Wise Forumites, advice please ... Do I ask for my card back?

We moved house just over a year ago.  Nice neighbourly street and many Christmas cards last year fro new neighbours - welcome to the street, hoping we were settling in, etc.

This year same thing except our next door neighbour hasn't given us a card (yet?) - we posted his through his letterbox a few days ago.

Should I go round and ask for his card to me or ask for mine back?

Or is there a better way, e.g. set fire to his house, brick through the window, paint stripper on car?

I suppose I could go round and s**g his wife (quite tasty) but I think that would be too extreme for a trivial malfeasance.