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30 Aug 19 15:55
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Couple of years ago a person with dementia caused the death of fellow drivers by driving the wrong way up the motorway. ExcitedConfusedConfusedConfused

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By:
TheBetterBettor
When: 30 Aug 19 15:58
Apologies... That first 'smiley' was a typo.
By:
Reynard
When: 30 Aug 19 18:38
Let them park anywhere they want ............... then clamp them on Health & Safety grounds Mischief
By:
Dr Crippen
When: 30 Aug 19 20:37
Everyone that drives the wrong way down a motorway doesn't suffer from dementia.

How many police chases involve people that suffer from dementia is more to the point?
By:
UBLE/REGY
When: 30 Aug 19 20:42
Yes they will be letting blind drivers get blue badges next...shocking
By:
akabula
When: 30 Aug 19 20:44
Can't fathom why they qualify for a disabled parking badge.
I always though it was related to a persons mobility.
By:
Super Hans
When: 30 Aug 19 20:46
Stress and anxiety suffers will be next to benefit.
By:
Dr Crippen
When: 30 Aug 19 21:08
Of course it depends on ow far the dementia has progressed.

Someone with early onset might be perfectly safe driving, while an advanced case could be quite at a loss what to do if put in a certain position. 
But they tend to drive slower which prevents them from getting in awkward situations.

Of course older drivers make some right blunders, but that goes for all drivers.
By:
akabula
When: 30 Aug 19 21:15
But why consider any for the badge DrC.
Does dementia restrict a persons mobility?
By:
UBLE/REGY
When: 30 Aug 19 21:19
Driving tends to be mechanical, so dementia may not affect that...

But things like driving the wrong way up the motorway....entirely possible...remembering where they are may be a problem

It is slightly concerning...depends how bad it is
By:
Dr Crippen
When: 30 Aug 19 21:19
Very good point akabula.

But most of these badge holders don't have restricted mobility.

If fact I've never seen one get out of a vehicle displaying a badge and appear to be incapacitated in any way.
By:
Crisp77
When: 30 Aug 19 21:35
Don't worry. They'll forget where they parked.
By:
UBLE/REGY
When: 30 Aug 19 21:41
Laugh crisp
By:
Dr Crippen
When: 30 Aug 19 21:48
I worked with a chap who had polio as a child.
His one leg was withered, it was little more than skin a bone, and he had to wear a club shoe to compensate for the four or five inches it was shorter than the other.
Watching him walk he was all over the place, well down on his bad side, but he made the best of it.

He couldn't get a disabled badge for that, because when they asked him how far he could walk he answered the questions truthfully, and it was too far for their tick box mentality.
It's like asking someone how far they can crawl. Depends on how motivated you are.

If he'd lied he'd have got a badge easily.
By:
UBLE/REGY
When: 30 Aug 19 23:04
Anybody who gets one gets a guaranteed parking space Dr Crippen...a very strong motive for someSad
By:
casemoney
When: 30 Aug 19 23:15
Phil  has not been seen for months Since his Crash , Probably Caged ..

Serious cases have to be under Lock and key Sad

Doesn't seem the best Idea to be allowing them to drive ?
By:
TheBetterBettor
When: 31 Aug 19 07:52
DrC

Onset or 'fullset', would you allow grandpa dementia to take the kids out for a Sunday run?
By:
----you-have-to-laugh---
When: 31 Aug 19 10:43
my mam had dementia, parking close to the store when shopping would have helped me dad
who couldnt leave her at home nor in the car.

its a dreadful disease, and any little help to carers will be most welcom.
By:
----you-have-to-laugh---
When: 31 Aug 19 10:46
we stopped mam from driving but she always forgot she had dementia and forgot
she couldnt drive. more drama everytime she wanted to go out.

had to hide keys and park car so she couldnt see it from house

as i said, its a truely dreadful disease.
By:
Dr Crippen
When: 31 Aug 19 11:28
Don't be so quick to judge TheBetterBettor, you might have early onset dementia yourself and don't realise.
Dementia can start in your thirties.

If you're over seventy and your doctor doesn't think you are fit to drive, you won't get a license unless you lie on your application.

As for allowing my grandchildren out for a Sunday drive, I'd certainly prefer them to be in the care of someone with slight memory loss, than a testosterone-fuelled numbskull who takes every corner on two wheels.
By:
blackbarn
When: 31 Aug 19 15:50
Oh dear!  The Blue Badge is not only for drivers even though is linked to the person and not a vehicle. The person does not even need to have to have a driving licence.  My father is 93, has mild dementia AND Parkinsons Disease. He is otherwise in "good" shape physically and mentally.  He has a Blue Badge which is used very occasionally when required and when he is being driven by others. Hth
By:
casemoney
When: 31 Aug 19 16:06
Yes ,ideal for Sufferers carers and family.
By:
blackbarn
When: 31 Aug 19 16:17
Correct casemoney!!   That is exactly its purpose for those "sufferers" unable to drive. Can be anyone though, Taxis, Friends etc. In fact anyone accompanied by the "sufferer".  Hth
By:
akabula
When: 31 Aug 19 23:28
Yes but it is issued because of the poor mobility of the recipient and dementia I don't think impairs ones mobility.
By:
themightymac
When: 01 Sep 19 00:45
Blue badges are not restricted to people who have limited mobility. Persons who are a risk to themselves or other people qualify.

Someone with dementia is at risk every time they leave the home. So they qualify.

You can`t take your eyes of them for a minute.
By:
akabula
When: 01 Sep 19 00:50
I know Mac my Mother was a sufferer.
My sister looked after her but I would at times take her to the shops.
We parked up and walked as she was as fit as a fiddle otherwise.
By:
themightymac
When: 01 Sep 19 00:54
Sorry to hear that Aka. It`s a terrible illness. Experienced it at close range also.
By:
akabula
When: 01 Sep 19 01:00
My Mothers long dead but it was my sister who stepped up as it were and looked after her aided by her grown up children who thankfully lived nearby.
Big game tomorrow. Had we lost v Legia I'd have bet celtic. On CS 2-1 but it could go either way.
By:
themightymac
When: 01 Sep 19 01:11
I would agree. Wouldn`t surprise me who won or if it ended a draw.

Legia was a hard tie to get through. Celtic were impressive but AIK not as good as Warsaw.

Not often you get 9/4 on Celtic in a league match though, so worth a few quid at the price.
By:
themightymac
When: 01 Sep 19 01:12
Dementia effects not only the poor person with it but also the immediate family.
By:
Dr Crippen
When: 01 Sep 19 12:22
One Tesco I use has these parking bays for disabled people.
Yet the store itself is massive, and they're constantly moving the stuff around to make you walk even further to find it. 
So they save the disabled walking a few yards on the car park, then make them walk three times as far looking for their stuff once they get in the place.

Which is hilarious - unless of course you genuinely have difficulty walking then you'd most likely find it infuriating.

I injured my foot, and had to avoided the store altogether due to the size of the place and the walking involved.
Yet the disabled bays are nearly always full.
By:
Lady Faye Verrit
When: 02 Sep 19 21:14
Ok....time (as they say) to stand up and be counted!

I have a blue badge as I have "Peripheral Neuropathy"....

I also was asked how far I could walk, but I explained that it wasn't a stamina thing, but the fact that I have no feeling in my feet,
which means I have to walk slowly, and very carefully!

If I trip I fall, as I can't recover and, just to prove the point, I attached photos of two occasions when I ended up in hospital.

Stepping onto a kerb, and worse stepping down, is scary and, on a couple of occasions, kind passers by have had to help me.

I do not abuse my badge and, for example, when I go to the "Tesco Express" there are only two disabled spaces, which I don't use
if there are other spaces free, as a short walk, and no kerbs.
By:
akabula
When: 02 Sep 19 22:32
You have a problem with mobility LFV I don't see any issues with that.
I have a similar condition caused by diabetes, maybe not as severe as yours though.
By:
akabula
When: 02 Sep 19 22:34
I don't have a badge though. Wouldn't qualify.
By:
Catford Toteboard
When: 02 Sep 19 22:59
Yes its for the carer also. When my late wife was dying of cancer we applied for a blue badge so that I could get somewhere to park when  I visited her in hospital or was taking her to appointments. Despite a note from the consultant and one from a nurse, Lewisham Council were insistent that she attend for an assessment. Poor woman had enough appointments and declined. We just started taking cabs everywhere. Yes, people who care for dementia sufferers should get blue badges. They've got enough to deal with without having search for miles around a hospital looking for somewhere to park.
By:
pan07
When: 06 Sep 19 22:19
Can't fathom why they qualify for a disabled parking badge.

coz your a **** thats my only possible understanding.
i can't for the life of me understand what type of **** you are oh and that goes for the op aswell
By:
akabula
When: 06 Sep 19 22:58
Ha Ha pan seems an angry wee man.
Wonder what his other names are.
By:
TheBetterBettor
When: 06 Sep 19 22:59
Who knows... Triggered people may be next in line for the free disabled parking passes
By:
TheBetterBettor
When: 06 Sep 19 23:00
Who knows... Triggered people may be next in line for the free disabled parking passes
By:
pan07
When: 06 Sep 19 23:02
so you tae piss out of people with dementia  wow
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