New Posts For Thread: child custody/ contacthttps://community.betfair.com/chit_chat/go/thread/view/94038/23429226/child-custody-contactMy soon to be ex-wife turned out not only to be a complete slapper but also a psycho. I now live in another town about 70 miles away, we have a 1 year old son. When we first split, she went to a solicitor and claimed that because I'd moved away I couCheers Sibaroni, I've joinedhttps://community.betfair.com/chit_chat/go/thread/view/94038/23429226/child-custody-contact?post_id=418051562#418051562Cheers Sibaroni, I've joinedSat, 26 Dec 2009 14:08:46 -0600I would invite you guys to take a look at Families Need Fathers. They are not the bunch of nuts who climb up buildings, but an impressive pressure group dedicated to changing the very biased system. I am not active, but am a member. Happy to sendhttps://community.betfair.com/chit_chat/go/thread/view/94038/23429226/child-custody-contact?post_id=418051362#418051362I would invite you guys to take a look at Families Need Fathers. They are not the bunch of nuts who climb up buildings, but an impressive pressure group dedicated to changing the very biased system. I am not active, but am a member. Happy to sendSat, 26 Dec 2009 05:22:16 -0600the bitterness is the hardest thing to let go of.you have to get over her , that takes time but is easy enough.then she starts using the kids against you , they know when they cant touch you anymore so use the kids.at least you are seeing the kids anhttps://community.betfair.com/chit_chat/go/thread/view/94038/23429226/child-custody-contact?post_id=418051358#418051358the bitterness is the hardest thing to let go of.you have to get over her , that takes time but is easy enough.then she starts using the kids against you , they know when they cant touch you anymore so use the kids.at least you are seeing the kids anSat, 26 Dec 2009 05:18:42 -0600and good luckhttps://community.betfair.com/chit_chat/go/thread/view/94038/23429226/child-custody-contact?post_id=418051342#418051342and good luckSat, 26 Dec 2009 04:51:12 -0600If it helps, my son was two and half when we seperated. It was a nightmare for the first year. My lad and I are as thick as thieves now, he is ten. As close as my Dad and I were, which is what I always hoped for. Just stick in.https://community.betfair.com/chit_chat/go/thread/view/94038/23429226/child-custody-contact?post_id=418051338#418051338If it helps, my son was two and half when we seperated. It was a nightmare for the first year. My lad and I are as thick as thieves now, he is ten. As close as my Dad and I were, which is what I always hoped for. Just stick in.Sat, 26 Dec 2009 04:50:55 -0600i did do a dna test, i thought that was pretty sensible as she was **ing when he was only 8 months old. We were married so I do have parental responsibility, as I said I'm not planning to do it, but as one poster here said, as far as I can see there'https://community.betfair.com/chit_chat/go/thread/view/94038/23429226/child-custody-contact?post_id=418051262#418051262i did do a dna test, i thought that was pretty sensible as she was **ing when he was only 8 months old. We were married so I do have parental responsibility, as I said I'm not planning to do it, but as one poster here said, as far as I can see there'Sat, 26 Dec 2009 04:21:22 -0600Run her over.https://community.betfair.com/chit_chat/go/thread/view/94038/23429226/child-custody-contact?post_id=418051210#418051210Run her over.Fri, 25 Dec 2009 18:23:46 -0600She sounds like a right catch !https://community.betfair.com/chit_chat/go/thread/view/94038/23429226/child-custody-contact?post_id=418051206#418051206She sounds like a right catch !Fri, 25 Dec 2009 18:18:21 -0600op sounds bitter still and that's understandable.however , you have an agreement in place and its best to try and work things out between you. a mediator seems a good idea.forget about court , im still in the middle of my case.i went in with an openhttps://community.betfair.com/chit_chat/go/thread/view/94038/23429226/child-custody-contact?post_id=418051202#418051202op sounds bitter still and that's understandable.however , you have an agreement in place and its best to try and work things out between you. a mediator seems a good idea.forget about court , im still in the middle of my case.i went in with an openFri, 25 Dec 2009 18:15:20 -0600She may get worse, she may not. But you will need very good details to get custody of a child in what is basically a system endemically biased against men. And I am a barrister, by the way.Keep a diary, this is strong advice. I have had exactly thhttps://community.betfair.com/chit_chat/go/thread/view/94038/23429226/child-custody-contact?post_id=418051198#418051198She may get worse, she may not. But you will need very good details to get custody of a child in what is basically a system endemically biased against men. And I am a barrister, by the way.Keep a diary, this is strong advice. I have had exactly thFri, 25 Dec 2009 17:45:28 -0600