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mememe
16 Sep 15 15:15
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my wife being referred to as my partner on official forms.

FFS she's my wife - and I'm her husband.

Referring to her as my "partner" sounds like she's my business colleague.

I always cross out the partner bit - I suppose I'm a bit of a rebel.
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Report Ron Pillock • September 16, 2015 4:27 PM BST
The term partner is political correctness gone bonkers. Language is supposed to convey meaning as accurately and concisely as possible. The word partner just begs another question.
Report Roquebrune • September 16, 2015 4:27 PM BST
Shocked
Report mad mad moon • September 16, 2015 4:38 PM BST
If I say to a stranger at a party or something  "Ive been with my partner for over 20 years.......", I always feel I have
to follow up with "And she..." because I know he/she is already thinking "Is he gay"

Co-habiting, living with, common law wife etc are all a bit cumbersome, so its time we had a new word for unmarried, heterosexual,er partner.
Report i_agree_with_nick • September 16, 2015 4:39 PM BST
Name: Mr IAW Nick
Sex: Yes please
Report Eeternaloptimist • September 16, 2015 4:44 PM BST
Spouse mad moon?

Or Frolicking Fun Buddy if the flame still burns. Wink
Report TambourineMan. • September 16, 2015 4:47 PM BST
On an application form for post cardiac care here in Ontario the options for Gender were..
1.M/F
2.Lesbian
3.Transgender Male
4.Transgender Female
5.Bisexual
6.****
7.Don't know
Report mad mad moon • September 16, 2015 4:47 PM BST
Spouse is another name for husband/wife shirley?
I like Frolicking Fun Buddy but that sounds even gayer.Blush
Report mecca • September 16, 2015 4:48 PM BST
Western values, including the most basic - The strong family unit - have been under gradual attack for decades
Report i_agree_with_nick • September 16, 2015 4:49 PM BST
The word "girlfriend" is acceptable and seems to be used in news reports and the like.  But probably a term less suitable if you're over 35ish.
Report Ron Pillock • September 16, 2015 4:55 PM BST
I don't agree.  I think its cute to hear an 80 year old talking about their boyfriend or girlfriend.
Report TommyBarnes • September 16, 2015 4:55 PM BST
Radio 5 had a phone in about sexuality and introduced a woman who was bisexual. The woman said, let me stop you right there, I am not bisexual I am pansexual Crazy
Report screaming from beneaththewaves • September 16, 2015 5:09 PM BST
Significant Other
Report mobo • September 16, 2015 5:16 PM BST
Insignificant other    (at my age )
Report Injera • September 16, 2015 6:01 PM BST
I have a neighbour who's close to 90.

He recently had a routine op and during the check up beforehand he was asked a series of questions.

One of them was 'what is your sexuality?'

I was appalled. WTF has that go to with anything. How can you ask an old man that sort of question?
Report lfc1971 • September 16, 2015 6:22 PM BST
Disgusting, british people are without any sense of decorum.
Report akabula • September 17, 2015 12:10 AM BST
mad mad moon   
If I say to a stranger at a party or something  "Ive been with my partner for over 20 years.......", I always feel I have
to follow up with "And she..." because I know he/she is already thinking "Is he gay"
Co-habiting, living with, common law wife etc are all a bit cumbersome, so its time we had a new word for unmarried, heterosexual,er partner.


There is a term up in the north - Bidey In.
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