New Posts For Thread: Counselling Services. Maykbe or Judorick around?https://community.betfair.com/chit_chat/go/thread/view/94038/30269295/counselling-services-maykbe-or-judorick-aroundDoes anyone know if Relate is a counselling service which only assists couples who wish to salvage their marriage/relationship/partnership? I ask because a mate of mine is in the death throws of a sh1tty marriage and is trying to sort things out, butTell your mate to phone the police and report the self harm, and if possible, speak to whoever he needs to, to get her sectioned and away from the kids. If he lets this run, and the kids go into care, he is screwed.https://community.betfair.com/chit_chat/go/thread/view/94038/30269295/counselling-services-maykbe-or-judorick-around?post_id=539487191#539487191Tell your mate to phone the police and report the self harm, and if possible, speak to whoever he needs to, to get her sectioned and away from the kids. If he lets this run, and the kids go into care, he is screwed.Tue, 20 May 2014 15:56:50 -0500@SultanIf the kids are still young and at home he should approach Social Services and inform them of her self harming tendencies.This would get it out in the open and leave him less vulnerable to being accused of inflicting the wounds. To repeat whathttps://community.betfair.com/chit_chat/go/thread/view/94038/30269295/counselling-services-maykbe-or-judorick-around?post_id=539487039#539487039@SultanIf the kids are still young and at home he should approach Social Services and inform them of her self harming tendencies.This would get it out in the open and leave him less vulnerable to being accused of inflicting the wounds. To repeat whatTue, 20 May 2014 15:45:22 -0500Relate is no good.He needs a good lawyer that specialises in family, mediation and collaborative law. It could get complicated with a Mesh Order but he needs to stand his ground.https://community.betfair.com/chit_chat/go/thread/view/94038/30269295/counselling-services-maykbe-or-judorick-around?post_id=539486665#539486665Relate is no good.He needs a good lawyer that specialises in family, mediation and collaborative law. It could get complicated with a Mesh Order but he needs to stand his ground.Tue, 20 May 2014 15:21:46 -0500AG fwiw my advice to him has been not to move out. Why should he? Also since she's hysterical half the time and self harming, I'd be concerned for the kids' welfare.https://community.betfair.com/chit_chat/go/thread/view/94038/30269295/counselling-services-maykbe-or-judorick-around?post_id=539486079#539486079AG fwiw my advice to him has been not to move out. Why should he? Also since she's hysterical half the time and self harming, I'd be concerned for the kids' welfare.Tue, 20 May 2014 14:46:54 -0500First rule especially for men with kids.Never leave the family.- He will automatically become the non resident parent and will have to go through the ball ache of visitation arrangements etc.If one of them has to leave then it should be her. He can shttps://community.betfair.com/chit_chat/go/thread/view/94038/30269295/counselling-services-maykbe-or-judorick-around?post_id=539485853#539485853First rule especially for men with kids.Never leave the family.- He will automatically become the non resident parent and will have to go through the ball ache of visitation arrangements etc.If one of them has to leave then it should be her. He can sTue, 20 May 2014 14:34:07 -0500noted spelling cheers - hadn't considered the self harming thing being twisted to appear like assault. Bloody hell.https://community.betfair.com/chit_chat/go/thread/view/94038/30269295/counselling-services-maykbe-or-judorick-around?post_id=539485669#539485669noted spelling cheers - hadn't considered the self harming thing being twisted to appear like assault. Bloody hell.Tue, 20 May 2014 14:26:30 -0500If she is already self harming then the alarm bells are ringing very loudly. She wants him out of the house, my money is on her calling the old bill at some stage soon and accusing him of assault. The police will charge him, despite no evidence and phttps://community.betfair.com/chit_chat/go/thread/view/94038/30269295/counselling-services-maykbe-or-judorick-around?post_id=539485579#539485579If she is already self harming then the alarm bells are ringing very loudly. She wants him out of the house, my money is on her calling the old bill at some stage soon and accusing him of assault. The police will charge him, despite no evidence and pTue, 20 May 2014 14:22:02 -0500he is pretty much screwed imohttps://community.betfair.com/chit_chat/go/thread/view/94038/30269295/counselling-services-maykbe-or-judorick-around?post_id=539485317#539485317he is pretty much screwed imoTue, 20 May 2014 14:07:00 -0500thats a good idea B-Bhttps://community.betfair.com/chit_chat/go/thread/view/94038/30269295/counselling-services-maykbe-or-judorick-around?post_id=539485291#539485291thats a good idea B-BTue, 20 May 2014 14:06:11 -0500I'm sure his local CAB could point him in the right direction HHhttps://community.betfair.com/chit_chat/go/thread/view/94038/30269295/counselling-services-maykbe-or-judorick-around?post_id=539485263#539485263I'm sure his local CAB could point him in the right direction HHTue, 20 May 2014 14:04:49 -0500