount of money they did me out of .I felt that stupid and betrayed I went to the motorway bridge contemplating ending it .
But I'm not that strong of a man to do it
I can't take him to court as my children get on very well with his child and i don't want my stupidity in me trusting them .to upset their lives
My last three years have been hell .there in my head every hour of every day .I know the only way for me not to get any iller is tocforgive them but the anger is making me poorly .I've been for counselling .and how ive not had a drink is a miracle .The hate I have for them is doing me no good .I must let go and forgive them but I can't .
This is only a drip in the ocean of the underhanded things theve donecyou wouldn't believe the rest
The more they lied the poorlier I got and the more they took
I knew they were lying but I couldn't face them like a man and accuse them face to face
There took me to the cleaners .theve lied and lied and lied and worked underhand to get the house .her bankbooks gold and money in her purses and her tax rebate I've never been shown the bill for the funeral and stone .they just told me what I owed them and paid it .I've since found out that he over charged me 1500.i was never shown her bankbooks
He ask#ed me to give him 20 pounds to tip the men in the hearse and he would give them 20
I knew he wouldn't give it them so a fortnight after the funeral I said I'm going to the lady at the funeral office .he said what for .I said to thank her for looking after everything as I knew her personally .he then said I never paid them the funeral people messed me about . he never offered it me back
Everything they asked for i gave it them .I wanted the silver cutlery set that a friend of the family bought them in 1949 .my mam said everything in the house was for me as I was moving in a flat and they had their own things from their big house
Even though she said that I thought no 50-50
One of the few things I wanted was that set .he said he's would bring it to me at a later date
They took all the original cutlery out and gave me the old box with a load of knives fork spoons etc that were made in Pakistan .Thailand .Japan .and the rest of Asia .they must have bought them from Wilkinson's
This is nothing to the amount of money they did me out of .I felt that stupid and betrayed I went to the motorway bridge contemplating ending it .
But I'm not that strong of a man to do it
I can't take him to court as my children get on very well with his child and i don't want my stupidity in me trusting them .to upset their lives
My last three years have been hell .there in my head every hour of every day .I know the only way for me not to get any iller is tocforgive them but the anger is making me poorly .I've been for counselling .and how ive not had a drink is a miracle .The hate I have for them is doing me no good .I must let go and forgive them but I can't .
This is only a drip in the ocean of the underhanded things theve donecyou wouldn't believe the rest
The more they lied the poorlier I got and the more they took
I knew they were lying but I couldn't face them like a man and accuse them face to face
Uble......I have had to over come some difficult problems in my life also.
Peckerdunne...better to think positive....
Peckerdunne...better to think positive....
Leopard, i am just stating the reality, i am not being negative.
Positivity is good but only takes you so far.....
Positivity is good but only takes you so far.....
Do wah
I'm thinking your mum passed on and the rest of the family ripped you off...
Is that the jist.
I'm thinking your mum passed on and the rest of the family ripped you off...
Is that the jist.
Do Wah....10/10 for effort.....I have copied that for future reference......better to let the anger go....you will feel better 
Yes it's not the money it's the lies and deceit and betrayal which I feel and how theve used me to feather their own nest with their
I have done everything right and gave them and their daughter what they asked for while they had no respect for me.after all I've done for them .I said I would write off 20000 what he owed me from years ago when he told me he had no money
Then I found out he had a financial adviser when she phoned me up by mistake .the house he lived in .he told me that the bank was going to make him sell it and there was no equity in it .but there was well over 13000O
in it when I had my paranoid head on and found the truth out
I have done everything right and gave them and their daughter what they asked for while they had no respect for me.after all I've done for them .I said I would write off 20000 what he owed me from years ago when he told me he had no money
Then I found out he had a financial adviser when she phoned me up by mistake .the house he lived in .he told me that the bank was going to make him sell it and there was no equity in it .but there was well over 13000O
in it when I had my paranoid head on and found the truth out
Yes it's not the money it's the lies and deceit and betrayal which I feel and how theve used me to feather their own nest with their
I have done everything right and gave them and their daughter what they asked for while they had no respect for me.after all I've done for them .I said I would write off 20000 what he owed me from years ago when he told me he had no money
Then I found out he had a financial adviser when she phoned me up by mistake .the house he lived in .he told me that the bank was going to make him sell it and there was no equity in it .but there was well over 13000O
in it when I had my paranoid head on and found the truth out
I have done everything right and gave them and their daughter what they asked for while they had no respect for me.after all I've done for them .I said I would write off 20000 what he owed me from years ago when he told me he had no money
Then I found out he had a financial adviser when she phoned me up by mistake .the house he lived in .he told me that the bank was going to make him sell it and there was no equity in it .but there was well over 13000O
in it when I had my paranoid head on and found the truth out
You are just too nice Do wah...you really are
You should take this story to a solicitor there may be one who can help you
I don't know?
Don't feel guilty you are not in wrong...your own children will understand
I have never thought the meek would inherit the earth myself
We live by the rules of Darwin...sadly
You should take this story to a solicitor there may be one who can help you
I don't know?
Don't feel guilty you are not in wrong...your own children will understand
I have never thought the meek would inherit the earth myself
We live by the rules of Darwin...sadly
The leperd I can't let the anger go but I will let you go
It's late good night
It's late good night
Uble my girls have seen how ill it's making me and told me to forget it .there not interested in the money
I feel as though I've let them down and not been a real man
I feel as though I've let them down and not been a real man
Im letting you all go it's all about me me me me again good night
Good night....don't take things too seriously....enjoy life.
Uble...the meek can inherit the Earth if they stick together....it's called Socialism.
Try seeing your Doctor Doo Wah...perhaps he can find some counselling for you
Also some medication to calm you...although they don't like prescribing anti depressants now
I suppose the question is, when you were with our wife and family did you provide for them adequately?
You see if you did that you fulfilled your responsibility.
If you blew your own money on gambling and alcohol it seems to me ok.
I feel you have been hard done by Do Wah, as I said try to find a solicitor somewhere to at least see if you have a case?
Also some medication to calm you...although they don't like prescribing anti depressants now
I suppose the question is, when you were with our wife and family did you provide for them adequately?
You see if you did that you fulfilled your responsibility.
If you blew your own money on gambling and alcohol it seems to me ok.
I feel you have been hard done by Do Wah, as I said try to find a solicitor somewhere to at least see if you have a case?
You have my sympathy Do wah..however as you will probably admit you would have gambled it away by now.
Yes.i left my wife the house which was fully paid for as she had done no wrong.i had to go To a judge to make sure I was of sound mind as many men want half .one of my my daughter's had a very good job and has her own house and goes all over the world .my other daughter works and so does her partner .and I gave my daughter's half of the money each I received from my half of the sale of my name house
Me and my brother agreed to get three independent valuations as he said his daughter wanted to buy it we agreed that we we would take the average price that was offered and we asked the valuers to tell us the minimum value what it was worth .
He came to the house at the same time as the first valuer .he scraped all the side of his taxi as he saw her talking to me .He wanted to take full control of the valuation .he didn't show a single plus side of the house he just pointed out every single fault .there was a brand new brick built building in the back garden .the valuer said that's very nice what is it .he more or less walked straight past her murmering it's just a shed .it was never opened so they never saw all the electrical points and Blackwell it looked .I thought well it's for his daughter and he can't moan at the final price.when we got all the valuations in he said he wanted another 5000 off pleading poverty so I gave him 3000 I said we agreed that the valuers price was final as he shown them all the bad points and not a single good point but I knocked 3000 off .he later said he was buying the house as he was moving in with his daughter and partner and he would give it them later .he said he needed to live there and if she got pregnant or wanted her boyfriend to move in .they might throw them out .he said she was getting it any way once they died
At first he said his daughter was buying it and that she had got a mortgage .I questioned him on that as I was told she wouldn't be able to get one .but he assured me she had one as she had a very good job
I didn't want to leave the house .but I promised my mam before I died I would .she knew he was going to get thrown out of his big house eventually because he was only paying the interest on what he had lent.and the fixed period would be soon up
Of course I would have let the family have the house and move out their was no need for all the lies
He kept stressing that the bank was going to possess it and sell it off very cheaply .I thought he would get a council house and I was willing to write off the 20000 that I lent him over 20 years ago
He never mentioned any more until I got a phone call from a lady who thought I was him and when I kept talking she leaked that she wash his financial adviser .you should of seen his face when I said she was looking for him.
I then started my investigations and when I asked him what he got for it he said it's none of my business .
I said it was my business when you kept telling me. He would get nothing for it .I went on Zoopla and saw the price and when I phoned him up he said he had moved on and put the phone down
Me and my brother agreed to get three independent valuations as he said his daughter wanted to buy it we agreed that we we would take the average price that was offered and we asked the valuers to tell us the minimum value what it was worth .
He came to the house at the same time as the first valuer .he scraped all the side of his taxi as he saw her talking to me .He wanted to take full control of the valuation .he didn't show a single plus side of the house he just pointed out every single fault .there was a brand new brick built building in the back garden .the valuer said that's very nice what is it .he more or less walked straight past her murmering it's just a shed .it was never opened so they never saw all the electrical points and Blackwell it looked .I thought well it's for his daughter and he can't moan at the final price.when we got all the valuations in he said he wanted another 5000 off pleading poverty so I gave him 3000 I said we agreed that the valuers price was final as he shown them all the bad points and not a single good point but I knocked 3000 off .he later said he was buying the house as he was moving in with his daughter and partner and he would give it them later .he said he needed to live there and if she got pregnant or wanted her boyfriend to move in .they might throw them out .he said she was getting it any way once they died
At first he said his daughter was buying it and that she had got a mortgage .I questioned him on that as I was told she wouldn't be able to get one .but he assured me she had one as she had a very good job
I didn't want to leave the house .but I promised my mam before I died I would .she knew he was going to get thrown out of his big house eventually because he was only paying the interest on what he had lent.and the fixed period would be soon up
Of course I would have let the family have the house and move out their was no need for all the lies
He kept stressing that the bank was going to possess it and sell it off very cheaply .I thought he would get a council house and I was willing to write off the 20000 that I lent him over 20 years ago
He never mentioned any more until I got a phone call from a lady who thought I was him and when I kept talking she leaked that she wash his financial adviser .you should of seen his face when I said she was looking for him.
I then started my investigations and when I asked him what he got for it he said it's none of my business .
I said it was my business when you kept telling me. He would get nothing for it .I went on Zoopla and saw the price and when I phoned him up he said he had moved on and put the phone down
Yes.i left my wife the house which was fully paid for as she had done no wrong.i had to go To a judge to make sure I was of sound mind as many men want half .one of my my daughter's had a very good job and has her own house and goes all over the world .my other daughter works and so does her partner .and I gave my daughter's half of the money each I received from my half of the sale of my name house
Me and my brother agreed to get three independent valuations as he said his daughter wanted to buy it we agreed that we we would take the average price that was offered and we asked the valuers to tell us the minimum value what it was worth .
He came to the house at the same time as the first valuer .he scraped all the side of his taxi as he saw her talking to me .He wanted to take full control of the valuation .he didn't show a single plus side of the house he just pointed out every single fault .there was a brand new brick built building in the back garden .the valuer said that's very nice what is it .he more or less walked straight past her murmering it's just a shed .it was never opened so they never saw all the electrical points and Blackwell it looked .I thought well it's for his daughter and he can't moan at the final price.when we got all the valuations in he said he wanted another 5000 off pleading poverty so I gave him 3000 I said we agreed that the valuers price was final as he shown them all the bad points and not a single good point but I knocked 3000 off .he later said he was buying the house as he was moving in with his daughter and partner and he would give it them later .he said he needed to live there and if she got pregnant or wanted her boyfriend to move in .they might throw them out .he said she was getting it any way once they died
At first he said his daughter was buying it and that she had got a mortgage .I questioned him on that as I was told she wouldn't be able to get one .but he assured me she had one as she had a very good job
I didn't want to leave the house .but I promised my mam before I died I would .she knew he was going to get thrown out of his big house eventually because he was only paying the interest on what he had lent.and the fixed period would be soon up
Of course I would have let the family have the house and move out their was no need for all the lies
He kept stressing that the bank was going to possess it and sell it off very cheaply .I thought he would get a council house and I was willing to write off the 20000 that I lent him over 20 years ago
He never mentioned any more until I got a phone call from a lady who thought I was him and when I kept talking she leaked that she wash his financial adviser .you should of seen his face when I said she was looking for him.
I then started my investigations and when I asked him what he got for it he said it's none of my business .
I said it was my business when you kept telling me. He would get nothing for it .I went on Zoopla and saw the price and when I phoned him up he said he had moved on and put the phone down
Me and my brother agreed to get three independent valuations as he said his daughter wanted to buy it we agreed that we we would take the average price that was offered and we asked the valuers to tell us the minimum value what it was worth .
He came to the house at the same time as the first valuer .he scraped all the side of his taxi as he saw her talking to me .He wanted to take full control of the valuation .he didn't show a single plus side of the house he just pointed out every single fault .there was a brand new brick built building in the back garden .the valuer said that's very nice what is it .he more or less walked straight past her murmering it's just a shed .it was never opened so they never saw all the electrical points and Blackwell it looked .I thought well it's for his daughter and he can't moan at the final price.when we got all the valuations in he said he wanted another 5000 off pleading poverty so I gave him 3000 I said we agreed that the valuers price was final as he shown them all the bad points and not a single good point but I knocked 3000 off .he later said he was buying the house as he was moving in with his daughter and partner and he would give it them later .he said he needed to live there and if she got pregnant or wanted her boyfriend to move in .they might throw them out .he said she was getting it any way once they died
At first he said his daughter was buying it and that she had got a mortgage .I questioned him on that as I was told she wouldn't be able to get one .but he assured me she had one as she had a very good job
I didn't want to leave the house .but I promised my mam before I died I would .she knew he was going to get thrown out of his big house eventually because he was only paying the interest on what he had lent.and the fixed period would be soon up
Of course I would have let the family have the house and move out their was no need for all the lies
He kept stressing that the bank was going to possess it and sell it off very cheaply .I thought he would get a council house and I was willing to write off the 20000 that I lent him over 20 years ago
He never mentioned any more until I got a phone call from a lady who thought I was him and when I kept talking she leaked that she wash his financial adviser .you should of seen his face when I said she was looking for him.
I then started my investigations and when I asked him what he got for it he said it's none of my business .
I said it was my business when you kept telling me. He would get nothing for it .I went on Zoopla and saw the price and when I phoned him up he said he had moved on and put the phone down
When his daughter texts me to see how i am .I have to cut her short .I can't tell her that her dad is a lying underhanded conning selfish thief with no concience
He is a sociapath I'm sure
He is a sociapath I'm sure
Soffee when I lent him the 20000 he spent it in 11weeks buying his football team that he managed a new football strip with his name of it .to advertise what he sold on the market.and had a sit down christening meal at a posh hotel and booked himself into a private hospital for a hernia operation .I lent it him to pay off. The high rates of interest on his credit cards
He never offered me a penny after his first two repayments .he still had his three Sunday papers and sky sport and season ticket for Bolton and went on fishing holidays
And had designer haircuts in Manchester while I had 3-50 cheap haircuts
When I lent it him I had a small fortune which I was going to buy a holiday home with a swimming pool when I retired .but when I found out. Wasn't getting my money back in went on a gambling mission and lost the lot .I never touched that nest egg and never had a credit card untill I was betrayed my life spirreled out of controll.
I use to get very heavily before i gaveve it him but never touched my nest egg
Yes I would have gambled it away .but the money from the sale of my mams house I gave to my daughter's and the house I lived in before I got devorced which was paid for i gave my ex wife
It's never been about the money its been about the betrayal .he had my 20000 for over 20 years I asked him to lend me a couple of hundred pounds to take my grandchildren away for a few days .he said he hadn't been paid for the sale of the house and I knew he had been paid which he later admitted .I know he didn't want me to have a penny so I couldn't contest what he had done through a solicitor .he made me wait 5 months until I signed the house over to him
He never offered me a penny after his first two repayments .he still had his three Sunday papers and sky sport and season ticket for Bolton and went on fishing holidays
And had designer haircuts in Manchester while I had 3-50 cheap haircuts
When I lent it him I had a small fortune which I was going to buy a holiday home with a swimming pool when I retired .but when I found out. Wasn't getting my money back in went on a gambling mission and lost the lot .I never touched that nest egg and never had a credit card untill I was betrayed my life spirreled out of controll.
I use to get very heavily before i gaveve it him but never touched my nest egg
Yes I would have gambled it away .but the money from the sale of my mams house I gave to my daughter's and the house I lived in before I got devorced which was paid for i gave my ex wife
It's never been about the money its been about the betrayal .he had my 20000 for over 20 years I asked him to lend me a couple of hundred pounds to take my grandchildren away for a few days .he said he hadn't been paid for the sale of the house and I knew he had been paid which he later admitted .I know he didn't want me to have a penny so I couldn't contest what he had done through a solicitor .he made me wait 5 months until I signed the house over to him
Soffee when I lent him the 20000 he spent it in 11weeks buying his football team that he managed a new football strip with his name of it .to advertise what he sold on the market.and had a sit down christening meal at a posh hotel and booked himself into a private hospital for a hernia operation .I lent it him to pay off. The high rates of interest on his credit cards
He never offered me a penny after his first two repayments .he still had his three Sunday papers and sky sport and season ticket for Bolton and went on fishing holidays
And had designer haircuts in Manchester while I had 3-50 cheap haircuts
When I lent it him I had a small fortune which I was going to buy a holiday home with a swimming pool when I retired .but when I found out. Wasn't getting my money back in went on a gambling mission and lost the lot .I never touched that nest egg and never had a credit card untill I was betrayed my life spirreled out of controll.
I use to get very heavily before i gaveve it him but never touched my nest egg
Yes I would have gambled it away .but the money from the sale of my mams house I gave to my daughter's and the house I lived in before I got devorced which was paid for i gave my ex wife
It's never been about the money its been about the betrayal .he had my 20000 for over 20 years I asked him to lend me a couple of hundred pounds to take my grandchildren away for a few days .he said he hadn't been paid for the sale of the house and I knew he had been paid which he later admitted .I know he didn't want me to have a penny so I couldn't contest what he had done through a solicitor .he made me wait 5 months until I signed the house over to him
He never offered me a penny after his first two repayments .he still had his three Sunday papers and sky sport and season ticket for Bolton and went on fishing holidays
And had designer haircuts in Manchester while I had 3-50 cheap haircuts
When I lent it him I had a small fortune which I was going to buy a holiday home with a swimming pool when I retired .but when I found out. Wasn't getting my money back in went on a gambling mission and lost the lot .I never touched that nest egg and never had a credit card untill I was betrayed my life spirreled out of controll.
I use to get very heavily before i gaveve it him but never touched my nest egg
Yes I would have gambled it away .but the money from the sale of my mams house I gave to my daughter's and the house I lived in before I got devorced which was paid for i gave my ex wife
It's never been about the money its been about the betrayal .he had my 20000 for over 20 years I asked him to lend me a couple of hundred pounds to take my grandchildren away for a few days .he said he hadn't been paid for the sale of the house and I knew he had been paid which he later admitted .I know he didn't want me to have a penny so I couldn't contest what he had done through a solicitor .he made me wait 5 months until I signed the house over to him
Soffee when I lent him the 20000 he spent it in 11weeks buying his football team that he managed a new football strip with his name of it .to advertise what he sold on the market.and had a sit down christening meal at a posh hotel and booked himself into a private hospital for a hernia operation .I lent it him to pay off. The high rates of interest on his credit cards
He never offered me a penny after his first two repayments .he still had his three Sunday papers and sky sport and season ticket for Bolton and went on fishing holidays
And had designer haircuts in Manchester while I had 3-50 cheap haircuts
When I lent it him I had a small fortune which I was going to buy a holiday home with a swimming pool when I retired .but when I found out. Wasn't getting my money back in went on a gambling mission and lost the lot .I never touched that nest egg and never had a credit card untill I was betrayed my life spirreled out of controll.
I use to get very heavily before i gaveve it him but never touched my nest egg
Yes I would have gambled it away .but the money from the sale of my mams house I gave to my daughter's and the house I lived in before I got devorced which was paid for i gave my ex wife
It's never been about the money its been about the betrayal .he had my 20000 for over 20 years I asked him to lend me a couple of hundred pounds to take my grandchildren away for a few days .he said he hadn't been paid for the sale of the house and I knew he had been paid which he later admitted .I know he didn't want me to have a penny so I couldn't contest what he had done through a solicitor .he made me wait 5 months until I signed the house over to him
He never offered me a penny after his first two repayments .he still had his three Sunday papers and sky sport and season ticket for Bolton and went on fishing holidays
And had designer haircuts in Manchester while I had 3-50 cheap haircuts
When I lent it him I had a small fortune which I was going to buy a holiday home with a swimming pool when I retired .but when I found out. Wasn't getting my money back in went on a gambling mission and lost the lot .I never touched that nest egg and never had a credit card untill I was betrayed my life spirreled out of controll.
I use to get very heavily before i gaveve it him but never touched my nest egg
Yes I would have gambled it away .but the money from the sale of my mams house I gave to my daughter's and the house I lived in before I got devorced which was paid for i gave my ex wife
It's never been about the money its been about the betrayal .he had my 20000 for over 20 years I asked him to lend me a couple of hundred pounds to take my grandchildren away for a few days .he said he hadn't been paid for the sale of the house and I knew he had been paid which he later admitted .I know he didn't want me to have a penny so I couldn't contest what he had done through a solicitor .he made me wait 5 months until I signed the house over to him
Soffee when I lent him the 20000 he spent it in 11weeks buying his football team that he managed a new football strip with his name of it .to advertise what he sold on the market.and had a sit down christening meal at a posh hotel and booked himself into a private hospital for a hernia operation .I lent it him to pay off. The high rates of interest on his credit cards
He never offered me a penny after his first two repayments .he still had his three Sunday papers and sky sport and season ticket for Bolton and went on fishing holidays
And had designer haircuts in Manchester while I had 3-50 cheap haircuts
When I lent it him I had a small fortune which I was going to buy a holiday home with a swimming pool when I retired .but when I found out. Wasn't getting my money back in went on a gambling mission and lost the lot .I never touched that nest egg and never had a credit card untill I was betrayed my life spirreled out of controll.
I use to get very heavily before i gaveve it him but never touched my nest egg
Yes I would have gambled it away .but the money from the sale of my mams house I gave to my daughter's and the house I lived in before I got devorced which was paid for i gave my ex wife
It's never been about the money its been about the betrayal .he had my 20000 for over 20 years I asked him to lend me a couple of hundred pounds to take my grandchildren away for a few days .he said he hadn't been paid for the sale of the house and I knew he had been paid which he later admitted .I know he didn't want me to have a penny so I couldn't contest what he had done through a solicitor .he made me wait 5 months until I signed the house over to him
He never offered me a penny after his first two repayments .he still had his three Sunday papers and sky sport and season ticket for Bolton and went on fishing holidays
And had designer haircuts in Manchester while I had 3-50 cheap haircuts
When I lent it him I had a small fortune which I was going to buy a holiday home with a swimming pool when I retired .but when I found out. Wasn't getting my money back in went on a gambling mission and lost the lot .I never touched that nest egg and never had a credit card untill I was betrayed my life spirreled out of controll.
I use to get very heavily before i gaveve it him but never touched my nest egg
Yes I would have gambled it away .but the money from the sale of my mams house I gave to my daughter's and the house I lived in before I got devorced which was paid for i gave my ex wife
It's never been about the money its been about the betrayal .he had my 20000 for over 20 years I asked him to lend me a couple of hundred pounds to take my grandchildren away for a few days .he said he hadn't been paid for the sale of the house and I knew he had been paid which he later admitted .I know he didn't want me to have a penny so I couldn't contest what he had done through a solicitor .he made me wait 5 months until I signed the house over to him
Soffee when I lent him the 20000 he spent it in 11weeks buying his football team that he managed a new football strip with his name of it .to advertise what he sold on the market.and had a sit down christening meal at a posh hotel and booked himself into a private hospital for a hernia operation .I lent it him to pay off. The high rates of interest on his credit cards
He never offered me a penny after his first two repayments .he still had his three Sunday papers and sky sport and season ticket for Bolton and went on fishing holidays
And had designer haircuts in Manchester while I had 3-50 cheap haircuts
When I lent it him I had a small fortune which I was going to buy a holiday home with a swimming pool when I retired .but when I found out. Wasn't getting my money back in went on a gambling mission and lost the lot .I never touched that nest egg and never had a credit card untill I was betrayed my life spirreled out of controll.
I use to get very heavily before i gaveve it him but never touched my nest egg
Yes I would have gambled it away .but the money from the sale of my mams house I gave to my daughter's and the house I lived in before I got devorced which was paid for i gave my ex wife
It's never been about the money its been about the betrayal .he had my 20000 for over 20 years I asked him to lend me a couple of hundred pounds to take my grandchildren away for a few days .he said he hadn't been paid for the sale of the house and I knew he had been paid which he later admitted .I know he didn't want me to have a penny so I couldn't contest what he had done through a solicitor .he made me wait 5 months until I signed the house over to him
He never offered me a penny after his first two repayments .he still had his three Sunday papers and sky sport and season ticket for Bolton and went on fishing holidays
And had designer haircuts in Manchester while I had 3-50 cheap haircuts
When I lent it him I had a small fortune which I was going to buy a holiday home with a swimming pool when I retired .but when I found out. Wasn't getting my money back in went on a gambling mission and lost the lot .I never touched that nest egg and never had a credit card untill I was betrayed my life spirreled out of controll.
I use to get very heavily before i gaveve it him but never touched my nest egg
Yes I would have gambled it away .but the money from the sale of my mams house I gave to my daughter's and the house I lived in before I got devorced which was paid for i gave my ex wife
It's never been about the money its been about the betrayal .he had my 20000 for over 20 years I asked him to lend me a couple of hundred pounds to take my grandchildren away for a few days .he said he hadn't been paid for the sale of the house and I knew he had been paid which he later admitted .I know he didn't want me to have a penny so I couldn't contest what he had done through a solicitor .he made me wait 5 months until I signed the house over to him
Soffee when I lent him the 20000 he spent it in 11weeks buying his football team that he managed a new football strip with his name of it .to advertise what he sold on the market.and had a sit down christening meal at a posh hotel and booked himself into a private hospital for a hernia operation .I lent it him to pay off. The high rates of interest on his credit cards
He never offered me a penny after his first two repayments .he still had his three Sunday papers and sky sport and season ticket for Bolton and went on fishing holidays
And had designer haircuts in Manchester while I had 3-50 cheap haircuts
When I lent it him I had a small fortune which I was going to buy a holiday home with a swimming pool when I retired .but when I found out. Wasn't getting my money back in went on a gambling mission and lost the lot .I never touched that nest egg and never had a credit card untill I was betrayed my life spirreled out of controll.
I use to get very heavily before i gaveve it him but never touched my nest egg
Yes I would have gambled it away .but the money from the sale of my mams house I gave to my daughter's and the house I lived in before I got devorced which was paid for i gave my ex wife
It's never been about the money its been about the betrayal .he had my 20000 for over 20 years I asked him to lend me a couple of hundred pounds to take my grandchildren away for a few days .he said he hadn't been paid for the sale of the house and I knew he had been paid which he later admitted .I know he didn't want me to have a penny so I couldn't contest what he had done through a solicitor .he made me wait 5 months until I signed the house over to him
He never offered me a penny after his first two repayments .he still had his three Sunday papers and sky sport and season ticket for Bolton and went on fishing holidays
And had designer haircuts in Manchester while I had 3-50 cheap haircuts
When I lent it him I had a small fortune which I was going to buy a holiday home with a swimming pool when I retired .but when I found out. Wasn't getting my money back in went on a gambling mission and lost the lot .I never touched that nest egg and never had a credit card untill I was betrayed my life spirreled out of controll.
I use to get very heavily before i gaveve it him but never touched my nest egg
Yes I would have gambled it away .but the money from the sale of my mams house I gave to my daughter's and the house I lived in before I got devorced which was paid for i gave my ex wife
It's never been about the money its been about the betrayal .he had my 20000 for over 20 years I asked him to lend me a couple of hundred pounds to take my grandchildren away for a few days .he said he hadn't been paid for the sale of the house and I knew he had been paid which he later admitted .I know he didn't want me to have a penny so I couldn't contest what he had done through a solicitor .he made me wait 5 months until I signed the house over to him
I told you it would take longer to read than war and peace .this is not one per cent of the **** that he's done to me .and I let him
ONCE A MUG ALWAYS A MUG
ONCE A DIKK ALWAYS A DIKK
WHEN YOUR A DO WAH DIDDY
ONCE A DIKK ALWAYS A DIKK
WHEN YOUR A DO WAH DIDDY
The 20000 i gave him was part of my gambling stash and yes i would have lost it .but i turned to my nest egg when I couldn't cope with what he had done.
When I challenged him the last time he said you would have only gambled it away .that's not the point it was my hard earned money
When I challenged him the last time he said you would have only gambled it away .that's not the point it was my hard earned money
I must admit betrayal is the most painful of all emotions and very difficult to get rid of..
So fee .so fee .so fee
You just lost the admiration of your fat girlfriend when you ripped her valentine card up
I lost my faith in mankind especially my brother .I want the world to know what a low life he is but can't because it will affect my family and his daughter
You just lost the admiration of your fat girlfriend when you ripped her valentine card up
I lost my faith in mankind especially my brother .I want the world to know what a low life he is but can't because it will affect my family and his daughter
You wont be the only one he abuses...you can't fool all of the people all of the time..he will be found out.
Very sad for what has happened to you do wah. Being ripped off is never nice and would imagine it's far far worse when immediate family. Forgiveness may be the key, but I think you would be a better man than me if what you have stated is 1% of what he has done and managed such forgiveness. As suggested, it may be worth looking into retrieving the situation through a no win no fee solicitor. God knows, he sounds like he deserves it. All the best.
get ya ginger nuts out Do wah' and have a dunk... make ya feel better!
Drug him and take photos of him with sofee and his sheep ,he will soon pay up Do Wah!
There's people who's lost a lot more than me like their children .I should move on but my anger won't let me .I've made up my mind to stay away from him completely .
I don't even want to see him if I'm dying or he is dying and don't want to go to his funeral if he dies before me
But I would upset his daughter .I don't want him any where near my funeral when I die.but then my ex wife said that's right let our children and his child suffer
If I was fit I would go down there and knock s h. I. T out of him but I can't knock over a paper bag these days
I know the only answer is to forgive them to free me of this anger.but I'm just letting it poison me and I suffer while he couldn't give a toss
I don't even want to see him if I'm dying or he is dying and don't want to go to his funeral if he dies before me
But I would upset his daughter .I don't want him any where near my funeral when I die.but then my ex wife said that's right let our children and his child suffer
If I was fit I would go down there and knock s h. I. T out of him but I can't knock over a paper bag these days
I know the only answer is to forgive them to free me of this anger.but I'm just letting it poison me and I suffer while he couldn't give a toss
I know I've done everything that's fair my mam said everything in her house was mine as they had everything they needed from their big house.but I said to myself no .we will share it equally.they took all the gold and gave my children her costume jewelry
They only wanted things that were valuable they didn't want anything that was sentimental.it just shows they don't respect me by trying to say that the cutlery set what they gave me was the one which my mam left
I know that the box was the same one but they had changed all the cutlery .I know the patterns on them .they think I'm thick and wouldn't notice
They only wanted things that were valuable they didn't want anything that was sentimental.it just shows they don't respect me by trying to say that the cutlery set what they gave me was the one which my mam left
I know that the box was the same one but they had changed all the cutlery .I know the patterns on them .they think I'm thick and wouldn't notice
His missus sounds rather unpleasant..maybe she encourages his bad behaviour.
When she came to live in my mams house when I lived .there she used to make bacon butties for the three of them every sat .not once did she shout upstairs would you like a bacon buttie .she is a liar (a word I hate saying but must.
The pair of them are all show .they said my cousin was all show .she might be but at least she spends her own money not other people's money
She stands and takes communion as though she's a good practersing Catholic .
I want to tell her that there's more to being a Catholic than drinking the wine .but don't have the courage .my. Mam would have wanted me to give my cousin one of the figures that her mother bought for my mam .but they both chimed in together she's not having them she's all show .they thought they were worth something .she's a jealous cow
The pair of them are all show .they said my cousin was all show .she might be but at least she spends her own money not other people's money
She stands and takes communion as though she's a good practersing Catholic .
I want to tell her that there's more to being a Catholic than drinking the wine .but don't have the courage .my. Mam would have wanted me to give my cousin one of the figures that her mother bought for my mam .but they both chimed in together she's not having them she's all show .they thought they were worth something .she's a jealous cow
When my daughter was a little girl my dad used to play with her with his war medals that she used to like to play with every time she came .He always said if any thing happens to him he wants her to have them .
That was thirty years ago when I enquired my mam said my brother had took them .I said you keep two and I'll have two for her ..He spoke up loudly you might as well take them all their worth nothing on their own .I will give them you later .I never got them to this day he feel an in adequate dad for not getting them for her .everything his daughter asked for I gave it to her without thinking twice ,including a gold necklace pendant that I bought for my mam when I had money .as well as the jewelry box that I was going to give my granddaughter.
His partner asked could she have my mams tea service which is lovely because it looks expensive.i wanted it for sentential reasons as me and my mam payed weekly to the ladies next door catalogue when we had nothing .but I gave it her as she is my brother's partner
I've never hated anyone but I hate her
That was thirty years ago when I enquired my mam said my brother had took them .I said you keep two and I'll have two for her ..He spoke up loudly you might as well take them all their worth nothing on their own .I will give them you later .I never got them to this day he feel an in adequate dad for not getting them for her .everything his daughter asked for I gave it to her without thinking twice ,including a gold necklace pendant that I bought for my mam when I had money .as well as the jewelry box that I was going to give my granddaughter.
His partner asked could she have my mams tea service which is lovely because it looks expensive.i wanted it for sentential reasons as me and my mam payed weekly to the ladies next door catalogue when we had nothing .but I gave it her as she is my brother's partner
I've never hated anyone but I hate her
Soffee yes when I got him on the markets .all the whole sellers trusted me and my reputation they gave him credit and he ripped them all off and never paid them he .also ripped the man off who put my mams fence up .and his accountant
He was accused of taking
money when he was on the committee of a men's club but talked his way out of it.
He goes to the police straight away when someone tries to escape paying their fare in his taxi .
He walks about dressed to kill with all new clothes and latest gadgets while I dress like a pauper
When they lived in my mams house they went out for lots of meals and never asked me once
He also went to watch Bolton Wanderers at home and never asked me I found his Bolton news paper and put two and two together .
He was accused of taking
money when he was on the committee of a men's club but talked his way out of it.
He goes to the police straight away when someone tries to escape paying their fare in his taxi .
He walks about dressed to kill with all new clothes and latest gadgets while I dress like a pauper
When they lived in my mams house they went out for lots of meals and never asked me once
He also went to watch Bolton Wanderers at home and never asked me I found his Bolton news paper and put two and two together .
I stayed in my bedroom and gave them the run of the house .and once I knew they were lying to me again and I was in a right state .I was crying and asked them to drop me off at an AA meeting as I always felt good after a meeting.they dropped me off and the more they saw I had no resistance to fight back they took more
They treated me like they treated these old people who get beat up in old folks home
BUT THEY PLAYED WITH MY MIND WITH THEIR LIES AND UNDER HANDEDNESS .I HAD TO GET OUT I JUST SIGNED ANYTHING AND DID WHAT THEY WANTED
They treated me like they treated these old people who get beat up in old folks home
BUT THEY PLAYED WITH MY MIND WITH THEIR LIES AND UNDER HANDEDNESS .I HAD TO GET OUT I JUST SIGNED ANYTHING AND DID WHAT THEY WANTED
This is not turning out to be a usual do way DIDDY thread .but this is what lies under my fasarde
Someone near you could be walking about just like me .looking like hes not much out of the ordinary .but has a lot going on in his head
IF I WAS YOU I WOULD STAY CLEAR OF PEOPLE INCASE YOU BUMP INTO ME
IF I WAS YOU I WOULD STAY CLEAR OF PEOPLE INCASE YOU BUMP INTO ME
You sound like youve had a raw deal Dowah ,but try not to dwell on things ,keep your chin up ,we all get down sometimes ,there is always
somebody even worse off.
somebody even worse off.
If you see a man Shuvenly dressed talking to himself and weighing people up as if he thinks hes better than them
Stay well clear
Stay well clear
Yes snowy moon there's always a light by the snowy moon .I've got the record
Snowy moon I'm not always like this as I don't recall you
When this problem finally goes away another one will appear
I dig myself a hole and when I finally get out .I dig myself a deeper one
When this problem finally goes away another one will appear
I dig myself a hole and when I finally get out .I dig myself a deeper one
Do Wah ,have followed your threads over the years ,and you seem like a decent guy who is honest about his weaknesses,failings ,and you often make me laugh ,you are appreciated by many ,dont like to see anyone torment themselves thats all .
I'm to blame as i don't learn from my lessons
I've let it happen I used to think it was always them to blame
At least I now realise that I have A hand in it by letting them do what theve done .it was always someone elses fault but I should also be looking at my part in it to stop it happening again
I've let it happen I used to think it was always them to blame
At least I now realise that I have A hand in it by letting them do what theve done .it was always someone elses fault but I should also be looking at my part in it to stop it happening again
Thank you snowy moon and everyone else I won't bore you any more on this subject .unless my head starts telling me to tell the world .and then off.i Go again
People are terrible and relatives are the worst because you can’t get away from them
Where else in this world could you find a 70year old recovering alcoholic compulsive gambler talking about how hes been abused and used by his brother .other than the chit chat gambling forum
I don’t think we can trust anyone , apart from our own mothers
That includes brothers and brothers in law even sisters
That includes brothers and brothers in law even sisters
I feel alot better now ive opened up .this is lke an AA meeting with no pot going round for a volentary collection at the end of the meeting
Hope to see you all again keep coming back .and could someone help with the washing up please
Hope to see you all again keep coming back .and could someone help with the washing up please
I enjoy reading your posts do wah , they’re true to life
Wash up as you go Do wah...nothing worse than a pile of dirty dishes.
Do wah when we read his little tales makes people think to themselves , I am going to try and be nicer
like he is
like he is
Soffee yes I know my counsellor told me to stick a message on my wall facing the sink telling me to wash as I go .but as usual I didn't do what I'm told
Today I've cleaned up and washed up as my grandson is coming to my flat to stay later .
When I need to do something I do it .but otherwise they will like up .I've no motivation for anything especially cleaning .today ok who knows next when the pots will be washed and I've only hoovered where you can see .
It's no use me being all show when I don't want to do anything
And I've changed the bedding
Today I've cleaned up and washed up as my grandson is coming to my flat to stay later .
When I need to do something I do it .but otherwise they will like up .I've no motivation for anything especially cleaning .today ok who knows next when the pots will be washed and I've only hoovered where you can see .
It's no use me being all show when I don't want to do anything
And I've changed the bedding
You deserve better than this DO WAH........
You cant change the past but you can take positive steps for a better future,small steps can be rewarding..
Buy some quality bed clothes to pish in
sry i mean sleep in
Get a decent haircut, spend 15 quid on it.
Take a niece or someone to the cinema or restaurant
LIVE MAN YOU WILL BE A LONG TIME DEAD
YOU DESERVE BETTER
You cant change the past but you can take positive steps for a better future,small steps can be rewarding..
Buy some quality bed clothes to pish in
sry i mean sleep inGet a decent haircut, spend 15 quid on it.
Take a niece or someone to the cinema or restaurant
LIVE MAN YOU WILL BE A LONG TIME DEAD
YOU DESERVE BETTER
Pecker thank you I know what I should do .but I don't do it .
I'm good at telling people what they should do .but I'm more of a do what I say not what I or won't do
You see what I'm up against a head with arrogant **** in it
Thank you everybody again but I think it's time to leave this depressing thread and me
I will try a bit harder but I know I will only do what my head decides it wants to do .I don't do the things that I know I should do .I just look for the easy option and do that
I'm good at telling people what they should do .but I'm more of a do what I say not what I or won't do
You see what I'm up against a head with arrogant **** in it
Thank you everybody again but I think it's time to leave this depressing thread and me
I will try a bit harder but I know I will only do what my head decides it wants to do .I don't do the things that I know I should do .I just look for the easy option and do that
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