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been with a girl for 18months(ish) now, long story cut short, shes a muslim im a sikh (those tht dont know both religions generally clash), the plan was she was going to leave them and we were going to crack on and get married, she found out i lied about certain things about my ex, nothing heavy i didnt cheat or anything but it has caused massive problems, shes moved with her family 3hrs south, we both knew this was gonna happen a long time ago and we were looking at march for her to move back up and for us to get married, after i lied about certain stuff she now is reluctant to move, she wants me to move down and convert cos she thinks if she moves up il end up ending it as she doesnt trust me anymore, now the problem is im madly in love with her like iv never been with anyone ever before and i know she loves me more, right now im 22 and i earn a good salary working in the family buisness, ive always wanted to go traveling and ive worked out i could retire or go traveling or do whatever after working in the fam business for the next 10years, if i move to her il have to leave my work and i told her i like being my own boss im not gonna want to work anywhere else so i said id rather do volunteer work, she said thats fine and shes happy be the one bringing in the cashflow, my problem is if i dont move will i regret it years down the line cos im pretty sure il never love the same, at the same time im scared if i do move that il regret it years to come as il be stuck with her with no options as the family business will be sold as my parents are retiring, any advice is welcome, and i know this is chit chat but please no smart arse comments, its been 3days of no contact with her, sounds pathetic but we've never had 3 consecutive days with no contact for 18months and its been a long a$$ 3 days
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sex is like a hot bath,
its not so feckin hot after a while.
its not so feckin hot after a while.
lot deeper then jus sex bro, another long story cut short but i had some money stashed in my room that my old man gave to me to hold, it looks as tho another family member took 4.1k from the pile, she had already transferred her savings in my account (6k) and told me to replace the stolen money from the money she gave to me to keep the peace in my fam, not a lot of girls would do that especially asian girls who in my opinion are the most materialistic girls that exist
Could you please use paragraphs next time....you have lost 90% of your target audience BrainSurg...
been with a girl for 18months(ish) now, long story cut short, shes a muslim im a sikh (those tht dont know both religions generally clash), the plan was she was going to leave them and we were going to crack on and get married, she found out i lied about certain things about my ex, nothing heavy i didnt cheat or anything but it has caused massive problems, shes moved with her family 3hrs south, we both knew this was gonna happen a long time ago and we were looking at march for her to move back up and for us to get married,
after i lied about certain stuff she now is reluctant to move, she wants me to move down and convert cos she thinks if she moves up il end up ending it as she doesnt trust me anymore, now the problem is im madly in love with her like iv never been with anyone ever before and i know she loves me more, right now im 22 and i earn a good salary working in the family buisness, ive always wanted to go traveling and ive worked out i could retire or go traveling or do whatever after working in the fam business for the next 10years,
if i move to her il have to leave my work and i told her i like being my own boss im not gonna want to work anywhere else so i said id rather do volunteer work, she said thats fine and shes happy be the one bringing in the cashflow, my problem is if i dont move will i regret it years down the line cos im pretty sure il never love the same, at the same time im scared if i do move that il regret it years to come as il be stuck with her with no options as the family business will be sold as my parents are retiring, any advice is welcome, and i know this is chit chat but please no smart arse comments, its been 3days of no contact with her, sounds pathetic but we've never had 3 consecutive days with no contact for 18months and its been a long a$$ 3 days
after i lied about certain stuff she now is reluctant to move, she wants me to move down and convert cos she thinks if she moves up il end up ending it as she doesnt trust me anymore, now the problem is im madly in love with her like iv never been with anyone ever before and i know she loves me more, right now im 22 and i earn a good salary working in the family buisness, ive always wanted to go traveling and ive worked out i could retire or go traveling or do whatever after working in the fam business for the next 10years,
if i move to her il have to leave my work and i told her i like being my own boss im not gonna want to work anywhere else so i said id rather do volunteer work, she said thats fine and shes happy be the one bringing in the cashflow, my problem is if i dont move will i regret it years down the line cos im pretty sure il never love the same, at the same time im scared if i do move that il regret it years to come as il be stuck with her with no options as the family business will be sold as my parents are retiring, any advice is welcome, and i know this is chit chat but please no smart arse comments, its been 3days of no contact with her, sounds pathetic but we've never had 3 consecutive days with no contact for 18months and its been a long a$$ 3 days
nice one MD (doesn't help you one bit but that gave me a laugh)
Do not mess up your life for a bird....stay in the family business...let her go and look for a Sikh girl.....you will be happier in the long run....
it would devastate the old man having his son as well as grandkids being muslim
i had some money stashed in my room that my old man gave to me to hold, it looks as tho another family member took 4.1k from the pile,
from 'the pile'
hmmmmmm
i hope you and your family are declaring all income and paying your taxes
hmmmmmmmmmm
also hope you immediently called in the police about the theft?
or was that not an option because of the tax declaration situation?
sounds to me like she may be better off without you- then again- where did her cash loan to you come from?
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm......................
from 'the pile'
hmmmmmm
i hope you and your family are declaring all income and paying your taxes
hmmmmmmmmmm
also hope you immediently called in the police about the theft?
or was that not an option because of the tax declaration situation?
sounds to me like she may be better off without you- then again- where did her cash loan to you come from?
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm......................
I remember the OP posting a similar thread about this girl and he was on about f'king off travelling with her 6k.
All smells like BS to me.
All smells like BS to me.
of course we dont declare all our income, we pay enough though
and we didnt call the police as it wasnt a life changing amount and only i know about it in my family and i was gonna tell the old man but she stopped me
and her cash loan wasnt a loan, it was savings that her grandmother gave her, she volunteered to put in my account as at that point we were practically engaged
and we didnt call the police as it wasnt a life changing amount and only i know about it in my family and i was gonna tell the old man but she stopped me
and her cash loan wasnt a loan, it was savings that her grandmother gave her, she volunteered to put in my account as at that point we were practically engaged
dont know why id bs, but yes i did make an earlier thread intimating of going traveling now but after i had time to reflect i knew it wasnt a great idea, i dont see how that thread and this contradicts one another in any way shape or form
after watching 1 episode of the jeremy kyle show we decided we wouldnt be paying the amount of tax that we 'should' be paying
thats enough - thanks- expect a knock on the door from the relevant authority
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shame, now guzzle your second bottle of cider and retire to your p1ss stained bedroom in your sh1tty council flat you pathetic entity
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shame, now guzzle your second bottle of cider and retire to your p1ss stained bedroom in your sh1tty council flat you pathetic entity
Take all the cash you have left and give it to a young relative to "hold" in his bedroom, then sneak back the next day and nick half of it. If everything goes to plan he will borrow the missing sum from a dysfunctional relationship (which will then become a lifelong obligation) and return the full amount leaving you with the 50 percent profit needed. As a bonus he will now have the most dysfunctional relationship in the family, leaving you in at least second place.
Stay with the family business. It's a no brainer.
more to life than money tho and i dont think i can let her go tho
You are young, she is not well matched for your family and it will be a big problem for them as you say.
If she really loves you, she will move to you. If she doesn't move then you don't mean as much to her as you think and you will find someone better.
No way I would be tied down in such a serious thing at the age of 22. Live your life and then worry about such things.
If she really loves you, she will move to you. If she doesn't move then you don't mean as much to her as you think and you will find someone better.
No way I would be tied down in such a serious thing at the age of 22. Live your life and then worry about such things.
I think you gf is planning to collect the £10K under the Islamic Refer and Earn Plan, once you're signed up she just pockets the difference from what she lent you.
knock her up- then get married - then tell the families- you'll have the time of your life
and always look on the positive side
should you both end up in a cardboard box at least you can use your turban as a blanket- so it won't be so bad.
I'm off for a few hours kip before the cricket
Having to sleep in the West wing above the billiard room as i promised not to keep the other half awake with my cheers as our boys continue the good work in the sub-continent.
I'll just finish the 1990 Pauillac first
and always look on the positive side
should you both end up in a cardboard box at least you can use your turban as a blanket- so it won't be so bad.
I'm off for a few hours kip before the cricket
Having to sleep in the West wing above the billiard room as i promised not to keep the other half awake with my cheers as our boys continue the good work in the sub-continent.
I'll just finish the 1990 Pauillac first
lmfao 08 Dec 12 03:43 Joined: 07 Jun 06 | Topic/replies: 3,054 | Blogger: lmfao's blog
well thats just cost me £25 of my hard earned
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forkinwinner 08 Dec 12 00:39 Joined: 01 Jun 10 | Topic/replies: 224 | Blogger: forkinwinner's blog
You are young, she is not well matched for your family and it will be a big problem for them as you say.
If she really loves you, she will move to you. If she doesn't move then you don't mean as much to her as you think
she could say the same thing tho m8
well thats just cost me £25 of my hard earned
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forkinwinner 08 Dec 12 00:39 Joined: 01 Jun 10 | Topic/replies: 224 | Blogger: forkinwinner's blog
You are young, she is not well matched for your family and it will be a big problem for them as you say.
If she really loves you, she will move to you. If she doesn't move then you don't mean as much to her as you think
she could say the same thing tho m8
India 145/6, might lose with a day to spare, might lose by an innings. Remember when we smashed them 4-0 last year all the injuns saying how it will all be different when we play them on their own turf, well it isnt, much. What a pathetic rabble they are, got no bottle.
this is all going to end in tears,snot,recriminations and honour killings i fear.
Some advice, not so much about love but more about life.
If you wish to communicate in the written format, as you obviously do, make some effort to make it as intelligible as possible to your would-be readers. I just saw a pile of words, no sentences, no paragraphs, no capitals etc etc. I couldn't be arsed reading it - too much like hard work - the attempt at improvement was lazy and pathetic.
I suspect there may be some connections between this and your love life.
If you wish to communicate in the written format, as you obviously do, make some effort to make it as intelligible as possible to your would-be readers. I just saw a pile of words, no sentences, no paragraphs, no capitals etc etc. I couldn't be arsed reading it - too much like hard work - the attempt at improvement was lazy and pathetic.
I suspect there may be some connections between this and your love life.
As one of the elder statesmen of chit chat, with an abundance of experience in love, marriage, money and life in general, I am obliged to post the following:
You love her, so to you, she's beautiful, but she may well be a munter to the rest of us.
Put up a photo of your beloved, the less she is wearing the better, and a photo, fully clothed, of her mother, because that's what she will look like in 20/25 years time.
Chit chats senior members will give the photos a lot of thought and reply within 24 hours, if not sooner.
You love her, so to you, she's beautiful, but she may well be a munter to the rest of us.
Put up a photo of your beloved, the less she is wearing the better, and a photo, fully clothed, of her mother, because that's what she will look like in 20/25 years time.
Chit chats senior members will give the photos a lot of thought and reply within 24 hours, if not sooner.
some good posts here, particularly from rob dylan and Crisp.
Anywon contemplating getting married at the tender age of 22 needs to have a very strong word with themself imo!
Dec 8, 2012 -- 11:08AM, HH Sultan Vinegar wrote:
some good posts here, particularly from rob dylan and Crisp.
Cheers HH. Just keeping things ticking over while you have your Saturday morning lie in. 
MadDogs 08 Dec 12 11:41
most asians get married 18-21
yes usually by 22 23 the birds start growing jimmy edwards type moustaches and become distubingly unnatractive.
most asians get married 18-21
yes usually by 22 23 the birds start growing jimmy edwards type moustaches and become distubingly unnatractive.
cheers Crispy
flush i think any person with eyes would accept asian girls are more attractive on the whole than english girls
its a big world,if u can retire at 32 id work for 10yrs keep fit and then go travel the world
whats the family business?
whats the family business?
rent out a few shops and have a restaurant, bought a couple flats recently too, thats what im planning in the next 10years to just continue working in the restaurant try any save £10k per year from the rental income then buy a couple more flats which with the couple homes the old mans put in my name now should give £500-£700 per week then just go do me, not a materilistic person and i jus hope seeing the world wont make me as happy as being with her
If you ever get lonely, find a church go to prayer groups and scripture
Meetings, learn about the trutj, you will make new freinds and maybe
If your really lucky you will find that special person to complete your
Life.
Meetings, learn about the trutj, you will make new freinds and maybe
If your really lucky you will find that special person to complete your
Life.
Adisn girls better looking than english, your having a girafe
Specsavers for you, get down their soon.
Specsavers for you, get down their soon.
How many STDS have you had, id get an aids test aswell if I was you ;)
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08 Dec 12 12:37
whats the family business?
Crisp77
08 Dec 12 12:30
Fishing
08 Dec 12 12:37
whats the family business?
Crisp77
08 Dec 12 12:30
Fishing
MadDogs
"after watching 1 episode of the jeremy kyle show we decided we wouldnt be paying the amount of tax that we 'should' be paying "
after watching one episode of PM's question time, hearing about googles tax payments,.... how a particular asian family decides how much income to declare.
I decided not to pay any funking tax.
I'm truly a child of the thatcher generation I'm alright mofo screw the rest. :)
"after watching 1 episode of the jeremy kyle show we decided we wouldnt be paying the amount of tax that we 'should' be paying "
after watching one episode of PM's question time, hearing about googles tax payments,.... how a particular asian family decides how much income to declare.
I decided not to pay any funking tax.
I'm truly a child of the thatcher generation I'm alright mofo screw the rest. :)
Is this fantasy or real 
... youth and the good old "family" to help him out .... 
... youth and the good old "family" to help him out ....
fck her off
grow a set of balls
get out there an enjoy
when it needs to happen it will
grow a set of balls
get out there an enjoy
when it needs to happen it will
lmfao • December 8, 2012 12:00 AM GMT
i had some money stashed in my room that my old man gave to me to hold, it looks as tho another family member took 4.1k from the pile,
from 'the pile'
hmmmmmm
i hope you and your family are declaring all income and paying your taxes
hmmmmmmmmmm
also hope you immediently called in the police about the theft?
or was that not an option because of the tax declaration situation?
sounds to me like she may be better off without you- then again- where did her cash loan to you come from?
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm......................
what a born c..t! the fella was looking for a bit of advice and all u wanna go on about is declaring all taxes. grow up and get in the real world u fckin moron. being a straight goer doesnt always pay dividends.
i had some money stashed in my room that my old man gave to me to hold, it looks as tho another family member took 4.1k from the pile,
from 'the pile'
hmmmmmm
i hope you and your family are declaring all income and paying your taxes
hmmmmmmmmmm
also hope you immediently called in the police about the theft?
or was that not an option because of the tax declaration situation?
sounds to me like she may be better off without you- then again- where did her cash loan to you come from?
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm......................
what a born c..t! the fella was looking for a bit of advice and all u wanna go on about is declaring all taxes. grow up and get in the real world u fckin moron. being a straight goer doesnt always pay dividends.
This is what is wrong with this country. A man should never give up his job and move to suit his girlfriend/prospective wife. Also it is no longer sensible for any young man to even think of getting married or even worse having children.It is the duty of the girlfriend to make life better not worse!!
rob_dylan
08 Dec 12 08:19
India 145/6, might lose with a day to spare, might lose by an innings. Remember when we smashed them 4-0 last year all the injuns saying how it will all be different when we play them on their own turf, well it isnt, much. What a pathetic rabble they are, got no bottle.
Nicely wrapped up today and a great series win. Good job done by the lads.
08 Dec 12 08:19
India 145/6, might lose with a day to spare, might lose by an innings. Remember when we smashed them 4-0 last year all the injuns saying how it will all be different when we play them on their own turf, well it isnt, much. What a pathetic rabble they are, got no bottle.
Nicely wrapped up today and a great series win. Good job done by the lads.
bbmtt1:
good morning feller
kindly note that i gave him advice about what to do in an earlier post as requested
i then gave him something else to think about - to take his mind off his emotional turmoil
so - all i all- and after considerable reflection- i have been very generous and supportive
my good deed for the day completed i shall gracefully depart from this absorbing thread
good morning feller
kindly note that i gave him advice about what to do in an earlier post as requested
i then gave him something else to think about - to take his mind off his emotional turmoil
so - all i all- and after considerable reflection- i have been very generous and supportive
my good deed for the day completed i shall gracefully depart from this absorbing thread
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