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http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-nottinghamshire-32973641

Missing since Saturday afternoon.  Strange how sometimes these things don't hit the news until 3 or more days after they go missing.  Sure with the Soham girls it was all over the news within 24 hours of them going missing.
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Report naydam June 3, 2015 12:33 AM BST
I am not on a 'high horse'. I noticed the thread title about a young girl going missing. This is the first I had heard of it. When I read the tread I was astonished at the variety and level of accusations being directed at many different people...all of whom may be totally innocent of any wrong-doing whatsoever. People are even accused of not crying correctly and other such daft remarks.
You just don't seem to learn from events of the past.
Report FlowerMyth June 3, 2015 12:36 AM BST
Oh come on, you're right in what you say, but astonished, after 11 years on here, you little liar Laugh
Report TheChaser June 3, 2015 12:37 AM BST
its happened that much you have to look at the signs , you think the police set that interview up for anyone to come forward it was to see how the parents reacted
Report akabula June 3, 2015 12:41 AM BST
Is he feck right in what he says.
A forum is where people express their views on whatever subject is in front of them.
BTW we know from past cases that the police look very closely at the people making the appeal and use body language experts to aid them.
Report Akak June 3, 2015 12:43 AM BST
Body foundSadSadSad
Report Akak June 3, 2015 12:43 AM BST
Body foundSadSadSad
Report FlowerMyth June 3, 2015 12:44 AM BST
You mean you'd be happy if it were you or one of your family to have a bunch of people like us deciding whether you were guilty or not when they know fack all? I don't bloody think so.
Report akabula June 3, 2015 12:51 AM BST
What's that got to do with it. People are merely posting suggestions, nobody on here 'decides' anything.
Report spellingandgrammarchecker June 3, 2015 12:55 AM BST
Akak

her body was reported found almost 4 hours ago, before we go to the bottom of page 2.

Do try to keep up.
Report TheChaser June 3, 2015 12:55 AM BST
how we know WHY she killed herself
Report TheChaser June 3, 2015 12:56 AM BST
AKAK just tuned in give the guy a break its hard to find stuff out on an old ariel

No real mention of it on the news is there
Report spellingandgrammarchecker June 3, 2015 12:57 AM BST
Flowermyth has got the job as foreperson of the jury, and we haven't got anybody charged yet.
Report TheChaser June 3, 2015 12:58 AM BST
aerial

speeling is a mess today since the gramma king got on to me hes made me nervous
Report TheChaser June 3, 2015 12:58 AM BST
spelling*
Report spellingandgrammarchecker June 3, 2015 12:59 AM BST
Laugh
Report akabula June 3, 2015 1:10 AM BST
Laugh
Report naydam June 3, 2015 2:23 AM BST
FlowerMyth. I meant astonished by the fact that, after all the times they've got it totally wrong, they are still as bad as ever...if not worse! CryCry
Report Facts June 3, 2015 3:06 AM BST
Such is human nature.'twas always the case.
Report mange June 3, 2015 6:31 AM BST
V Sad
Report spellingandgrammarchecker June 3, 2015 12:19 PM BST
Something for the anti-police brigade on here, and the CCDDA to mull over.

The BBC report that her body was found in an area that had already been searched,
Report scandanavian_haven June 3, 2015 5:40 PM BST
https://uk.news.yahoo.com/body-found-missing-amber-search-001427567.html#IKXM2Xx

deadSad
Report guinness2dear June 3, 2015 5:46 PM BST
Death by hanging (allegedly)
Report SlippyBlue June 3, 2015 5:52 PM BST
Just desperately tragic beyond words.
Report guinness2dear June 3, 2015 5:53 PM BST
Somethings very wrong about this. R.I.P. little one..
Report the.mad.dog.man June 3, 2015 5:55 PM BST
comes back from holiday has a row over washing a sandwich box then hangs herself dont ad up to me
Report HH Sultan Vinegar June 3, 2015 6:05 PM BST
RIP the poor little girl. I never get involved in CCDA business but this doesn't stack up to me. 

No suspicious circumstances?
Report boxingthefox June 3, 2015 6:09 PM BST
Desperate stuff, very sad.
Report TheBaron June 3, 2015 7:53 PM BST
Its threads like this that give you an insight into someones real character.  There's a few on here who seem to take too much pleasure in speculating on cases like this. 

Just expressing my opinion.
Report s.kenbo June 3, 2015 8:08 PM BST
I think most couples up and down the country probably said to each other "I bet it was the step dad" or "The Mum looks shifty" or something along those lines. Unfortunately, when we see this kind of thing it's common place to look close to home.

As others have already stated, this still doesn't quite add up yet.
Report Hound-Dog-2 June 3, 2015 8:17 PM BST
^ doesn't add up at all.  13-year-old girl, some argument about a minor household chore, goes out the door and dies. Then 3 days later found hanging in a hedge in the middle of a housing estate not too far away.  Does not quite add up, must be a lot more to this (?)
Report The Leopard June 3, 2015 8:35 PM BST
She must have been in mental turmoil about something.....put that with the step-dad's strange crying (guilt?) ...a possible answer?
Report posy June 3, 2015 9:10 PM BST
How the heck did they miss the body on the first search of the area...have police given an explanation for their incompetence.
Report TheChaser June 3, 2015 9:14 PM BST
Was the body there on first search , how long was shes dead?
Report TheChaser June 3, 2015 9:14 PM BST
she
Report TheChaser June 3, 2015 9:16 PM BST
The BBC report that her body was found in an area that had already been searched,

Like i said bodies are taking a little longer to find recently , maybe they can find the body set up pree conference to see reactions then release the body has been found.

Not nice if they do but its the police innit
Report TheChaser June 3, 2015 9:16 PM BST
up before press conference*
Report SlippyBlue June 3, 2015 10:22 PM BST
Missing for 3 days and her body was found half a mile from her home. Literally hundreds of people, police and civilians alike all out looking for her and found practically on her doorstep. It just doesn't make any sense.
Report paradox and equilibrium June 3, 2015 10:37 PM BST
Seriously, how a 13 year old has the gumption to take herself out to some woods and successfully hang herself i can't get my head around. It takes massive courage and no small amount of technical skill. I just don't buy it.
Report TheChaser June 3, 2015 10:54 PM BST
No offence but some kids are screwballs , no one interacts face to face now.Even at school i bet they all have computers and ipads
Report TheChaser June 3, 2015 10:55 PM BST
Even when i was at school in the payg where on the way in and we all had them but no credit as cost a bomb to send a text back then
Report Facts June 3, 2015 10:56 PM BST
She didn't have a computer apparantly
Report TheChaser June 3, 2015 10:57 PM BST
thats what i said last night she must have been even more lonlier than the rest who have all the latest computers etc
Report TheChaser June 3, 2015 10:58 PM BST
loanly*

more to this case no computer or was it destroyed
Report Facts June 3, 2015 11:01 PM BST
Lonely Happy
Report SlippyBlue June 3, 2015 11:06 PM BST
It just doesn't possibly ring true though, given where the poor kid was found and the untold amount of searching by highly trained police with sniffer dogs she is found 800 yards from her front door and it took three days to find her body? Nope, I'm not buying into this at all.
Report Facts June 3, 2015 11:08 PM BST
So what are you saying ?
Report akabula June 3, 2015 11:15 PM BST
Chaser I'm getting you a spell checker for your birthday.
Report paradox and equilibrium June 3, 2015 11:16 PM BST
Taking youself to a sturdy tree, with an appropriate rope, being able to tie tie a proper slip knot and get to a position where you can jump off and not hit the ground or have the branch snap. Are these skills common to 13 year old girls? Even if they have the will to die?

I don't feckin think so.
Report spellingandgrammarchecker June 3, 2015 11:17 PM BST
Missed on the initial search, found on the 2nd search.

Police say there nothing suspicious.

Only two conclusions imo

a) They missed her on search 1.

b) She was watching, and hanged herself after they left the area.
Report brendanuk1 June 3, 2015 11:20 PM BST
Superintendent Matthew McFarlane, who led the search, said he wanted to thank everyone for who helped look for her. He said: “From the moment Amber was reported missing our teams worked tirelessly alongside the community to try and find her.

“Over four hundred officers and staff, including those from our five neighbouring East Midlands forces, were looking for her.
Report spellingandgrammarchecker June 3, 2015 11:20 PM BST
paradox and equilibrium    03 Jun 15 23:16 
Taking youself to a sturdy tree, with an appropriate rope, being able to tie tie a proper slip knot and get to a position where you can jump off and not hit the ground or have the branch snap. Are these skills common to 13 year old girls?


Why do you need an appropriate rope?

No skill required to secure a belt to a tree branch with rope, or more belts, put one belt loop round your neck, lower yourself so it doesn't snap, like it may from jumping, and in two minutes it's too late to change your mind.
Report TheChaser June 3, 2015 11:26 PM BST
no need aka i i have a shed load of them giving to me as gifts , not sure why
Report TheChaser June 3, 2015 11:26 PM BST
i i * lol
Report paradox and equilibrium June 3, 2015 11:27 PM BST
Complete bullshit. jumping in front of a train can be done by any one instantaneously. Still takes guts. Successfully hanging yourself requires a lot more knowledge and skill. Hanging yourself with belts would be extremely difficult. Especially for a light weight 13 year old. Take some time. Think about it.
Report SlippyBlue June 3, 2015 11:28 PM BST
Facts, there must be more to this. You have to agree it just doesn't sit right Confused
Report brendanuk1 June 3, 2015 11:28 PM BST
could it be accidental, bag around her neck something like that?
Report TheChaser June 3, 2015 11:29 PM BST
must have been strong belts , ones i have form ti market snap when im going for a dump
Report spellingandgrammarchecker June 3, 2015 11:31 PM BST
But you're a fat facker, not a 13 year old. Laugh
Report TheChaser June 3, 2015 11:37 PM BST
weight about 11 stone hardly fat , mean lean fighting machine
Report TheChaser June 3, 2015 11:37 PM BST
weigh* gramma boy
Report TheChaser June 3, 2015 11:40 PM BST
or lean mean

i prefer physcho
Report spellingandgrammarchecker June 3, 2015 11:43 PM BST
5 feet 6 inch....psycho
Report TheChaser June 3, 2015 11:47 PM BST
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Report TheChaser June 3, 2015 11:48 PM BST
last bloke to mess

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Report TheChaser June 3, 2015 11:49 PM BST
another KO

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Report spellingandgrammarchecker June 3, 2015 11:49 PM BST
I can't see pictures, I use the Classic forum.
Report TheChaser June 3, 2015 11:56 PM BST
is that not getting cancelled , so they have said for years on here
Report treble June 3, 2015 11:59 PM BST
It is all rather strange. Certainly haven't heard the last of it imo.
Report spellingandgrammarchecker June 3, 2015 11:59 PM BST
If they get rid of the Classic forum I think lot of people will stop posting.

Same as the new Betfair site, it's crap.

I've always used the old one, if they close it down I may go to betquack.
Report TheChaser June 4, 2015 12:04 AM BST
old one is better i think also but use them both , wherever the click takes me
Report Facts June 4, 2015 3:48 AM BST
Hanging yourself 'properly ' may be a 'skill' But self strangulation is easy, whether it's intentional or by accident. Rope,belt,strip of clothing,,tie ? Anything put around your neck and then tightened in a way you can't reverse (with use of your body weight ) will kill you .
Report TheChaser June 4, 2015 6:22 AM BST
Facts is that a Fact , if you chokeyou die ?
Report TheChaser June 4, 2015 6:23 AM BST
No one on here would have thought that are you a nurse
Report Angel Gabrial June 4, 2015 11:19 AM BST
Plenty of young kids hang themselves for not to require technical prowess. Many happen accidentally so that in itself tells you that once there is something in place they struggle to remove it.
Report guinness2dear June 4, 2015 12:13 PM BST
Most 'accidental' hangings happen at home, do they not? Tieing yerself to a tree aged 13 is a bit diff, and apparently she was very small for her age. Anyways, no kid would hang themselves over washing a food container. Someone is lying.
Report spellingandgrammarchecker June 4, 2015 12:25 PM BST
Who said she actually hanged herself over washing a food container?

A CCDDA 'expert'? Laugh

I t appears that was simply the last thing she was asked to do.

There is obviously more that went on before that, unless she had mental issues and it was a spur of the moment decision, which I find unlikely.

She may have been stupid enough to think it would attract attention, a 'cry for help' if you will.

But as I've already posted, once your body weight is on the loop/noose, two minutes in, and it's too late to change your mind.

=======================================================================

There's a similar case in Gloucestershire. Adam Tharia, 15, bullied by a gang of boys, he was filmed being knocked to the ground without trying to defend himself.

They laughed as they filmed him on the ground.

He hanged himself soon afterwards.

The video has now been removed from social media, and the police are investigating the footage.
Report Burton-Brewers June 4, 2015 12:25 PM BST
local news says she was abused online
Report spellingandgrammarchecker June 4, 2015 12:28 PM BST
Somebody has posted that they don't think she had a computer.
Report Burton-Brewers June 4, 2015 12:31 PM BST
don't they use their phones now?
Report guinness2dear June 4, 2015 12:44 PM BST
Who said she actually hanged herself over washing a food container?

Her parents said she walked out over it, then she hangs herself. Now if you have any more info please produce, otherwise keep yer silly emoticons to yer daft feckin self..
Report Smar Tarse June 4, 2015 12:47 PM BST
Amber Peat: Police vow to investigate 'appalling' post on Facebook

Police last night vowed to investigate an "appalling" message posted on Facebook during the search for Amber Peat.

The comment, made by an account in the name of David Lacki, said: "Amber won't be found alive. I've killed her."

A police spokesman said: "We are robustly investigating and will work hard to bring to justice anyone who publishes such appalling posts."


nottinghampost.com
Report Burton-Brewers June 4, 2015 12:52 PM BST
ffs they never mentioned anything about that on BBC East Midlands
Report Angel Gabrial June 4, 2015 1:39 PM BST
guinnes2dear

The workings of a childs mind are not so straight forward. She could have been upset about her self image and it manifests into her erupting over washing the pots. It is a transfer of emotions. She may have been upset over the way she looked on holiday snaps. Washing the pots would be the least of her troubles.
Report spellingandgrammarchecker June 4, 2015 1:53 PM BST
04 Jun 15 12:44 
Who said she actually hanged herself over washing a food container?


guinness2dear
Her parents said she walked out over it, then she hangs herself. Now if you have any more info please produce, otherwise keep yer silly emoticons to yer daft feckin self..


They didn't say she hanged herself over it, did they?

More info:
I'm going to the garden for a smoke.
If I fall down the stairs and break my neck, it wasn't suicide.
Arrest the dog for manslaughter for tripping me up.
Report akabula June 4, 2015 7:31 PM BST
You wonder what motivates people to post stuff like that on fbook.
Hope the cant is at least named and shamed although no doubt we'll get the same feckin excuses.
I was drunk, I don't know what possessed me or the old fav my account must have been hacked.
Report Ramruma June 5, 2015 7:56 AM BST
On the other hand, social media trolls do give the police nice, easy investigations and convictions, which makes up for their failure to catch any actual murderers or rapists.
Report Facts June 5, 2015 10:30 AM BST
^ ignorant and moronic
Report Ramruma June 5, 2015 7:27 PM BST
Finding twitter troll -- ask ISP who posted tweets. Not hard.
Convict those responsible for "industrial scale" rape -- over 2,400 victims in Rotherham alone? That's harder, and has not happened yet.
Report Ramruma June 5, 2015 7:38 PM BST
On reflection, maybe these political points are inappropriate in light of the tragic end to this case. RIP, Amber.
Report TheChaser June 5, 2015 7:50 PM BST
did anyone see coronation street when tyrone said he fixed his babies cot with a belt tied round the broken but

great message to send out just trust a belt to hold your baby in a cot
Report TheChaser June 5, 2015 7:51 PM BST
fifa is hiding this story
Report TheChaser June 5, 2015 7:51 PM BST
on the news
Report TheChaser June 5, 2015 8:01 PM BST
More info:
I'm going to the garden for a smoke.
If I fall down the stairs and break my neck, it wasn't suicide.
Arrest the dog for manslaughter for tripping me up. Laugh

enjoy
Report Shrewd_dude June 5, 2015 8:12 PM BST
Finding twitter troll -- ask ISP who posted tweets. Not hard.

How can an ISP tell the Police who posted a Tweet?
Report Facts June 5, 2015 8:33 PM BST
It has a record of all communication by email address
Report Shrewd_dude June 5, 2015 9:09 PM BST
What has that got to do with an ISP being able to tell the police who posted a Tweet?
Report TheChaser June 9, 2015 3:59 PM BST
any news on stone island step dad
Report The Leopard August 21, 2015 10:50 PM BST
Looks like The CCDA can mark this one up as "We were right about the dodgy step-dad" :
.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3205425/Amber-Peat-s-disappearance-tugged-hearts-Britain-three-agonising-days-hanged-Mail-investigation-reveals-troubling-story-death-modern-Cinderella.html
Report The Leopard August 21, 2015 11:05 PM BST
Amber’s stepfather, the man who spoke so lovingly about her in front of the cameras, has, for the time being, been removed from the family home by social services and is not allowed unsupervised contact with Amber’s younger sister, 12-year-old Riley.
The decision was taken after concerns were raised — in the aftermath of Amber’s death — that she had been exposed to severe and inappropriate punishments and incessant ridicule.
Those concerns were reinforced by our investigation.
Perhaps the best way of putting it is that Amber, according to neighbours and relatives we spoke to, led a Cinderella type of existence, carrying the burden of more than her fair share of the domestic chores, then being chastised if those jobs were not completed ‘satisfactorily’.
It was a row over the cleaning of the cool box, remember, that triggered her disappearance.
A serious case review is believed to have started into Amber’s death by the local Safeguarding Children Board, an organisation made up of groups such as councils, the police and the NHS, whose responsibilities include protecting young people. Such reviews are undertaken ‘when a child dies or is seriously injured, and abuse or neglect are known or suspected to be factors in the death’, says its website.
Suicides among children in their early teens are extremely rare. The most recent figures from the Office for National Statistics show that in 2013, just ten youngsters in the UK aged 14 or under were suspected of taking their own lives. Only two of those victims were girls.
For the moment, at least, Amber’s death has not been classed as suicide. Instead, it remains one of ‘undetermined intent’ — a phrase often used when there is no note left behind, because ‘suicide’ is a label that parents, naturally, find particularly distressing. The coroner is awaiting reports from social services and other agencies before holding the full inquest hearing; no date has yet been set.
Mr and Mrs Peat appealed for information after Amber went missing. Mr Peat's recent history had been marked by broken relationships and trouble of one kind or another

Mr and Mrs Peat appealed for information after Amber went missing. Mr Peat's recent history had been marked by broken relationships and trouble of one kind or another
Parents of Amber Peat make emotional appeal with police


Amber’s story is one that will surely resonate with countless other children in Britain from similar backgrounds.
Nothing in it, taken in isolation, would make the front pages. Amber wasn’t physically or sexually abused. The wretchedness of her daily existence, such that it was, slipped beneath the radar and passed for normal life. It is perhaps that which makes her plight so heartbreaking, so poignant.
Amber’s parents, who never married, split up in 2012. Her mother married Mr Peat not long afterwards, in 2013. The couple’s daughter, Lily Rose —half-sister to Amber and Riley — was born in May 2014.
This domestic upheaval would unsettle any child, but over the past two years alone Amber and her new family moved homes at least four times, veering between Derbyshire and Nottinghamshire, and she is understood to have attended at least three different schools.
One traumatic consequence was that Amber lost contact with her biological father, Adrian Cook, and her paternal grandmother — the ‘Nanna’ she used to visit every weekend, and at whose home she spent so many happy hours innocently painting her nails and pretending to be a model.


A woman holds a poster as volunteers searched for Amber after she went missing. She was found dead close to her home three days later
Until about a year ago, the Peat family were living in Peveril Road, Tibshelf, Derbyshire, about seven miles from Mansfield.
Enquiries there provide a glimpse into what life actually entailed for Amber. A number of residents on the street recall her having run away twice previously. On one occasion, they say, a police helicopter was dispatched to find her.
‘On those occasions she would be missing for a few hours and return home either late at night or in the morning,’ a spokesman for the Nottinghamshire force confirmed.
Neighbours in Peveril Road couldn’t help but notice how often Amber used to put out the bins or clear up rubbish from the garden.
One small incident stands out — the time, it is alleged, Amber was spotted standing outside with her hands above her head. ‘We heard him [Mr Peat] shouting at her and telling her to go outside with her hands above her head as a punishment for looking at his laptop,’ said someone who lived opposite the family.
On another occasion, a relative told us how Amber had to clean out the kitchen cupboards before bed, only they ‘weren’t done properly so he made her get up and clean them again.’
And there is one more thing you should know about Peveril Road: when Amber’s family moved to their most recent address in Mansfield, they left behind a painfully thin cat.

More than 400 friends tuned out to light candles and lay flowers in tribute to Amber in a vigil after her death
‘It was really skinny,’ said a neighbour. ‘We fed it for a few days before they came back and picked it up.’
In 2011, Danny Peat was fined £1,000 and given a six-month suspended sentence for animal cruelty after a pet rabbit was found starved to death in its hutch at the house where he was then staying.
His recent history has been marked by broken relationships (he has at least two more children by other women) and trouble of one kind or another.
In one foul-mouthed online rant he denounced the Pubwatch scheme, in which landlords share intelligence on troublemakers, as ‘a power trip for f****** retards,’ adding, ‘I f****** hate coppers’.
Last year, unemployed Mr Peat was jailed for 16 months over a £120,000 tax fraud. He and an accomplice admitted attempting to falsely claim more than £200,000 in tax rebates. Derby Crown Court heard Mr Peat was the instigator and received £78,000 from the scam. He did not serve his full sentence.
It would be difficult to think of a worse role model for Amber.
One of the reasons the family moved so often, locals have suggested, was to try to escape the stigma of Mr Peat’s troublesome past. Amber’s home life continued to be problematic after moving to Mansfield.
The sound of shouting and raised voices could sometimes be heard coming from her house, we have been told. On at least one occasion, Amber is said to have been discovered hiding in a neighbour’s shed.
Report akabula August 22, 2015 11:07 AM BST
naydam  • June 3, 2015 12:33 AM BST 
I am not on a 'high horse'. I noticed the thread title about a young girl going missing. This is the first I had heard of it. When I read the tread I was astonished at the variety and level of accusations being directed at many different people...all of whom may be totally innocent of any wrong-doing whatsoever. People are even accused of not crying correctly and other such daft remarks.
You just don't seem to learn from events of the past.


Now naydam I hope you have learned from this. Never doubt the wisdom of the CCFsDA in instances such as this. We are rarely, if ever, wrong.
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