Not finding my true self and confidence until after Grammar School.
Not being assertive enough, and not learning to say no, instead of going along with stuff I wasn't happy with.
Being too self effacing instead of looking outwards and not inwards.
Being too concerned for others and neglecting myself.
More recently being selfish (within the family) and not supporting old and possible new friendships.
In defense of the latter is my acute deafness, which made group gatherings too embarrassing, and uncomfortable.
Hence, and for health reasons, retiring early in 2009 and spending too much time on here, which is not totally necessary as my apps can be left to sort out the business, without input from me, but I can't help myself from monitoring progress.
Anyway, having said all that, I am not totally screwed up yet, thankfully.