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BERLINGTONBERTIE
30 Oct 15 18:29
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Hope somebody could help me please. I work at a small company and have recently had to take days off due to a medical issue, only my immediate family know about the issue.
I want to tell the manager about it but he in turn will tell the owner and i work with the owners son but want it kept secret basically.
Are there any laws i could quote to make sure it isnt talked about and basically everybody knowing?
Thanks.

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By:
s.kenbo
When: 30 Oct 15 18:38
Unless it's something that will come to light at a later stage, then I suggest fibbing to them.
By:
11kv
When: 30 Oct 15 18:48
Just tell it was a personal issue and quote their  Inclusive and Diversity policy which I'm  sure they have in place alongside there Health and Safety Policy Statement.
By:
i_agree_with_nick
When: 30 Oct 15 19:03
Why wouldn't the owner and manager keep quiet?
By:
Roquebrune
When: 30 Oct 15 19:32
Tell us what the "medical issue" is,we won't tell anyone....
By:
BERLINGTONBERTIE
When: 30 Oct 15 19:34
I work with the owners son so im pretty sure his dad would tell him.
By:
i_agree_with_nick
When: 30 Oct 15 19:42
A manager with any integrity should never betray a confidence but I can see that you wouldn't want to risk it.
By:
BERLINGTONBERTIE
When: 30 Oct 15 19:48
I`m pretty sure it will be betrayed, thats why i`m asking to be honest.
By:
TheBaron
When: 30 Oct 15 20:02
There are no secrets in a small company, the truth will come out sooner rather than later.
By:
11kv
When: 30 Oct 15 20:02
Small firm you say do they an HR person ?
By:
Just Checking
When: 30 Oct 15 20:07
Berlin G to N Bertie
(I think this is a lancaster communication in 1944 :)

Try reading this (has preview if you're worried)
http://preview.tinyurl.com/nu6u4hr

I don't think you need to. If they push it maybe your doctor could sign off that you needed to be off for a bona fide condition of undisclosed nature? I'm sure that sort of thing happens.
By:
11kv
When: 30 Oct 15 20:08
Citizens advice bureau or solicitor if its that important to you get their advice and be forearmed
By:
MadVlad
When: 30 Oct 15 20:11
ffs we have all had penis enlargements on the NHS surely there is no stigma these days ??? Plain
By:
Just Checking
When: 30 Oct 15 20:14
I had a job interview for a major corporation, they asked me to turn up with a pre signed form giving them access to all my medical records, at the interview stage. I'd never do that, I though it big company arrogance and pushy attitude of a company I wouldn't like, so I didn't. ***k em.
By:
11kv
When: 30 Oct 15 20:16
*Penis reduction Devil
By:
MadVlad
When: 30 Oct 15 20:17
Errr that's what I meant 11KV Blush
By:
11kv
When: 30 Oct 15 20:24
LaughLaugh
By:
Roquebrune
When: 30 Oct 15 20:53
If it's gender reassignment,won't the boss notice? Silly
By:
Clouseau
When: 30 Oct 15 21:00
This might be of use.
http://www.workingrights.co.uk/health-issues-confidentiality.html

Also this from the CAB public site which is more concerned with sick-pay but refers to the requirement for sick notes etc.

Telling your employer you are sick – Statutory Sick Pay

Your employer may ask you to follow certain rules about telling them you are off sick. They still have to pay you SSP even if you don't follow these rules. For example, they still have to pay you SSP even if you don't:

provide a medical certificate until your eighth day of illness
phone in by a certain time of day to tell them you are sick
phone in more than once a week when you are off sick
phone in yourself and ask someone else to do it on your behalf.
However, if you break the rules, you will be breaking the terms of your employment contract and eventually this could lead to you losing your job. Your employer must let you know what these rules are in advance.

Self-certification of sickness and SSP

During your first seven days off sick, your employer must not ask you for a medical certificate. However, they can ask you for confirmation that you are sick and you must provide it if they ask for it, otherwise you may not get any SSP. Your employer may ask for either:-

a handwritten note from you saying what is wrong, or
a self-certification of sickness form provided by your employer, which you must complete. This could be form SC2, provided to employers by HM Revenue and Customs, or your employer's own self-certification form. There is more information about self-certification and a copy of the SC2 form on the GOV.UK website at www.gov.uk.
By:
kenvil
When: 30 Oct 15 21:35
you dont have to declare any illness, you can say you would rather not say and dont answer the question.

Just checking, was it before 2010 ?? 2010 equity acts means a company has no right to access any medical records of potential employees. Something to do with discrimination.
By:
Just Checking
When: 30 Oct 15 21:41
Yes kenvil, pre 2010. TBH It soured the whole thing, I went into the interview already with a negative feeling about the company's culture and what it would be like to work there, and I'd a mate who worked at a similar company and he was always giving me stories down the pub about the sh*t he suffered.

It didn't help that I'd turned up safe and early for the interview, I went for a little walk around, then unexpected rain come on and I turned up "soggy" Laugh
By:
MadVlad
When: 30 Oct 15 21:46
FFS you get ONE penis reduction Crazy
By:
G1_Jockey_4
When: 31 Oct 15 10:46
tell yer doc the problem....they may be a bit more careful when describing the issue
By:
Just Checking
When: 31 Oct 15 11:21
If his medical problem is "can't post to betfait forums more than 3 times a week" we'll ALL look stupid.
By:
BERLINGTONBERTIE
When: 31 Oct 15 14:39
Thanks everybody. Think im just going to say ive an ongoing medical issue that i dont want to divulge.
By:
akabula
When: 31 Oct 15 15:14
I wouldn't use the term ongoing as the company might then want to know how this is going to impact on your future employment.
By:
boxingthefox
When: 31 Oct 15 16:27
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