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06 Jan 10
07:52
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My wife and I are estranged, I'm hoping we could get back together but she has a boyfriend.
He doesn't live with her and I don't know much about him, I just see him now and then when I drop off our daughter, he seems ok.
Other than just wait it out (which obviously has no guarantees) has anybody got any suggestions as to how I could split them up? I'm not after anything illegal and I'm not the kind of person who would be taken seriously making threats anyway.
I was thinking of hiring someone to seduce him, but I don't know anything about where he goes etc, and not sure how my wife would ever see the evidence anyway
This is a serious question, has anyone got any suggestions?
He doesn't live with her and I don't know much about him, I just see him now and then when I drop off our daughter, he seems ok.
Other than just wait it out (which obviously has no guarantees) has anybody got any suggestions as to how I could split them up? I'm not after anything illegal and I'm not the kind of person who would be taken seriously making threats anyway.
I was thinking of hiring someone to seduce him, but I don't know anything about where he goes etc, and not sure how my wife would ever see the evidence anyway
This is a serious question, has anyone got any suggestions?
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Have you considered letting her go and finding someone else?
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I have considered it, realistically that's probably what will happen, but that's not the question!
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She has her fancy man in the house when your daughter is there and you want her back? Why? What's wrong with getting a decent woman?
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Bit risky if she found out isnt it wrt to rights to see your daughter?
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Please just answer the question!!!! I'm not after getting judged. I'd think exactly the same from the outside and you're probably right, and I'm sure that's what will happen, but I'm hoping someone will help me find a good way to get rid of the fancy dan!
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hundreds and hundreds of posts on this thread
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'I would suggest some sort of violence
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yes Don, I wouldn't want to get found out cos that would definitely completely mess things up for contact
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Just get in line with her other customers, imo
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Have you thought of changing your username, donjuan, wellhung or iamloaded, just some ideas. Told it works wonders with the ladies.
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billkiller is shrood. or maybe u could sign up her platinum service.
juts be grateful that the bloke seems a decent bloke - yr words - and not some psycho, who would harm yr daughter. what does yr daughter think of him - i would be more intent on trying to split them up, if my kid didnt like them or was scared of them (oh and dont think the mother would notice if her kids were not happy. as long as the selfish feckpig is getting sorted out, she probably couldnt give a to55). why would u want the skanky old 5lapper back? why do u think she would want u back, after getting slotted by her present stallion? |
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He's fairly new so daughter doesn't say much about him but has met him.
Surely there must be a way to do it, if the forum brains stuck to the topic I'm sure we could work it out! |
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just take the opportunity to apply for porn addressed to him at your wifes address, every advert, fill it in, obviously kinkier the better, S&M perhaps it will soon sort him out, make it a hobby with a £50 investment limit.
No violence just the pleasure of waking every morning knowing that the postman will call today !!, morally it keeps a lot of people employed until he gets chucked out. |
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lol thats not a bad idea, but she would probably guess it was me
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yea..what what do i do know just said
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Howard, You sound like a pahetic sad little man.
Get some balls FFS |
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Make out that he is a peadophile.
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OK, serious now. Forget the bloke, he's not important.
The way to get her back is to turn up with somebody better looking, better dressed and better company, somebody your daughter loves to be with. Hire an actress if you have to. Jealousy is a powerful stimulant. |
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Billkiller thank u, I might well do that
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I have found out how powerful jealousy is, I only want her back since she officially had a boyfriend! So that might just work
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Don't get a girlfriend, get a job instead.
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Your EX is prob just pleased to have a decent man about the house. A man that she can look up too and respect, instead of the sneaky snidey weak febble thing that she had.
You Daughter is prob thinking the same too in case you are wondering. Bet she would be really proud if she knew you had came on a gambling sites forum to ask how to make her mum unhappy. Like a previuos poster said, What a sad sick little man you sound. |
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I'd rather go out with the actress, me. She sounds nice.
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let slip she ahs an STD, he should scuttle off pretty quickly
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Brian.......all's fair in love and war. You're on a gambling site forum as well, don't really see what the problem is
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and daughter would love us to be back together
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It is obvious. Cast iron guaranteed she will leave him if she thinks he's a peadophile.
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but why would she think he's a paedophile? he probably isn't but even if he is, i wouldn't know and she wouldn't believe me
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up to you how you do it
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"This is a serious question, has anyone got any suggestions?"
good place to start the betfair chit chat forum :) |
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Cast iron guaranteed she will leave him if she thinks he's a peadophile.
You haven't been reading the news in the past year, have you? |
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Why don't you seduce him and send your wife the pictures?
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On reflection you do sound like a little weasle. You mention that she wouldnt believe you. If you had even the slightest remotest hint he was paedo then you confront him directly and her not make a timid suggestion. Anyways its just wishful thinking that this guy is anything but a decent chap. She sound sbetter off with him, daughter calling him 'daddy' by xmas 1.01
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A pleasing thread.
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If you are serious, then go away and come back and read this thread with a clear head later.
Surely you will realise how f*cked up your thinking is. Sad how the forum reflexly presumes the wife to be a skank, w*ore etc without any real knowledge of the circs involved. |
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That is the forum's view of women in general, I'm afraid.
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Has your wife given even the slightest indication she would be interested in getting back together? Who implemented the split in the first place?
If the answers are "no" and "Her" then you sound on to a loser. From personal experinece, do not give your daughter even the slightest false hope you will be getting back together, as it can really mess kids up, unfortunately. |
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studyform, i actually spat my tea out when i read your reply... classic...
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Love your daughter with all your heart and move on with your life. Your wife has moved on and to think that this is just a phase that she is going through is folly imo.
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