how do you get over lost love?

drink.............it always helps

try and find it again, where have you looked ?

doing that, it has a numbing quality but its not enough, and Ill sober up, what happens then?

I believe standard Chit Chat procedure is to advise you to rattle her sister

Or mother.

dont want to do the sister, the mother is too far gone

cant mate

Well with that kind of fussy attitude you'll never find anyone

yes you can 8sid, I know yours has been an ongoing long term sufering, mine has been about 10 hours

aww you sound sad. Its a hard one, I guess it is different for a woman but I cry, then eat lots of chocolate and then once Ive stopped crying, I go and get on with my life. Learn something new etc. Life then soon gets easier

sorry HRH, I do have some standards...and to be fair if you saw the sis and mother you wouldnt either, sober or drunk

I just lie on my right hand again until it goes numb again.

i would say either ride her friend, sister or the creme de la creme her mother.....or else meet her down the local some night,get her**ed and do her up the back alley

and for the record, inkeeping with chit chat protool, Ive already done the previous ex today

bloody hell, men ffs

that must had helped a bit.

not for long

oh fcuck it, cant be arsed, drink t is

Find a new one I suppose. Easier said than done. Basically, most people are quite sh*t. If you look hard enough to find the sh*t in ur previous love and focus solely on that, then you'll soon find you're not as arsed anymore. All about convincing yourself that you don't care and eventually, you genuinely won't.

:D

TOday I learnt she is with somone else properly

but thats makes me feel better for some reason

is focussing on her bad points a good strategy? telling myself she was sh!te anyway etc etc?

Yeah drink and the internet are the best options.

even though she was really good in other ways?

would you like to come to tescos with me

ps my mate also text me saying she has been asking about me as she has not heard from me.

weird, all she has to do is contact me

and thats why today im thinking, oh well..... just move on

I think I will soon

ps about bloody time

Who cares if she was good in other ways. The point is that she was sh*t in others. Remember them only. Ps hide your rose tinted glasses in a place where you'll never find them.

Sod drink and internet, rophynol and a trip to the sheep farm are the way forward

hope you do 8sid, you need to, I know I will, just hate this bit...Im going to tescos with greggs to get some more beer

Avoid at all costs comparing the ex to new girls too.

Good God! The man has lost the love of his life and now he's being thretened with being dragged to Tesco's, how much suffering can one heart endure?

she was very insecure, neurotic, clingy and needy, things I normally avoid like the plague

Becoming jaded and cynical helps also.

Guess she is not the one, dont sweat just pick your self up get through the stomach churning and get out there and live a little but dont lose your self respect.

tescos on a saturday evening is as low as it gets.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0OOFN1z45CI&feature=PlayList&p=7C88302D5F110E...

So with all those flaws RD, I presume the attraction was that she went like a train?

"get through the stomach churning"

you have clearly been their quiet man, its bloody horrible that feeling

she was skilled HRH, certainly, but she did have lots of other qualities too it wasnt all bad

The waves of horribleness that wash over when you remember that you've not got them anymore? Yeah, that sucks.

have you tried begging her to come back yet ?

nothing wrong with tescos on a saturday night, get me alcohol and dinner then go out later

begging?? fcuck that, my baseline instinct tells me that if ever I have to beg, Ive lost it...Im not begging (although in moments of profound sadness and loss I do feel like it) Im from the north

get your coat greggs, Ive pulled

Any man who agrees to go to Tesco's without at least a token show of resistance has clearly had his spirit broken

Also, you can always kid yourself that at some point in the future you might get back together.. content yourself with this notion.. crack on with your day to day life with that in the back of your mind. Then cherish and relish the day when you wake up and actually don't give a rat's arse about her anymore. 'Tis something to look forward to if nothing else.

And no texting her later when you have had a few ;)

Listen to Michael Buble's 'Haven't met you yet' for future inspiration too.

"Any man who agrees to go to Tesco's without at least a token show of resistance has clearly had his spirit broken2

Im on my 5th beer, my heart has been kicked around the living room, tescos suddenly appears like a dove clutching the olive branch, did to noahs ark

I suppose ive got to hide the phil collins records now?

you need to get a couple of drinks down ya and get dancing

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LSb6e3grdL8

Avoid at all costs.

Golden Girl 05 Sep 18:24


Also, you can always kid yourself that at some point in the future you might get back together.. content yourself with this notion.. crack on with your day to day life with that in the back of your mind. Then cherish and relish the day when you wake up and actually don't give a rat's arse about her anymore. 'Tis something to look forward to if nothing else.


Spot on. And if you do manage to find someone else who actually matters more than a quick fumble with another ex for the sake of it, then you'll move on a lot more quickly than you thought possible.

right, there is a lass I have met at work, Im pretty sure she likes me, if there was a market I reckon it would be slightly odds on, I am in a position whereby I can arrange a legitimate professional meeting with her and I can hatch a master plan, she is indian and cute with big brown eyes, is this a good strategy?

" cherish and relish the day when you wake up and actually don't give a rat's arse about her anymore."

having lived alone for two years I used to wake up feeling that and I liked it, life was sooo uncomplicated

No imo cos she'll pale in insignificance when compared to who you refer to as your 'lost love' and make you feel even more depressed about future relationship endeavours'. Wait a bit imo.

Did I mention this is imo? Good stuff.

RONALDINHO

iv takent the next step, deleted her number and all her photos

you cant delete her from your heart 8sid

GG - you could set up as Chit Chat's Agony Aunt, just stay the **c away from 'the politics of texting within a relationship' as subject matter though. ;)

Fair play 8sid. Impressive work.

golden girl really is a golden girl

Damn - Ive yet to get hold of those walkie talkies!

:)

virgin (nap)

Yes - I'm saving myself for the wrong woman

dont bother
plenty more fish in t'sea

think Ive weathered a mini 'heart storm' lads and lasses, feel better (drunker) now

Get yourself a blow up dull rd. Very loyal, never got a headache, or the pianters in & don't moan (unless you squeeze 'em too tight) ;-)enjoy m8

*BREAKING NEWS* she has just text me, drunk I hasten to add, wants me to go round tomorrow

This isn't gonna' turn in to a 'Calvinator 2, revenge of the ducks' thread is it?

I hope you told her that you have already being seeing your ex.

god no Sonko, far too much of a gentleman to do that

:D

Time is a great healer

Drink is unquestionably the base around which to build a solid recovery. However the trump card is smashing the remnants of the relationship into smithereens.
There are probably some 66/1 quotes in the back of your mind about getting back together, these need to be eradicated by any means possible, even if means absolute kamikaze behaviour on your part. Fire off a torrent of vindicative, nasty abuse after a few drinks, even throwing in the odd lie if needs be.
This needs to be a sustained night long attack, not just one airy fairy text. The loathing she will have for you after this will ensure any kind of relationship is completely irretrievable. This kind of mutual hatred (even if based on false pretences) is very cathartic. Job done.

time, its the only way

kin hell BS are you a labour spin doctor?

Time. Eventually it gets over you. And nothing matters.


Anyone got a bottle? Any bottle?

looooooooool

it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all!

indeed

just like 1967

wer u at nxt week. glasgow?

:)

yes

ken any specific pubs in glasgow city centre full of tics?

wudnt no live in ireland

right ok

susan**is single

doles at E200 in Ireland?

perhaps a UK betfair forum isn't the best place to ask about banking regulations?

did u just say! Susan**is single? Get in

Sleep cures everything. As does time. So many exits.