Is it acceptable to send flowers to a girl you have briefly met?

whats her forum name?

wazza

haha

Send her some flowers. asking her out for a drink on the card.

ask her if you can bring your toothbrush[;)]

Yeah, my toothbrush would love a little sleep over at her place

where do you work - any chance she will be there again?

Just before closing at your local petrol station some fantastic bargins on the flowers, leave in sink of water overnight to revive,
but just take the flowers straight round .

just tell her that you often win over 7p a day as a pro gambler. bound to be impressed.

As soon as I seen her I said to myself "I wanna marry this girl" !! lol

If you know her address you should watch her through her windows and follow her for a few weeks imo.

It's best to see how someone lives before you get involved with them, for all you know she might be a right weirdo.

class mate !!

As soon as I seen her I said to myself "I wanna marry this girl" !! lol
are you sure shes a girl

Don't show up at the house whatever you do, she'll write you off as a weirdo straight away.

Leave it to chance, if she lives local you'll bump into her again.

I'd find out if she takes up the wrong 'un before proceeding any further.

stalker stalker stalker ya werdo

if you are a florist with leftover stock which cant be sold it is ok,

Send her flowers but dont put your name on a card and then leave it to chance.

If she's remotely interested in you, she'll come back to where you work. She knows where to find you, after all.

Be ready with some good banter. Also find out some irrelevant detail about something she likes, and bring it up the next time.

Do NOT send her flowers straight away, unless you were introduced by a friend.

loads of different advice, no idea what is right or wrong advice ... chances aren't great to bump into her at work again, but yeah she lives just across the road but Ive never seen her before in 2 years. Im just thinking that nothing will happen unless I make it happen, surely you have to do something just after you meet her, I was gonna leave it a couple days then just send some flowers with a little note, what harm can it do .... but there is a chance I will never see her again unless I act on it. Her parents live a street down from my dads house. Surely a girl would see it as a nice thing rather than a bad thing ???

Would she be there to collect them?

A little notecard from Interflora saying 'please go to xyz to pick up some flowers' probably doesn't have the same appeal as getting them straight out. Just a thought.

Problem is she lives in a flat, no idea what flat it is, I only know the main door number ... but I could get her parents to pass them on to her as I know their house. It's on my mind constantly, wish I had just done it last night then I would have known one way or another, why do girls have this power over us, it's torture !!

I wouldn't get a company to deliver them, I would do that myself ... but hey, if something is meant to be then no matter what it will be, but even though I believe that, I still think we have a little cotrol on making something happen. Ive been waiting ages to meet a girl that is incredible, but yet not so stuck up it's impossible to even talk to her, this girl was fantastic, nice to talk to, absolutley gorgeous and completely the typ of girl I wanted to find .... and the moment totally freaked me out last night.

You're screwed. There's no way that works. Sorry.

Just remember for next time. Ask for the f*cking number.

I hate the phrase, but it's true - 'he who dares Rodney, he who dares'

Surely though I still have the chance to do something .... the saying is true so whats wrong in acting on it now?

Plenty of people meet someone, don't ask for a number but then after realising how much they wanted to they then try and see if they can make it happen, god, I can see her flat from my front window, it's gonna drive me nuts knwoing she is so close, even if I get a no from her at least I will find out ..... should I just send flowers to her flat then and hopefully the deliverer will find the right flat?

There is a chance of meeting her again through work, but it's a very small chance that I don't really want to wait on ...

you got he name and house number
buy a card and  stick 1/2 doz condoms in it
btw put yer name and adress on the envelope[;)]

Go round to the flat with a bunch of flowers, ring all the buzzers til you hear the right voice, when she answers, say something like "interflora delivery", and when you hand over the flowers, tell her the condition of receipt is that she has to read the card, on which you have of course written "with love from the man standing in front of you".

I'll expect free drinks at the wedding, and first dibs on the best looking bridesmaid!

haha, thats cheezy af fook mate but I suppose thats something a girl kind of loves !!! I can actually picture the scene, that would make any girl smile !!!

If it backfires then I don't care, well I do, but as long as I find out or it wil ldrive me nuts forever !!

Look at it from her way and send flowers to where she works. She may pretend to hate it in front of her colleagues but she will love the gesture, whatever she thinks of you now she will always like you for that. Don't leave it long tho.

it could go either way tbh she might think arhh thats sweet or she might think what a weirdo stalker

I don't know wher she works, only where she lives .... well, yeah, I suppose it will either go well or go bad lol

just stalk her , find her routine  then accidently bump into her , you dont seem desperate then or look a weirdo ,,, is she single ?

Schalke are u in Glasgow??

I dunno if she is single, but she has her own wee place ... I aint gonna stalk her, that just sounds so wrong !! lol

Why is it if you try and contact a girl you sound desperate? Thing is though yeah, I'm desperate to speak to her again .... yup in Glasgow, why do you ask?

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2H4lPF7bT44&feature=related

Giving Flowers

forgive me perhaps desperate was the wrong word . you need to be careful incase she does have a partner that could cause her problems aswell as urself,

she isn't russian though?

I think it covers all Eastern Europeans

Yeah exactly, I don't wanna turn up at her door with flowers and a bloody boyfriend is there .... oh man, it's really driving me crazy !!

A Glasgow female friend of mine  told me some poster on Betfair is stalking her

lol .... she would know all about it if I was stalking her, but I couldn't even ask her for her number last night never mind stalk her

Oh how many times I have told myself to just ask when an opportunity comes, and yet I efin bottle in, what a tw@t !!

Schalke - why did u not ask her?  Were u working in a bar or a nite club?

I didn't ask her cause 1. Yeah I was totally scared she would just dismiss it, pathetic reason I know but it's just natural, and 2. Cause I didn't want to put her on the spot .... I'm not the most outgoing person in the world and sometimes it's really hard to just ask a girl, I really dunno why, but when I feel like the way I do after it, it again teaches me a lesson to just speak up ... I do in every other way in life except with girls lol

Nope, I'm in the pick up and take home type of business ...

Why -- did you kill her ??

I don't get the joke mate?

read the header -- then my reply ...[;)]

a weegee ffs  im sure a deep fyed mars bar would
get you into her you no wots[;)]

I have never seen a deep fried mars bar in my life

asking a forum full of gamblers for advice on a woman,ive seen it all now

It's the norm mate ... we ask each other everything in life on here

Well, did you see her again Schalke 04?!

I've been reading these old forum stories and this is just one of many that doesn't have an ending or conclusion ffs.

Brilliant old thread

A bit late now but I wouldn't want flowers that soon.

I certainly wouldn't want any sent to my place of work.

Maybe he went to Calvingrove Park and saw her feeding the ducks with the Calvinator.

Yes I would send flowers to a lady I fancied and would like to get to know more but not to her place of work, we are only here once after all. Mrs. Blue gets plenty of flowers.

It never would have worked out as the girl is a Dortmund fan.

Surely he could over look that though if she was blonde haired and blue eyed...

^drop the abbot look
scarey

But I thought she is the forum's sweetheart?

Deffo never flowers.
Firstly because whatever reason you think it's acceptable is the same sort of manipulation a parasite uses to influence a catapilla to make it do bizarre stupid s hit that gets it picked off by a predator. You will probs die a thousand times in future thinking what a pathetic sap you were.
Secondly you are no doubt see as sexually patronising and stereotyping the female under new age nonsense laws. She as all females want to be men and hate men as a result, they want to be treated as a man and you wouldn't send flowers to another man would you?
Or would you?

i feel a squeeze song coming on.....

I read this and immediately thought "there's something wrong here" ... asking forumites for romantic advice?? saying you will be honest?? sending flowers??

Then I realised ...

I think your headline would read better if you wrote "... girl you have met briefly", rather than "... briefly met".

Just saying like

HTH

PS pop to local crem on Friday afternoon.  Loads of fresh flowers - don't forget to remove any cards.

Good luck

Works nights , serves customers by the looks of it and instantly thought of flowers got to work st the night garage

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