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Obviously if your an older man and single you might have to but I'm only 25. 
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Could be a bit of a minefield, decide if you like the girl first.
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You could end up as second best to the kid and there is always her ex to consider.
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There's always a catch with women isn't there?
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Ive had two longish and lived with relationships with two single mothers. The first one her ex wouldnt leave her alone, wasnt that bothered anyway. The second, I woke up one night and shes sat with her baby pointing at me in bed saying softly, daddy .... daddy ..... daddy.
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25 is quite old btw.
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I would have either shat myself or ran out of the house on the second blackestnight.
25 is old?! I've only just learned how to make a Pot Noodle ffs. |
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The first one now has 3 kids and the second one has four.
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To be fair, both were free pu55y and a place to stay.
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Was only joking aasbff. As regards taking on another kid then I'd advise steering clear.
Most kids are horrible if let be and you'd be in a no win place if they give you lip. The daddy ... daddy ... daddy thing. Feck me where's me shoes. |
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You've pretty much killed it for me now blackestnight...
And there's akabula with the nail in the coffin. END OF THREAD. |
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Man hands on misery to man
It deepens as a coastal shelf Get out as early as you can And don' t have any kids yourself. Larkin. |
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Humbert Humbert
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was chatting a russian bird up a couple of weeks ago and she didnt seem happy her friend mentioned the kids
next week she looked absolutely stunning....shame my bird came back   |
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Don't go out with a goatkeeper?
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I started seeing a girl a few years ago, had known her some years before just after I got married, there was obviously something there. So after about six years, split up with the wife, got in contact with her, she says 'oh i've got a little girl now btw' put me off a bit, but thought I'd see her a few times and see how it went.
The little girl, it's fair to say, hated me, used to kick me, punch me, even head-butted me once, not many things as annoying as a two-year-old girl sticking the nut on you. If I touched her mother in front of her, tantrums, all sorts of bad behaviour. Five years later, still with the mother, and me and the little girl are like father and daughter, been the best thing that has ever happened to me. |
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jed
are you sure it's a little girl?? sounds like a small primate. Keep an eye on her, is my advice. If she scampers up a tree then it's a sure sign. The pretending to like you is a trick, imo ... long term strategy, very wily. |
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Just wait til it comes full circle again in 5 year's time, Jed!
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On balance I say no to stirring another man's porridge and certainly not when the evidence of his previous feasting is writ large. Aam oot.
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Jed. The little girl is very lucky to have...and vice versa. It's surprising how easily women can ruin a super kid.
Take a bow, you both deserve it. |
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Helps that the mother is a nymphomaniac yogi.
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done more than a few,had my own "daddy" moment........she must have seen the look on my face as she then said she was only joking,never went there again which was a shame as she had a cracking pair and loved it in the wrong un........
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Depends if the father is involved with the child
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I would not bring up another man's children. And the thought of seeing another man bringing up my children sickens me to the point that I will never let my relationship fail.
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The future Mrs. Blue has two wonderful children aged eight and ten. They now have three houses to stay in, Mum's, Dad's and now mine. I've met the Father a few times and we get on just fine and the children accepted me pretty much straight away and everything is perfect. We will move in together after we get married but that won't be for a few years yet until the children are a bit older. The Father is a very good man and has stepped up in looking after them emotionally and financially. Things couldn't be better really.
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Good luck with that, Slippy.
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I accepted another woman's daughter in 1986/7 - She was 6 months old and a few years later we had another. That child is now 30 next year and our relationship is as strong as ever. At age 16 she changed her name to mine, by deed poll. It was the most amazing gift of my life (I never married her mum so couldn't legally adopt her). She IS my daughter as far as I'm concerned.
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If I had a hat on I'd doff it to you, Aspro.
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It only takes a sperm to help create a life.
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thank you jamesdean; appreciated
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good stuff aspro......sincerely.
good to know a decent man can do mug bets:) |
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In which case you would explain why that action was inappropriate. Hopefully, your presence would be one of benefit for the kid.
I suppose that you can get a bad 'un, even if they're your breed! |
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that's my weakness n69 - crags a baby soon becomes 10 years old
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25 so what!
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Just because you cant see the child, does not mean the woman has not had one,
consider this; Between 1968 and 2003 nearly 6 million legal abortions were performed in Britain. There are about 200,000 abortions in Britain each year (187,000 in England and Wales and 12,000 in Scotland). That amounts to about 550 abortions every day. in the past 6 years about 1 Million abortions took place in England and Wales. Children are given away for Adoption, your woman may have done this. |
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Aspro, doesn't matter how quickly the ten years go. It's very different taking on a baby that will always see you as a dad than to walking into a ten year olds life.
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feck that, I aint going to be a full time baby sitter.
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TBF, it's very hard for someone of Slippy's age to find a woman without baggage.
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Probably Louis Vuitton.
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