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Freshie
07 Jan 10 16:33
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Last Xmas 2008, my wife and I separated, and I left. However, she had alot of my belongings and after being messed around all year, agreed to collect on 12th September.

In July 2009, her half brother, who has form for gun crime, threatened to shoot me. Reported to Police. Nothing happened.

Collected my stuff with 10 friends....didn't have much, but what witnesses as a result of the above. My ex-wife was not present, but 2 of her friends were. Nothing happened for 3 weeks, then I get a call from the Police asking to speak to me. I went to the station and got charged with Breach of the Peace.

The two girls claimed I caused fear and alarm, and my ex-wife - even though she wasn't there - pressed the Police for 3 weeks for action. Anyway, its going to court, and I am pleading not guilty. With the weight of witnesses, my lawyer is very confident it will be binned.

I suggested a few days ago, that these girls are liars and, if I am found not guilty based on 10 witnesses, should be charged with wasting Police time, or if they repeat them in court, then Perjury. All of my friends agreed, bar a feminist who is going out with one of them - he said nothing - she claimed it would put of women coming forward in these situations again. She also added no smoke without fire, even though Breach of the Peace only require two corroborating witnesses only.....

I also got offered a job, well paid accountant, two weeks ago. This has been withdrawn as a result. Why should I be punished like this? And this feminist is being sexist, seeing them as women first rather than normal members of society who lied.

Needless to say, I feel a little aggrieved, especially at this feminist stance.
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Report Dick Quax • January 7, 2010 5:37 PM GMT
Eh?
Report The Magic Flea • January 7, 2010 5:38 PM GMT
awaiting wolsey end with abated breat......
Report Dick Quax • January 7, 2010 5:38 PM GMT
I wouldn't employ anyone who thinks 'alot' is one word, not two.
Report punterfleecer • January 7, 2010 5:41 PM GMT
errr Freshie

think of it this way

someone is coming to collect belongings from my place but turns up with 10 other people, what would I think? "10 lovely people have turned up" OR "a fvcking lynch mob"

damn right you should have been done for breach of peace

you only need to bring 2 people along, not 10 you silly bugger
Report Freshie • January 7, 2010 5:41 PM GMT
Think you need a job and/or money, Dick, before you can actually employ anyone.
Report Derren Brown • January 7, 2010 5:42 PM GMT
Must be Scotland
Report punterfleecer • January 7, 2010 5:42 PM GMT
She is not a liar, turning up with 10 other people can be very scary
Report rustyboy • January 7, 2010 5:42 PM GMT
why did you tell your employer.

keep schtum iiwy.
Report Hoss • January 7, 2010 5:42 PM GMT
Why did you bring 10 friends? No wonder the 2 girls were scared.
Report Freshie • January 7, 2010 5:43 PM GMT
only 2 entered the flat, and the breach of the peace relates to shouting and swearing that I allegedly did. Which witnesses would say not.
Report Dick Quax • January 7, 2010 5:44 PM GMT
I'm confused.

Was the 'feminist' one of the original 10 friends?
Report Freshie • January 7, 2010 5:44 PM GMT
The reason for 10 was because of her half-brother's death threat. He already did a stretch for firearm offences when he turned up at his step-dad's place 8 years ago.
Report punterfleecer • January 7, 2010 5:44 PM GMT
nobody else should be entering the flat, only you, that can be scary for the ladies as well

so 2 entered flat and the other 8 standing outside, how very heart-felting it must've been(!)
Report Freshie • January 7, 2010 5:45 PM GMT
Yes, that is correct. She is willing to say nothing happened and it was made up lies, but thinks they should be let off!
Report punterfleecer • January 7, 2010 5:45 PM GMT
just because he made a threat, didn't give you the right to retaliate with turning up with 10 others
Report DAN1974 • January 7, 2010 5:45 PM GMT
why the feck did you turn up with 10 mates? Thats a bit ott imo.
Report The Magic Flea • January 7, 2010 5:46 PM GMT
Dick Quax 07 Jan 18:44


I'm confused.

Was the 'feminist' one of the original 10 friends?


weren't there only 6 original friends, and the feminist one was the wife of Ross' gay wife
Report DaveEdwards • January 7, 2010 5:46 PM GMT
Instead of bring 10 friends to deal with some girls, why didn't you send the ten of them to sort out trigger boy?
Report Freshie • January 7, 2010 5:46 PM GMT
Should also say the number of people was agreed between our two lawyers in the previous weeks, and all names were given.
Report Freshie • January 7, 2010 5:48 PM GMT
Maybe Dave, actually triggerboy is still calling me and the Police don't want to know, saying it will get a mention in my case?!!! Lothian and Borders finest....
Report Hoss • January 7, 2010 5:49 PM GMT
:D HA HA, His 10 mates came along to see him get shot :D
Report Dick Quax • January 7, 2010 5:50 PM GMT
:D
Report Prima Donna • January 7, 2010 5:50 PM GMT
When you went inside and the shouting and swearing, started did it go along the lines of "LOOK YOU TWO FORKING SL*GS IVE GOT ME MATES I WANT MY STUFF OR YOUR GUNNA GET IT"or did you ask if you can have your things in a cool and relaxed manner?
Report DaveEdwards • January 7, 2010 5:50 PM GMT
tbh, sounds like a bit of an amateur. Not making light of the situation and I know it mustn't be a nice feeling.

Has he got form for actually shooting people or waving a gun around and generally acting like he's the big man?
Report SuperSuperShire • January 7, 2010 5:51 PM GMT
It'll be binned by the courts. Easy

As long as your solicitor plays your cards right, about the threats made towards you etc, the judge should see you point in bringing 10 along with you (far too many IMO, but if it makes you feel safe)
Report Freshie • January 7, 2010 5:53 PM GMT
I like it....!! I wouldn't rule it out either!

Actually, everything was boxed and by the flat door. Literally 2-3 mins to get 18 boxes. Its also the fact the Police waited 3 weeks to do anything, annoying.
Report punterfleecer • January 7, 2010 5:54 PM GMT
everything boxed and by front door?

well the ex was compliant

you're lucky
Report punterfleecer • January 7, 2010 5:55 PM GMT
a lot of men would find it in a bonfire
Report Hoss • January 7, 2010 5:55 PM GMT
Good luck, are you bringing your posse to court with you?
Report Dick Quax • January 7, 2010 5:57 PM GMT
Original post.... Didn't have much....

Now... 18 boxes...

:0
Report Freshie • January 7, 2010 5:57 PM GMT
Dave - he goes hunting, and turned up with his gun; no shots were fired. Their mum died suddenly, and he blamed the step-dad as it was a brain bleed of some sort (my ex-wife was 12 at the time)....he got all the money too. He was 25 (8 years after the death), he holds grudges.

Hope you are right SuperSuperShire, its the wait that is killing me.
Report punterfleecer • January 7, 2010 5:57 PM GMT
18 boxes won't mean much if he doesn't think 10 watchers is much
Report Freshie • January 7, 2010 6:00 PM GMT
Dick, I don't consider it much. 30 years of life and all my belongings in 18 boxes. Would you not say?
Report brendanuk1 • January 7, 2010 6:02 PM GMT
Jeremy Kyle show imo
Report punterfleecer • January 7, 2010 6:02 PM GMT
lots of photo albums to pine over?
Report punterfleecer • January 7, 2010 6:03 PM GMT
the only thing that would fill 18 boxes of 30 years of my adult life would be crushed beer cans
Report Dick Quax • January 7, 2010 6:03 PM GMT
Depends how big the boxes are i suppose......
Report Freshie • January 7, 2010 6:03 PM GMT
Yes, I would say with both compliant on the day with both our lawyer's wishes. Everything went as agreed, or so I thought, and at a later date - not even on the day - a complaint was made at Stirling Police Station, even though we both live in Edinburgh. No Police were called on the day.
Report DaveEdwards • January 7, 2010 6:04 PM GMT
OK, he's an amateur. Problem with these people is if they are tooled up is that he's probably as nervous as you, if not more so. And that's not good news.

However, he might just drop it as time passes. If not and the OB do nothing about it, you wouldn't be completely out of order finding someone appropriately qualified to explain the errors of his ways to him. Obviously in a firm, but civilised manner. You know what I mean.

Good luck with this.
Report DaveEdwards • January 7, 2010 6:06 PM GMT
See that I am NOT advising you to do anything! Just saying it is a possibility.
Report Freshie • January 7, 2010 6:08 PM GMT
punter, she did give me a photo of my dog with "Hi Dad" written in the sand. Nice touch, haha!

Tbh, I called an end to the relationship on Xmas Eve, didn't go to her family Xmas, left on Boxing Day and ruined her birthday on 29th Dec. I have moved on with a new girlfriend, which is probably the reason for the delayed backlash, when she found out it was one of her friends, after I **ed on her with her cousin. Her cousin was like her sister as she was brought up by her aunt and uncle from the age of 12 following the death of her natural parents.
Report Freshie • January 7, 2010 6:09 PM GMT
Thanks Dave, I am just using my overpaid lawyer for everything, and hoping he will see me right. Cheers.
Report Hoss • January 7, 2010 6:10 PM GMT
Freshie, seriously though, are you seething most at these girls for bringing charges, your wife's brother for having a gun or the wife for kicking you out in the 1st place.
Report The Magic Flea • January 7, 2010 6:11 PM GMT
fk me Freshie
you deserve everything you get, to be honest
Report Hoss • January 7, 2010 6:12 PM GMT
Sorry scratch option C.
Report Dick Quax • January 7, 2010 6:20 PM GMT
Can't blame her if she's bitter.

Wouldn't you be if she was climbing on your brother?

**thouse.
Report punterfleecer • January 7, 2010 6:23 PM GMT
leaving her on xmas eve, very smart, as for the rest of your post, shame on you, you haven't done yourself any favours on here
Report boxingthefox • January 7, 2010 6:24 PM GMT
This HAS to be a wind up!!
Report punterfleecer • January 7, 2010 6:24 PM GMT
thats what am beginning to think boxthefox
Report punterfleecer • January 7, 2010 6:25 PM GMT
the 10 friends thing was a bit unreal
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