Just wondered if any on here were Godparents, and, if so, how closely related to the child, how much involvement, communication or contact they have with the children etc.
Also, how much, if any, is spent on them for birthdays Christmas etc.
Just trying to get a steer as it has been suggested I am not doing enough!
i am a godfather, my god daughter is a grandmother now.
i never had much involvement, but would have done if required by her, or ,as asked by her parents should something nasty happen to them.
i am a godfather, my god daughter is a grandmother now.i never had much involvement, but would have done if required by her, or ,asasked by her parents should something nasty happen to them.
they seemed happy for me to be not involved, i still bump into her from time to time we get on quite well as it happens but if we didnt i would have still been happy to help out, if required.
they seemed happy for me to be not involved, i still bump into her from time to timewe get on quite well as it happens but if we didnt i would have still been happy tohelp out, if required.
some people pick godparents as a niceity; some really delve & think before deciding. It all depends on the relationship you have with the childs parents; if you are very close then i would treat presents to the godchild as i would to their parents. I am very close to my godchilds parents and would buy her the moon if it could be acquired
some people pick godparents as a niceity; some really delve & think before deciding. It all depends on the relationship you have with the childs parents; if you are very close then i would treat presents to the godchild as i would to their parents. I