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25 Jan 10
16:54
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got back with my ex gf last week, we'd split up a while back but i always still liked her then bumped into her last week and we were back on, i'm a right jealous sod but told myself to take it easy this time, all was going well for the first few days then i'd arranged to go up hers sat night to watch dvd etc,ended up in the boozer and turning up a tad late, that was the start of the end, i then started asking about who'd she'd been seeing since we split and she was shouting, youve not changed your still jealous, this isnt going to work, throw is out and told me it was over yesterday.
i'd just got over her not long ago after feeling down for months now i'm down again and the jealousy has reared its ugly head.
this has ruined my 3 previous relationships.
cant get her out of my head :-(
i'd just got over her not long ago after feeling down for months now i'm down again and the jealousy has reared its ugly head.
this has ruined my 3 previous relationships.
cant get her out of my head :-(
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yep, wish i didnt meet her again though, infact wish i never met her to start with
off for a walk to clear the head
off for a walk to clear the head
I feel for you pal but if your jealous of everything she does its never going to work. Was you jealous of the 3 other girls you were in relationships with?
walter whats with the jealousy bit cant understand it,you must still only be a young un reading between the lines. while ever you have got that streak in you , then you will never be able to hold a relationship. snap out of it pronto,the only way forward mate
u want some ,exactly what sprang to mind with me
'The ship is still sailing' Walter, you're a good bloke and you'll get through. Good luck
It will be spring soon
It will be spring soon
You're still young that's your fault,
there's so much you have to know
Find a girl, settle down, if you want to, you can marry
Look at me, I am old, but I'm happy
I was once like you are now, and I know that its not easy
to be calm, when you've found something going on.
But take your time, think a lot, think of everything you've got
For you will still be here tomorrow, but your dreams may not
Know what I mean...?
there's so much you have to know
Find a girl, settle down, if you want to, you can marry
Look at me, I am old, but I'm happy
I was once like you are now, and I know that its not easy
to be calm, when you've found something going on.
But take your time, think a lot, think of everything you've got
For you will still be here tomorrow, but your dreams may not
Know what I mean...?
Why would anybody want a relationship with a person who watches and checks their every move? Somebody who ceaselessly accuses their partner of things that they haven't done. You make their lives unbearable. You need to realise the Hell that you put them through.
If you want things to improve you must 'bite the bullet' and get professional help. But are you that bothered? Probably not. :-(
If you want things to improve you must 'bite the bullet' and get professional help. But are you that bothered? Probably not. :-(
I've been going out with a girl,
her name is Julie
But last night she said to me,
when we were watching telly
(This is what she said)
She said listen Walter, I love you
But there's this bloke, I fancy
I don't want to two time you,
so it's the end for you and me
Who's this bloke I asked her
Calvin, she replied
Not THAT puff, I said dismayed
Yes but he's no puff she cried
(He's more of a man than you'll ever be)
her name is Julie
But last night she said to me,
when we were watching telly
(This is what she said)
She said listen Walter, I love you
But there's this bloke, I fancy
I don't want to two time you,
so it's the end for you and me
Who's this bloke I asked her
Calvin, she replied
Not THAT puff, I said dismayed
Yes but he's no puff she cried
(He's more of a man than you'll ever be)
This Liberal Love - Microdisney
One October, losing his job,
He was drinking heavily,
Living in his mothers house,
Wild at weekends and sleeping all week.
He believed he was right to ask for things
To be his and for him alone,
And the world wasn't right with him unless
His wish was the world's command.
Drunk in town one saturday night,
He met a tall blonde older girl,
In complicated bohemian clothes,
She took him home though he was an oaf.
Making love was his way of asking her
To be his and for him alone,
And though she would always act offhand,
It appeared that she understood.
With the weeks passing by,
He began to feel
The bad had gone.
In her candlelit room,
He had found himself,
But what about her?
Then he noticed something amiss,
Other men kept calling around,
When, one night, he had his proof,
He confronted his liberal love.
He believed he was right to tell her
She was his and for him alone,
And shrugging her shoulders, sad but calm,
She informed him that he was wrong.
"You don't own me", she sighed,
"But I do, I must", he groaned,
Then yelled,
"Oh what is this liberal love you gave?
It's fast, it's wrong."
"You don't own me", she sighed,
"But I do, I must", he groaned,
Then yelled,
"What is this liberal love you gave?"
One October, losing his job,
He was drinking heavily,
Living in his mothers house,
Wild at weekends and sleeping all week.
He believed he was right to ask for things
To be his and for him alone,
And the world wasn't right with him unless
His wish was the world's command.
Drunk in town one saturday night,
He met a tall blonde older girl,
In complicated bohemian clothes,
She took him home though he was an oaf.
Making love was his way of asking her
To be his and for him alone,
And though she would always act offhand,
It appeared that she understood.
With the weeks passing by,
He began to feel
The bad had gone.
In her candlelit room,
He had found himself,
But what about her?
Then he noticed something amiss,
Other men kept calling around,
When, one night, he had his proof,
He confronted his liberal love.
He believed he was right to tell her
She was his and for him alone,
And shrugging her shoulders, sad but calm,
She informed him that he was wrong.
"You don't own me", she sighed,
"But I do, I must", he groaned,
Then yelled,
"Oh what is this liberal love you gave?
It's fast, it's wrong."
"You don't own me", she sighed,
"But I do, I must", he groaned,
Then yelled,
"What is this liberal love you gave?"
Lee Ho Fooks....
you didn't get to the BEST EVER line written in a song..
'I was so upset, I cried all the way to the chip shop'
you didn't get to the BEST EVER line written in a song..
'I was so upset, I cried all the way to the chip shop'
Psycho or Jealous?
By Advice Diva
There are very few articles and resources addressing the topic of jealousy. I have come to the conclusion that this is merely because people don't know what stance to take on the situation.
Everyone has been on both sides of the fence. Most of us have experienced a jealous lover and many of us have been in a relationship where we curiously find ourselves being insecure and jealous by nature. On one hand you want to condemn the abhorrent behavior exhibited by jealous partners while on the other hand you might be able to sympathize.
I have decided to courageously announce my decided opinion. Jealousy is just another euphemism for psychotic behavior.
Without going too far into the psychology of jealousy, you should understand that jealousy is not an innate feeling that we are all born with; rather it is a learned response that people have developed over time to deal with certain situations.
We all have the ability to feel anguish and emotional sorrow, and jealousy is one way we cope with these feelings. Jealousy can rear its ugly green head at any time. You never know what will set it off. Some people can be completely at ease with one lover and insanely jealous with another lover.
People have the potential to get jealous for a multitude of reasons. They might have low self esteem, have been rejected or betrayed in the past or feel insecure about their body or looks to name a few.
I would venture to say that a small amount of jealousy in any relationship is normal. It might even be considered a good thing because it shows that deep emotions are tied to this relationship. But jealousy should not be confused as a sign of love.
By Advice Diva
There are very few articles and resources addressing the topic of jealousy. I have come to the conclusion that this is merely because people don't know what stance to take on the situation.
Everyone has been on both sides of the fence. Most of us have experienced a jealous lover and many of us have been in a relationship where we curiously find ourselves being insecure and jealous by nature. On one hand you want to condemn the abhorrent behavior exhibited by jealous partners while on the other hand you might be able to sympathize.
I have decided to courageously announce my decided opinion. Jealousy is just another euphemism for psychotic behavior.
Without going too far into the psychology of jealousy, you should understand that jealousy is not an innate feeling that we are all born with; rather it is a learned response that people have developed over time to deal with certain situations.
We all have the ability to feel anguish and emotional sorrow, and jealousy is one way we cope with these feelings. Jealousy can rear its ugly green head at any time. You never know what will set it off. Some people can be completely at ease with one lover and insanely jealous with another lover.
People have the potential to get jealous for a multitude of reasons. They might have low self esteem, have been rejected or betrayed in the past or feel insecure about their body or looks to name a few.
I would venture to say that a small amount of jealousy in any relationship is normal. It might even be considered a good thing because it shows that deep emotions are tied to this relationship. But jealousy should not be confused as a sign of love.
bigH 25 Jan 18:05
Try this approach
Sober
On time
Positive
=========
you mean ...be a SOP !! :^0 :^0
Try this approach
Sober
On time
Positive
=========
you mean ...be a SOP !! :^0 :^0
Walter Mitty sounds about 16 years old :^0
His ex probably does n't need a sulky boy. But requires a MAN who has a mature attitude to life.
His ex probably does n't need a sulky boy. But requires a MAN who has a mature attitude to life.
lol walter , im a jealous person , has caused me loads of problems in the past , but i took up drinking and it seems to have calmed me
The opposite actually works, give the impression you don,t give a f@ck....
I have THE solution to the jealousy problem.
Go and be with the person you like second best in all the world. This worls on 3 levels.
1. You like them just enough to be with them.
2. They can't make you jealous, because you don't really care about them as they're only really your second choice.
3. You can rest assured that the person you like best in the world will be jealous forever.
Result.
Go and be with the person you like second best in all the world. This worls on 3 levels.
1. You like them just enough to be with them.
2. They can't make you jealous, because you don't really care about them as they're only really your second choice.
3. You can rest assured that the person you like best in the world will be jealous forever.
Result.
surely part three is by far the most important lmao
if i'm totally honest i wasnt in love with her as a person, just her looks, i'm infatuated with her, she is that pretty i was always thinking i was punching above my weight, i was honestly thinking about finishing with her during the week because i knew my jealousy would kick in again
one night stands for me from now on
one night stands for me from now on
TheRankingMissP 25 Jan 22:09
What about a nice munter?
Ladycakes can be that.
What about a nice munter?
Ladycakes can be that.
yeah, been seeing one of them while i was split up from ex, only go up there when i'm p1ssed but i look at her and think fk i should be with my ex, it depresses me and its not fair on her either
quite like the idea of seeing someone that i don't really fancy that should stop the jealousy
quite like the idea of seeing someone that i don't really fancy that should stop the jealousy
ladycakes is not a nice munter.
She's a biatch...and don't you forget it.
She's a biatch...and don't you forget it.
Us biatches have got to stick together, ladycakes.
So if you weren't in love with her in the first...Woukld you care gto explain why you are taking up people's valuable time with your 'Woe is me' whingeing? You are a shallow piece of cr4p and you should not pester any half-decent girls on the grounds that you don't deserve one!
I know a good site for escort birds Walter. gonna make my debut this weekend. the 18 -24 bracket, there are some right fakin belters. where do u live?
naydam i know i'm shallow, she knew that as well
i wouldnt be giving a dam if she wasnt goodlooking, thats what i'm trying to console myself with
i wouldnt be giving a dam if she wasnt goodlooking, thats what i'm trying to console myself with
will the real Walter Mitty please identify himself
hello starfish, its me Walter
my heads gone just now,need to get a grip and toughen up
my heads gone just now,need to get a grip and toughen up
ha ha. average 100 per hour, depends want u want and what extras u into... lol
ta, no more on this need to toughen up
grow up as one poster said
grow up as one poster said
Walter Mitty 25 Jan 22:05
if i'm totally honest i wasnt in love with her as a person, just her looks,
You have the depth of a puddle.
if i'm totally honest i wasnt in love with her as a person, just her looks,
You have the depth of a puddle.
Walter Mitty:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kbprtM8aMB0
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kbprtM8aMB0
bigh i know that, i'm not proud or happy with myself
great song missrankp
great song missrankp
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iN45OjB-cCU
song to go with lyrics posted earlier
song to go with lyrics posted earlier
You know?
And it would still be great even if Coldplay sang it.
QED. Plenty more fish in the sea.
And it would still be great even if Coldplay sang it.
QED. Plenty more fish in the sea.
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