Hey bodil, you've reminded me of one of the funniest moments, of which there are many, from Father Ted. Thank you and goodnight.
https://youtu.be/M6GHh6xnNJ0
Hey bodil, you've reminded me of one of the funniest moments, of which there are many, from Father Ted. Thank you and goodnight.https://youtu.be/M6GHh6xnNJ0
A lot of people think that the ban on women driving in Saudi Arabia is a result of their religious and/or cultural views. It is in fact a safety measure.
A lot of people think that the ban on women driving in Saudi Arabia is a result of their religious and/or cultural views. It is in fact a safety measure.
Saudi nurse Alya al-Shumari was honoured in the week for her fearless rescue of a man who was trapped in a car after a serious accident. Here she's seen receiving an award from Saudi Ministry of Health officials.
Surely you must remember her?
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The OP reminded me of this story - Saudi nurse Alya al-Shumari was honoured in the week for her fearless rescue of a man who was trapped in a car after a serious accident.Here she's seen receiving an award from Saudi Ministry of Health officials.Sure
The thinking by the fatwas or whatever they're called is that the woman driver might open a window while they're driving along. Air rushing past might cause the sleeve on their black robe thing to get blown back and reveal their wrist to a passing male driver or pedestrian.
No it's a stupid idea, imo, and could cause untold sexual frustrations.
Apparently a woman driving is not Islamic ...The thinking by the fatwas or whatever they're called is that the woman driver might open a window while they're driving along. Air rushing past might cause the sleeve on their black robe thing to get blow
This filthy habit is a rampant disease in todays society and one that effects both male and females alike. It is an issue we cannot take for granted and this thread is dedicated to finding ways to overcome the evil habit of self indulgence.
12 Tips to Help Control the Evil Habit of Masterbation
1. Never touch the intimate parts of your body except during normal toilet processes. Even if you get tempted, just think of Allah and the Prophet (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) and that Allah is watching you at all times and this urge will go away.
2. Avoid being alone as much as possible. Shaythan plays with the minds of those who sit around idle and not doing anything. Find good company and stay in this good company. Spend time with your family and close ones (Not Non mahrams). Find good company and stay in this good company. The best company are those who lead you towards good and not those who lead you in the wrong direction. Don't hang around with those girls who talk about sexual things and boys etc.
3. If you are associated with other persons having this same problem, you must break off their friendship. Never associate with other people having the same weakness. Don't suppose that two of you will quit together, you never will. You must get away from people of that kind. Just to be in their presence will keep your problem foremost in your mind. The problem must be taken out of your mind for that is where it really exists. Your mind must be on other and more wholesome things.
4. When you bathe, do not admire yourself in a mirror. Never stay in the bath more than five or six minutes -- just long enough to bathe and dry and dress and then get out of the bathroom as soon as possible because we are advised in the sunnah not to delay getting changed after a bath. We should dry ourselves and get into doing an act of worship.
5. When in bed, if that is where you have your problem for the most part, dress yourself for the night so securely that you cannot easily touch your vital parts, and so that it would be difficult and time consuming for you to remove those clothes. By the time you started to remove protective clothing you would have sufficiently controlled your thinking that the temptation would leave you. Sleep on your sides and NOT on your front or back. It is forbidden to sleep on your stomach and it is sunnah to sleep on your right side. Do dua's and Zikr until you fall asleep.
6. If the temptation seems overpowering while you are in bed, get out of bed and go into the kitchen and fix yourself a snack, even if it is in the middle of the night, and even if you are not hungry, and despite your fears of gaining weight. The purpose behind this suggestion is that you get your mind on something else. You are the subject of your thoughts, so to speak. If these thoughts come to you in the middle of the night then go and do wudu and pray Tahajjud and make much dua and cry in your dua's of Allah to increase you in imaan (Faith) and to help you resist your desires and to help you get married ASAP.
7. Find out when are your weakest times when your most likely to masterbate or touch yourself. When you have established on what times and occassions this occurs then you can plan what to do to avoid feeling temptations on thos particular occassions.
8. Never read pornographic material especially on the internet as these images will be stored in your head and it will make your problem worse. Try to keep your gaze low at all times. Never read about your problem. Keep it out of mind. Remember -- "First a thought, then an act." The thought pattern must be changed. You must not allow this problem to remain in your mind. When you accomplish that, you soon will be free of the act inshallah.
9. Put wholesome thoughts into your mind at all times. Read good Islamic books, the life of the Prophet (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) and his seerah, the life after death. There SO many interesting topics to read and learn about. Make a daily habit of reading at least one juz(Chapter) of Qur'an with its meanings.
Reading the Qur'an everyday with its meanings will bring countless blessings and rewards and bring you closer to Allah as well as keep you busy and occupied therefore keeping your mind off this problem.
10. Make much dua. But when you make dua don't just make dua about this problem, for that will tend to keep it in your mind more than ever. Make dua for increase of your iman(faith), Make dua for understanding of the Islam and the Qur'an, Make dua for your family and ALL Muslims especially the ones that are being oprressed, Pray for the sick and that we all unite as one. keep the problem out of your mind by not mentioning it ever --not in conversation with others, not inso much in your dua's. keep it out of your mind because if you keep mentioning it then it will stay in your mind!
11. Fast. You may have tried it before and it did'nt work but how can it work if we don't change our eating habits? If we eat little just to satisfy our stomachs then our fasting will be effective and restrict our sexual urges and capability's. But if we carry on over eating after our fasts then that food will impact on the stomach which will impact on our desires. So restrict the amount you eat before and after fasting and you will feel the benefits of fasting to stop your urges.
12. Finally the best solution of all- GET MARRIED. Give some urgency to your family about the need for you to get married sooner rather than later. Tell them of the benefits of getting married early and that it is a sunnah as the Prophet (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) recommended it as it will help avoid haraam(Forbidden) relations with non mahrams and getting married early will help eradicate this problem and mean that one can indulge in their sexual urges and desires legitamatley as well as recieve reward for it. The main reason why there is so many haraam relations out there is for the fact that our families are not getting their children married early enough as the Prophet (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) advised.
May Allah keep us away form anything that angers and displeases him. Ameen
Just a little taster from a forum.Exclamation How to Overcome Masturbation How to Overcome Masterbation This filthy habit is a rampant disease in todays society and one that effects both male and females alike. It is an issue we cannot take for
People call me a nazi and a racist for pointing this out - their lives are controlled by this stuff. One day relatively soon you will not be allowed to post or even discuss this in public. Already muslims are gaining footholds in all the important professions and politics. It will come to you all eventually. It is the will of allah they will tell you.
People call me a nazi and a racist for pointing this out - their lives are controlled by this stuff. One day relatively soon you will not be allowed to post or even discuss this in public. Already muslims are gaining footholds in all the important p
Anyone who has lived and worked there will confirm the crazy set of medieval values they have towards women and we have allowed them to send preachers to the UK to advise our muslims ????? The last time women tried to drive as i recall about 15 years ago 10 of them set out to the Fal shopping centre in Sulamainiya with their drivers (usually filipino staff) and took over the cars. Most of the drivers were sent home as it was their fault.At least one was drowned for bringing disgrace to their families,a couple were married off to very ,very old men up in the hills north of riyadh and several kept under house arrest by their disgraced families. The recent elections area step forward but remember that UK and Europe were very resistant to female emancipation 100 years ago too.
Anyone who has lived and worked there will confirm the crazy set of medieval values they have towards women and we have allowed them to send preachers to the UK to advise our muslims ????? The last time women tried to drive as i recall about 15 years
I'm not sure how we arrived at where we did but I can partially comment on the nursing angle. I remember when I was training back in the 80's there were plenty of nurses (male and female) went out to Saudi to work in their health service and they were very well remunerated. From memory at the time I think there was a nod and a wink given to western cultural practices unless you rubbed their noses in it. I honestly can't remember for sure about the females nursing men aspect but if a gun was put to my head I seem to remember that this was the case but with certain provisos.
I'm not sure how we arrived at where we did but I can partially comment on the nursing angle. I remember when I was training back in the 80's there were plenty of nurses (male and female) went out to Saudi to work in their health service and they wer
half the mosques here are duobandi and 80 percent of immams are foreign trained - these geezers will tie you up in knots over the arabic interpretation of the qur'an whenever you challenge them - but then you are not allowed to question anyway. The thing to cling to when you are being out classed because of ignorance of the qur'an or of arabic is that these people hate the west and wish to take over, convert or you will be in trouble.
half the mosques here are duobandi and 80 percent of immams are foreign trained - these geezers will tie you up in knots over the arabic interpretation of the qur'an whenever you challenge them - but then you are not allowed to question anyway. The
Saudis have been working hard clearing a nice big car park especially for the lady drivers to avoid the likelihood of them mischievously inflaming male passions by exposing a hint of flesh... currently it's called Yemen.
Saudis have been working hard clearing a nice big car park especially for the lady drivers to avoid the likelihood of them mischievously inflaming male passions by exposing a hint of flesh... currently it's called Yemen.
I have hit the red button so you will shortly disappear
race iz have no plaice on 'ere
our allies bombing yemen is all part of the global plan to enhance our aramaments shares
kloo so - that is very anti arabic of youI have hit the red button so you will shortly disappearrace iz have no plaice on 'ereour allies bombing yemen is all part of the global plan to enhance our aramaments shares
Saudi's interference in Yemen and Syria is going to backfire big time and Saudi will be the new Iraq/Syria, we will welcome ever more refugees of course. EO, your nursing pals enjoyed relatively relaxed treatment in the 80's although I did have to visit one of the first females to end up in Riyadh's women's prison,she didn't enjoy her spell ! It got more stupid until many of the younger Saudis began to take offence and they tightened up late 80's when the religious police were replaced by a younger,thuggish element as they tried,in vain,to get their young people into work.The de facto response was to pay them to study the Koran and become Imams in order to bribe them to support Abdullah when he was Crown Prince but all that has backfired as they have produced zealots after Afghanistan.
Saudi's interference in Yemen and Syria is going to backfire big time and Saudi will be the new Iraq/Syria, we will welcome ever more refugees of course.EO, your nursing pals enjoyed relatively relaxed treatment in the 80's although I did have to vis
Still Saudi Women are getting the vote so will probably vote themselves a driving licence
so it wont be only us who has to endure women drivers
Is it really of any importance to us?Still Saudi Women are getting the vote so will probably vote themselves a driving licenceso it wont be only us who has to endure women drivers